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Eagerly waiting for ur analysis..😊

Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

Yup waiting...

Originally posted by: pbv3434

me too..👍🏼

Take your sweet time..we will be waiting

Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

It's not degrading she is right in her side doing a simple mischief but since we are insecure abt her family jaab we don't like it. When Abhi blast her left right center ( if any) we will sympathies AK because we know when Abhi is angry he can't control it. So waiting for tomorrow

Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

I have a doubt. They have shown till now that Abhira is soulmate and there is that connection. Whatever happens to AK Abhi feels it but AK doesn't. Why is that way? Did I miss anything?

She just felt anxious that something bad is going to happen other than that there was nothing. When she first came for Sangeet Abhi was missing that time she was even more tensed than now. It's felt for me like she is not worried for him she is worried that if PI got the proof and all how will they handle it.

Akshu never felt the same for him that is why.

Abhi is so in love with her, his heart knows her well and so feels everything. Though, it may be just another sign that he is very sensitive!

Originally posted by: Maneetlover123

It's not degrading she is right in her side doing a simple mischief but since we are insecure abt her family jaab we don't like it. When Abhi blast her left right center ( if any) we will sympathies AK because we know when Abhi is angry he can't control it. So waiting for tomorrow

I don't know whether or not I will be able to sympathise with akshu anymore. Uptill sangeet or better say till sangeet not happened, I could understand actions of akshara. Her taking baby steps to move out of the shell of family and her toxic sister was praise worth as changes in personality can't be brought in few days. And now she was working towards that positive change as she has someone to hold her hand if she fails or falls.

But that sangeet incident somehow ruined that essence. Don't want to discuss that again as already lot has been said but it is also a fact that once you lost connect with a character, it's difficult to reignite that as you fail to think by putting yourself in his/her shoes.

Originally posted by: urmil

I don't know whether or not I will be able to sympathise with akshu anymore. Uptill sangeet or better say till sangeet not happened, I could understand actions of akshara. Her taking baby steps to move out of the shell of family and her toxic sister was praise worth as changes in personality can't be brought in few days. And now she was working towards that positive change as she has someone to hold her hand if she fails or falls.

But that sangeet incident somehow ruined that essence. Don't want to discuss that again as already lot has been said but it is also a fact that once you lost connect with a character, it's difficult to reignite that as you fail to think by putting yourself in his/her shoes.

I think this accident track is the ultimate testing phase for Abhira. Either they will par this with success or with failure. Either way they need to understand more eachother value eachother. Till now they were only in lovey dovey love bird now come the actual testing. So waiting. CVs are expert in changing our opinions in 1 day so fingers crossed they will show the reason or remedy for this behaviour of AK.

Ps:- I'm alos not connected to AK till now. For me yrkhh is Abhi's love story. His story of struggle and conquering the world of AK with his love💞💞💞💞

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Yes you do need a reason otherwise it's like a teenager's crush more hormones and lust than an adult love. Whether you ever articulate that reason or not, you at least need to know yourself why you fell in love. We only love our parents, siblings and those of blood with no reason but even then as adults many break of relationship because they may have grown up in an toxic environment.

Originally posted by: hari15

I am confused now Freddie do you want akshu reason for why she loves abhi or do you don't want or the reasons need to have any category. Yesterday their was a reply to this question which you put under appreciation category. Then another reply which you put under fan category now my post is put under teenage love category.

Now I feel like akshu needs to write a slam book over abhi stating

I love abhimanyu because he is tall, fair, handsome, good, caring, loving.

I like abhimanyu hairstyle

Good habits helps the poor and needy

Bad habits short tampered

Do loving someone even have a category.

Do mother, sister, father, brother, nice, nephew, uncle, aunt, grandma, son and daughter everyone love under a category.

Do i need a reason to love my parents if the said reason are gone do i throw them out. If we don't do that with our parents. Then how come husband and lover are being loved for reasons and not other relationship. My son all of a sudden turns into a failure from a topper should I stop loving and throw him out and say I don't have a reason to love you anymore because you are not a topper anymore.

If all these blood relationship aren't placed under any category then how come a husband and his love needs to be placed under reasons and a category.

That sounds like an application form with conditions applied.

When one day all fun and reasons are changed or over should they go and stand near a court room to divorce each other. If abhi becomes fat or can't take good care of ak because of work and couldn't understand her much because of lack of time between them what then and if all the reasons are gone what should they do run away from each other.

Talking about teenage love it is no less of any other love. I have seen people who loved since school days married even after 10 years and leading a happy love life. So it's not less to any other grown people love.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

When you meet a man (or a woman) you don't just automatically fall in love overnight - unless it is a disney movie or if someone who has never been love mistakes a man's interest as love or basic chemistry as love - yeh we all have it but it doesn't mean we love that person. The person you fall in love with, well something in them has to connect with you, something for you to find in common for love to flourish. Because love is hard to sustain in an every day life . Many find after few years their love is gone so they walk out, others hang on to the reason they fell in love and keep on going. The reason you fall in love is what keeps it going, reminding you and flourishing as well as expanding.

What I said in my post is about Akshu never once, even in a monologue, thinking about or showing us why she fell in love. With Abhi we at least know his reasons and why. Visual imagery and spoken words must be given otherwise many will find it hard to sit there and believe in what is being shown.

