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Posted: 3 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9


Sorry to comment even when I was not involved but Meher,


how come Abhi is reason she took drugs? I mean, Abhi did not even influenced her or even gave her those medicine. Bacchi hai kya Aarohi?


I mean, yeah, he was wrong in the bashing without any apparent proof but he totally had his reasons and Aarohi is a major part of those. She has lied and lied and lied.


I mean I don't get it. How come Aarohi becomes the victim ?

Noor, if you see those accident before episodes, after tilak Abhi showed Ar mirror that she is Jealous of Ak. Neil always does. And then he never trusts her against ak. Because of his past experience. It's natural because we too don't trust Ar anytime. Ak and Goenkas are blood of ar so they don't take much headache like us or scrutiny her each and every actions words spoken as they are used to it from childhood. But outsiders like mahima, abhi and neil point her where she is wrong. That hits her ego always. Next day near abhis room another cat Fight. and the staff in hospital told ak is better for abhi. Again her insecurities raised . Next was card Puja where she didn't do on her own. But abhi bashed her badly. Imagine a girl left over in shadi mandap though her deeds are not acceptable. Her trauma we can analyse and she is coping that as her faults and accepted her sisters love for him..ar always felt she is alone when ak gets something or when all love and Pampers her more. It's her character flaw which will never change. And unintentionally done deeds of ar are bashed by abhi in card Puja. So her head was ringing with why abhi hates me she can't take that hatred. We got her dialogues also. Hate is a big word to accept by anyone. She has taken medicines for that to have relief. So unintentionally abhi is reason for that though we don't agree for that. Look at the way cvs hook ar, abhi, ak always and pull out Ar as victim and abhira are cheaters. If ar never went for abhi initially the story would have been different. They hooked ak by sacrificing and abhi going for ar on his own for his mom's wishes. So it's abhis fault then also to go for ar against ak. Ak fault to chose ar sacrifice abhi. So all three were at fault and they pulled abhira after ak confession and threw ar away as left over bride of abhi. So all three are dumped again..now too the same process continues. And in abhira life ar is always shown as victim as both abhira ran away on the day of ar marriage. They can't avoid it. As they are all same family they adjust that way without taking old stuff but keep ar in and around ak all the time. As human being she too feels for the loss she had but she accepted them slowly as destined though she is grey. Arohi is never trusted unless she is proven totally right anytime in the story. Till then no trust on her as viewers. We shod hold Neil to see and understand Ar. Because he is the best. Abhi is too much in emotions to ak so with his old experience he will not let her near him.
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Posted: 3 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301


Totally understand your anger and sadness. But look at this way. Abhira will be stronger for having gone through this angst.

Abhi needs to see that he is putting too much pressure and burden on Akshu with his 'I only love her, trust her and no one else'. Everyone makes mistakes and like I keep saying everyone has other people they love and may need to prioritise at times. But Abhi, he decided only Akshu matters and no one else and has hurt people for that.

It is frustrating that Akshu is made to be so dumb and cold towards him especially when he does nothing but showers love on her.

They both will learn to be more moderate in their love. Akshu will learn that there is no other love like Abhi and that if she is not to lose him forever, she now has to wear her love on her sleeve like he does. So she may be shouting out 'I only love Abhi, only trust him and no one else' soon by word or by deed.

This whole subplot is to make them aware that passion is good and all that but real love, with understanding, compassion and empathy is the real love everyone should be attaining for.


I agree that this track is another testing phase for AbhiRa. This is trust and communication.


@bold completely agree 👏


Right now Abhi to me looks like some overly obsessed person. He has put Akshara on such a high pedestal. She is human and she is going to make mistakes. Elder Birlas are toxic due to the fact that every marriage in that household has issues and are somewhat loveless. Abhi has already unknowingly stirred the pot there to make it so Akshara’s entry into that house is going to be a challenge. He pissed off Mahima with the kheer issue and the jealouy comment, he irked Anand by not discussing the music department with him, and Harshvardhan is generally ticked off by his Akshu jaap. Manjari had warned him that he needs to make Akshara’s entry smooth but he has made matters worse and instead of entering a more welcoming environment Akshara is entering a slaughter house. I find at times Abhi actually makes things worse by the way he responds. Sometimes he is right and has a point but they way he conveys it ends being wrong. So he has basically caused Akshara be unliked by the Birla elders.


