In real life Vanraj is hero? True or false

I basically do not consider vanraj as hero (just to clarify my view)

But in real life its people like vanraj who are considered as hero and get success in life

Look at bollywood - who are very successful and hero worshiped - salman, akshay, SRK, saif etc all who have had controversial life affairs, women abusers etc

Not a suniel shetty or bobby deol or irfan khan who are one woman men no affairs no controversy no hitting in public no creating scenes kind of people are all flops or can never be super stars (no matter how good actors )

How exactly do non actors like salman or akshay stay strong for 35 years thru controversy and affairs etc

Its same in every other field you see be it business or politics

We may say anuj kapadia is hero in serial but in real life society considers vanraj types as hero and worship them and give chance after chances

Same is case of hollywood or other movie industry not only a bollywood

And people like vanraj know how to become successful by not showing their true nature and changing as per situation they know how to manipulate others emotions

Compare that to a anuj kapadia who handed over his hard earned business to malvika because of vanraj manipulation and who does business honestly - hes bound to fail or get his business snatched hby someone like vanraj etc

And unlike the serial or movie a anuj kapadia will not be drooled over by masses and public in real life actually and given chances after chances

They will be relegated to struggle somewhere and die a non publicized deaths

Only controversial people shall be remembered when they die actually by news channel or society because they had given them juicy contents to talk

Like vanraj has anupama, kavya, Malvika controversy and snatching of anuj empire to talk about

Look at hindi movies and even hollywood totally masculinity shown - like KGF hero kidnaps heroine and makes her his mistress till she accepts him, or most 90s and early 2000s movies had this concept, 70s amitabh movies were similar and they are all super hit. People love such heroes who dominate heroines or who tame the shrews into submission

If an anuj kapdai character becomes hero in movie that movie will flop for sure

I giess rajesh khanna and dilip kumar are role models to anuj kapdia because their movies hero was similar to anuj

In cricket too look at the famous guys who remain famous for what for their controversy usually. All have forgotten a decent VVS Lakshman or Rahul dravids. All hero worship a chest thumping kohli or yuvrhj or harbhajans etc

In real life whether its business or acting or cricket or any sports etc controversy rocks and gets success over a decent human like anuj kapadia always

Do you think a anuj kapadia will succeed in real life?

OR

Do vanrajs dominate world and society?