Why Akshu monologue we have a very super duper episode where akshu shouted her love to abhi saying he is the purpose for her to live her life. When we all are searching for 100s of reasons ak loves abhi ak had already said it all those 100s of reasons in one word abhi is her purpose to live on. By saying that akshu made abhi her everything even in her good and bad. She made him the air she breaths that day what more reason we need than this.

P. S : will this go under live stock category. Gladly can check fire accident time confession for ak reason.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

That is why many viewers are questioning about Akshu's love. I for one believe she does love him, but most often it is not as visible as his. As I repeatedly keep saying () at times your love must take priority over other matters but there are also times you must prioritise other things, eg family, over love. It is all about give and take.

Originally posted by: hari15

Let's not talk about these viewers who will scold ak for the mistake she does unintentionally and then hugs him saying she is hugging him to cover her mistake. If they get a reason from ak mouth they will say she won't love him after the reason is gone.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

The only reason some one does that - not fully being in a relationship - is because either they do not trust that other person as much as they say do, or that they have some doubts about the relationship or thirdly it's because they are fearful of letting go of another relationship to invest in the new one.

For Akshu I think it's the third one. She trusts Abhi and has no doubts (none that we heard that is) unless she worries about his excessive and OTT love. So it has to be the third. She knows Abhi does not like Arohi, I think she understands as well but emotionally she just cannot let go of the ties.

I think you misunderstood what I said. Look through all of my previous posts. I have always said she would never let go of her sister to be with Abhi, because that is not how she is. What I meant above is that her ties are shacking her closely ie she is too tied to Arohi at the moment, to really be expansive as him so she needs to loosen it a bit - imagine someone tied up that they can't move. So letting that person loose a bit will give them the space. The Akshu we see now is different from the Akshu is the beginning. That Akshu would not have seen a thing wrong with Arohi but now she is growing and she does but she still has a long way to go.

Not all ties are physical. There are emotional and mental ones as well like promises to someone, like trauma or flawed thinking, life experience and etc. All of these can be ties.

Originally posted by: hari15

Your previous post talked about letting go of ties which I don't think I misunderstood and be it physical, emotional or mental all are interlinked to one other even if one of them isn't their for two people together be it in any relationship siblings, parents or couples that relationship sounds meaningless.

Why should ak let loose her relationship with ar rather she can strengthen her relationship with Abhi.

I have read your posts over the sisters stating they are 2 sides in one coin and the fact you could connect with aarohi more than akshu as you have seen people like aarohi more.

I did make a very old post before ak confession time about the sisters and how similar yet different they are and ar herself made things difficult for her by keeping ak away from her life and how they will find partners similar to these two sisters.

This is why whenever ak gives medicine and ar doesn't accept it I say the day ar takes those medicine something good will happen to her. Till this day it never happened. Glad since that day to till this day how these sisters relationship has grown. Likewise abhira relationship too will grow which we need to watch with lots of patience.

P. S : hope you can bear this long post as I don't make long post often except for my review. 😊😊

Originally posted by: hari15

Wow Hari, what a lot of quotes!😆

Forgive me if I don't give quotes because I said all there is on it and my posts explains everything clearly.

However, I am getting the impression maybe some of my responses has offended someone and that was never my intention.

Firstly, every answer of mine is response to the post I reply to. Everything I write is my own opinion as per my POV, life and work experience. I do not expect everyone to agree to it. Expression of love, and the depth of it, differs from person to person. Some want passion, others want calm, some want that crazy rush the first time your eyes meet and others take years to even be open to going out for a date. No wrong or right.

I differentiated between romantic love and family love so many times that again there is nothing more I can say on it otherwise I feel we will go in circles.

The thing is, I always look at character, their motivation and their trauma given my background because for me that is where the real story is....I try not to but it is a occupational hazard for me, when started I can go on and on and it's not always welcomed I can tell😆.... I do this automatically when I watch shows/films not just for YRKKH. I actually am not so much bothered by the episodic story ( though I can get annoyed!) but more of the overall plot, how theme is coming across and the scene and sequel.

Your underlined words - you had in fact taken my answer from 3 people's post and the word 'fan' was in fact a joke, even had a laughing emoji so I thought is clear that is a joke and not to be taken seriously. Akshu doesn't need to do slam book unless she wants to😆, but I know many people do. Each to their own.

Your comment about me knowing people like Arohi and connecting with her because of that caught my interest - I honestly cannot recall even writing something like that so if you have the page number can you give me the link as I want to read it see if it jogs my memory?😆...I may have said I understand where she is coming from since it is so obvious (see above about character motivation). But we all also know people with some traits of her like stubbornness, academically brilliant but emotionally weak, using emotional blackmail, baby who gets pampered and etc?...And I have repeatedly said I understood both sisters because they are etch so deeply and their conflicts bounce of one another.

I have a problem with the confession scene - but I do not want to open up another post on it😆 - so will leave it there. I've seen the fire scene, the ruby scene and etc and to me they are scenes where she as a character is growing, allowing the suggestion of love to enter her conscious mind 😊 ...my opinion.

I think we should agree to disagree on this.

I only flit in and out of IF and often don't have time to respond to long posts but I also don't want you to think I had ignored your post.

Looking forward to your review, will somehow get to it as always through a busy day.