Akshara is looking insensitive because she really thinks Abhi forgive her and Arohi and that Manjari also wants this case closed. Abhi generally ignores Arohi so him not speaking to Arohi or otherwise would be normal. She has seen Manjari's influence on Abhi so why wouldn't she think if Manjari told Abhi to forget the issue that he wouldn't just let it go? Akshara has also witnessed Abhi doing something for Arohi only because she is related to her. His love for her also compels him to do things. So in some way she trusts in Abhi's love for her that he is forgiving them. And because of this and the way the writers have set things up with the cheating during the dance which honestly could have been done by someone else in the family 🤔 All Akshara could have said was it was just fun and games to side with her family without looking totally questionable to the Birla family. She did have a guilty look when he fell not that made it look any better on her. She is looking very guilty and in a bad light.


I agree with some of the other opinions that at the very least Akshara should have a private conversation with Manjari to thank her for forgiving her and Arohi. But these writers 🤔 One scene to show this would have reinforced the miscommunication going on and show Akshara still has guilt thus carrying favor with the audience to be on her side a little more. All they had to do was have Akshara apologize and thank Manjari and Manjari thinking its something else and then someone interrupts the conversation thus misunderstanding reminds. Hence the writing is so sloppy. It needs to be tighter.


The test is will Abhi stand by Akshara and go and talk to her first before he lashes out in public? He has to trust that Akshara would say something as this is too big to hide. Or is he going to allow his insecurities and anger take over and blast Arohi and Akshara in public?

Posted: 3 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: iheartChai


The Anupama scene was to highlight what Akshara needs to do in this next phase of her life. She is getting married and she needs to be able to balance the relationship with her soon to be husband, his family, and her family.


This Abhira story is the journey of that growth. Abhi is not prefect nor is Akshara and they are going to make mistakes. If they were prefect and understood each other perfectly then there would be no show. It just ends. The only problem is the writers are not doing justice to the story they want to show. They are not doing justice to the cast. We have so many wonderfully talented actors on this show and the script is not supporting their acting talent.


I thought Akshara's answers were reasonable. She sees Abhi as a good man and when you give him a little love he gives so much back meaning he loves with his whole heart. I don't see anything wrong there.


Abhi’s I believe is because Akshara is pure love. He fall in love with her voice first. She tries her best to balance everyone.

Abhiras words for each other are right. Ak is pure love . She loves everyone in her way with whole heart taking all flaws and wrath from others. She is not fast or jumps ahead . Her slow war always wins everyone with her patience, understanding and sacrifices. What she needs to change is she should prioritise Abhi more as he is giving her more. Her way of balancing family and love will slowly start after marriage. In her view all are equal for her. But what abhi expects is him to be her world. Ak being this will bring changes in his family relations which were all rotten before. Their old problems or issues will be solved with her interference next and slowly she wins everyone's love by giving love to all. It's always family which stays with us in any situations so they highlight all those aspects instead of single love and nuclear family staying unless needed. Abhis love for ak has no bounds any time. It's unconditional and he has no expectations in return . He simply wants him to be centre of her life against her family . Ak has come long way till now breaking her shackles from Ar and chosing Abhi. It will strengthen more after marriage. In real life too one person gives more love one time and another person gives in another time. Standing together when problems come and strengthening the bond with understanding is necessary always. And words spoken will be balanced by actions shown always. Balancing relations is the most important thing. They need to keep their love married life strong along with other relations in tact.
Posted: 3 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: iheartChai


I agree that this track is another testing phase for AbhiRa. This is trust and communication.


@bold completely agree 👏


Right now Abhi to me looks like some overly obsessed person. He has put Akshara on such a high pedestal. She is human and she is going to make mistakes. Elder Birlas are toxic due to the fact that every marriage in that household has issues and are somewhat loveless. Abhi has already unknowingly stirred the pot there to make it so Akshara’s entry into that house is going to be a challenge. He pissed off Mahima with the kheer issue and the jealouy comment, he irked Anand by not discussing the music department with him, and Harshvardhan is generally ticked off by his Akshu jaap. Manjari had warned him that he needs to make Akshara’s entry smooth but he has made matters worse and instead of entering a more welcoming environment Akshara is entering a slaughter house. I find at times Abhi actually makes things worse by the way he responds. Sometimes he is right and has a point but they way he conveys it ends being wrong. So he has basically caused Akshara be unliked by the Birla elders.


Akshara is looking insensitive because she really thinks Abhi forgive her and Arohi and that Manjari also wants this case closed. Abhi generally ignores Arohi so him not speaking to Arohi or otherwise would be normal. She has seen Manjari's influence on Abhi so why wouldn't she think if Manjari told Abhi to forget the issue that he wouldn't just let it go? Akshara has also witnessed Abhi doing something for Arohi only because she is related to her. His love for her also compels him to do things. So in some way she trusts in Abhi's love for her that he is forgiving them. And because of this and the way the writers have set things up with the cheating during the dance which honestly could have been done by someone else in the family 🤔 All Akshara could have said was it was just fun and games to side with her family without looking totally questionable to the Birla family. She did have a guilty look when he fell not that made it look any better on her. She is looking very guilty and in a bad light.


I agree with some of the other opinions that at the very least Akshara should have a private conversation with Manjari to thank her for forgiving her and Arohi. But these writers 🤔 One scene to show this would have reinforced the miscommunication going on and show Akshara still has guilt thus carrying favor with the audience to be on her side a little more. All they had to do was have Akshara apologize and thank Manjari and Manjari thinking its something else and then someone interrupts the conversation thus misunderstanding reminds. Hence the writing is so sloppy. It needs to be tighter.


The test is will Abhi stand by Akshara and go and talk to her first before he lashes out in public? He has to trust that Akshara would say something as this is too big to hide. Or is he going to allow his insecurities and anger take over and blast Arohi and Akshara in public?

Well pointed Grace. After a long time happy to see you on this page.

Ar...she didn't like anyone in between ak and herself. Ar is close to ak only though ar is selfish but she trusts only ak for her all deeds and admits too. She can't play as hidden game more time and ak catches her easily when ar is doing some khaands. It's all shown before and ar never listens to ak but holds ak to be with her and in end ak dumps ar for saving herself and truth. Ar and ak never allowed kv or vansh or their own family. That's always a minus for them..kv didn't interfere much in between them as he knows they sort their things slowly. When ak and ar had a patchup after many years kv was standing away in tears for them but didn't intrude. That's their relationship always. Though ar is grey she has love for ak. When ak is in trouble ar can't leave her anytime. This too they have shown many times. Ar can't bear the fact that abhi snatched ak from her. In a way it seems posesiveness for me . Like how abhi pulls ak in love , ar too pulls ak towards her in her selfish way. Abhi when warned ar that if you give any problem to my akshu i can't bear it. That hit her hard. She can't take the fact that someone showed her mirror and is strongly protecting ak. Mein apni behn se pyar nahi karti kya is her dialogue then .if ak choses abhi over ar, ar is pissed off and same way for abhi. That's why the triangle is always there in their life.

Abhi ..his extra posessive obsessive love for Akshu. He wants her as whole but this girl is like whoever she loves gives them.her live equally. She made abhi along with her family. But when she choses birkas it's her actions only always . If she doesn't love abhi ni need to bear tantrums of mahima or Harsh. When abhi counters his family for ak , she does not like it so she asks him to set his relationship with them .mahi scolded her for Abhis food allergy , kheer making and now for accident indirectly..but she bears them quietly giving respect as elders. She was worried for harsh and abhi when they counter each other. She had lost her parents so she knows the value of people. Total story of season3 is Ak khud se khud ka safar through Abhimanyu. He teaches her to stand herself and chose her priorities and she teaches him value of family. All his elders are pissed of because of his over importance to ak. Slowly she will make her place on her own. Elders are scared of their respect now as abhi never gives them any importance or takes their permission for anything. Most important thing which i liked was abhira do what they want first and next inform elders. That's according to this generation so their parents sulk but accept it.

Regarding ak in this track writers kept her purposely so that something drops on their head in end.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Akshara saw normal husband wife couple in her family. Greatest example for her grandparents n parents. Cheating in marriage function is not big deal for Goenkas.

Abhi saw only loveless marriage in his life that's why he don't want to get married. When ak actually start living in Birla house then she understands Abhi insecurity why he carved for love. She just saw the trailer.

Main origin of abhi insecurity is majiri Harsh relationship. He also started feeling he will get sidelined like majiri.

Looking at harsh advice something major happened in his life that's why his behaviour is like this towards majiri.

Seems harsh also loved somebody but got cheated and got stuck with majiri. But definitely he is not person to get relationship advice.

Look like cv's main focus is abhimanyu. They are not giving proper storyline to others or screen space. They really butcher ak character in built up abhi's insecurity no one expect from her.

I really wish ak should leave birla hospital and join somewhere else becoz abhi cannot take stand for her everywhere. In that process he is invited trouble for both even one day majiri also go against him. In yesterday episode they given hint about it.

Majiri is not trusted she get easily influenced by anyone mahima harsh anand. But she will not stand by abhi like tilak until harsh give permission to her. Hope cv show growth in majiri not making her another vamp we already has so many.

Posted: 3 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

Did anyone saw today episode?

Clearly Anupama said you are in relationship with Abhi but you are not there. You are with ur sister. Woh dump kabhi nahi sudhregi and makers know everything phir bhi.

Ok now next when Abhira talk about each other Abhi clearly said why he fell in love with her but AK doesn't have a definite answer why she fell in love and when she fell in love. So makers need to focus on these. Otherwise how a lead can be so much in love with ML.

Pls maker's before this grand wedding make this relationship perfect. Not everything to be perfect but atleast the love should be perfect.

What do you guys think?


Akshu is someone who had grown without much knowledge about love Or relationship. From what we all know since start abhi is the first ever outsider and one who loved her since start otherwise it's always have been her family and her sister for her.


Her parents too who should have guided her in such moments of life to talk about relationships is not their with her and her grandparents as far as I know I don't think they too guided her much over it.


If that was the case they would have tried to understand akshu at very start and saved abhira relationship.


The girl had been bound in family shackles for years now it isn't going to be a one day process for her to come out of it.


She already broke her first shackle and came out of her guilt and trauma over parents death.


Now her next step towards relationships is her learning to balance all relationship which isn't going to be a over night thing.


Everything from ak will be on her own pace she is like aaj ka aaj kal ka kal.


She has no headache over next month IPL finals only cares about today match and we are all kicked their.


Why she loves abhi she isn't going to chant that daily in front of all. Sometimes you just love a person with no reason.


Though Akshu did confess on fire accident time that abhi is the hope in her life to breathe. He indeed was her hope who took her away from darkness and showed light in her dull life.


No relationship is going to be perfect and their whole story revolves around a mismatched couple so we will see one type or the other type of imperfect moments where they struggle to make them a better relationship if not for a perfect one.

Posted: 3 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: hari15


Akshu is someone who had grown without much knowledge about love Or relationship. From what we all know since start abhi is the first ever outsider and one who loved her since start otherwise it's always have been her family and her sister for her.


Her parents too who should have guided her in such moments of life to talk about relationships is not their with her and her grandparents as far as I know I don't think they too guided her much over it.


If that was the case they would have tried to understand akshu at very start and saved abhira relationship.


The girl had been bound in family shackles for years now it isn't going to be a one day process for her to come out of it.


She already broke her first shackle and came out of her guilt and trauma over parents death.


Now her next step towards relationships is her learning to balance all relationship which isn't going to be a over night thing.


Everything from ak will be on her own pace she is like aaj ka aaj kal ka kal.


She has no headache over next month IPL finals only cares about today match and we are all kicked their.


Why she loves abhi she isn't going to chant that daily in front of all. Sometimes you just love a person with no reason.


Though Akshu did confess on fire accident time that abhi is the hope in her life to breathe. He indeed was her hope who took her away from darkness and showed light in her dull life.


No relationship is going to be perfect and their whole story revolves around a mismatched couple so we will see one type or the other type of imperfect moments where they struggle to make them a better relationship if not for a perfect one.

slow and steady wins the race. That's her formula always. Ar jumped like hare seeing abhi as her ladder to climb for her career goals. But ak as a tortoise started her game and took over the race when hare was sleeping ..The girl dropped her sister in airport and by the time ar came in and ready as bride everything changed. None can expect this and no sibling can take this. 😂. Ak has no other option exceot chose Abhi orelse he could have gone away throwing both.
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Posted: 3 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Leaving a person if they hit any is a mistake for not checking back..this becomes social track for awareness in society. Abhi will excuse ak but in his mind this will be there forever and he will point out when needed. Negligence on sisters will be highlighted. And for ar drugs abhi is reason. Abhira are made cheaters and ar a victim again like last track. This kalank will never go from their life. Ar gets sympathy out of all nonsense she makes.

abhi to usse pehle bhi sunata tha..pehli bar thodi hai..woh ak ko kitna torture karti thi ak ne to kabhi nai liye..🤨

And her saying tht abhi hates me in the drug over dose looked stupid to me because abhi ne to pehle bhi kabhi pasand nai kiya..🤔
She shouldn’t be shown victim this time becoz her leaving like tht without checking n taking this accident lightly was so wrong..😖

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

Did anyone saw today episode?

Clearly Anupama said you are in relationship with Abhi but you are not there. You are with ur sister. Woh dump kabhi nahi sudhregi and makers know everything phir bhi.

Ok now next when Abhira talk about each other Abhi clearly said why he fell in love with her but AK doesn't have a definite answer why she fell in love and when she fell in love. So makers need to focus on these. Otherwise how a lead can be so much in love with ML.

Pls maker's before this grand wedding make this relationship perfect. Not everything to be perfect but atleast the love should be perfect.

What do you guys think?

Love is a very complicated emotion.. if u start finding the reasons for loving sombdy.. its never true love.. Love doesnt have reasons.. u simply love a person... with its flaws and strengths.. and When u love a person.. u simply cant love only the strength.. u need to accept their flaws too... and then that relationship becomes almost perfect.. i love my father.. i love my mother.. i love my brother... Do we search reasons for it?? we cant find reasons.. we simply love them and accept them as they are.. its the same for ur boyfriend or ur husband too... if u find reasons for loving a person... and in future if those reasons disappear... will u stop loving the person?????? if u do so then its conditional love!!!!

Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: pbv3434

abhi to usse pehle bhi sunata tha..pehli bar thodi hai..woh ak ko kitna torture karti thi ak ne to kabhi nai liye..🤨

And her saying tht abhi hates me in the drug over dose looked stupid to me because abhi ne to pehle bhi kabhi pasand nai kiya..🤔
She shouldn’t be shown victim this time becoz her leaving like tht without checking n taking this accident lightly was so wrong..😖

Cvs are purposely showing ar as victim against abhira always. They are consistent in that. Because she is not to.be shown vamp by them.tjey adjust leads that way in mistakes against her. All three are always that way dumped back with ar on one side and abhi pulls ak out from ar chakravyuh and families on other side making a square layer after some days of crying rootna manana all do ghumar in circle together with abhira in centre.

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