Issues with every character on show

AnujKapadia

Till anupama came in his lifehe was practical man who ran successful business and took no nonsense decsionsin life. After anupama entered his life all he dos is dance to her tunes tryingto please her and shahs at his own cost and cost of his sister and kapadia andson company. Hes like main jhoru ka ghulam ban ke rahunga to anupama. No malelead has fallen so much after love to heroine like anuj kapadia has fallen toplease a lover or heroine. Only work anuj kapdai has from novemember is anupamehis right anupamah is correct anupama will do. There is a limit for human toagree with a lover or wife. No human behaves like this not even hen peckedhubby.

GK

GK used to before defend anujkapadia and advice him correctly because he tends to lose his praticality andmaturity when it comes to anupama and shahs. Now hes also gone silent or bendsto anuj. Why not put foot down and say no to bapuji idea of marrying anu inshah house. Who does such stupid jobs do marriage of ex wife in ex hubby housewho hates her and groom? Not even modern USA anyone will do this. GK failed toplay father and gaurdian role properly and let anupama and shahs take advantageof anuj and Mukku too

Anupama

I am not sure what is anupamasstupidity calling ex hubby family as her family and his parents as her mom dadetc. Just take your two unmarried kids and walk out of house and break all tieswith that evil toxic sadist family. No woman behaves like you with ex hubby ortheir family after divorce. Before you were financially dependent on Shahs nowanuj is there so what is this ameoba kind of effect to sticking to Shah houseand vanraj and ba and bapuji etc. If you behave so in real life no 2nd hubby orhis family tolerate. It will lead to 2nd divorce. Your foot is in two boats andyour anchor is Shah family while married to anuj kapadia. Either go and marryvanraj and stay with shahs or marry anuj and come to kapadia house over. Yourkids can come with you stay with you and anuj over. As per law if anuj files acase for harassing him by having relationship with ex hubby and his family youwill be in trouble for not following 7 vows of marraige and harassment ofcurrent hubby actually. Anupama must first stop going to Sahh house thatbelongs to kavya not anupam aat all even court will say same so will society.If her kids want they can go stay with her and anuj as shes their mother.Whoever her kid wants to stay with father can stay at shahs. Anupama shouldstop going shah house. No divorced woman will go to ex hubby and souten houselike this everyday

Malvika

Malvika first wanted anuj to beout of AK companies. Now she wants him back. Than that day why she neverstopped anuj when he left? Anuj like a sacrificail lamb gave everything toMukku now pressuring her to give job to vanraj and toshu non stop two threetimes. Vanraj will betray malvika and snatch all from her thanks to anuj. NowMalvika is being emotionally blackmailed by Anuj to please anupama and shahs.God knows what will happen?

Bapuji

I think bapuji is bigger villanthan vanraj and baa in show. I had already put a post on this last week. Heemotionally blackmails anupama and through him anuj and gets all thngs for hisfamily like business job etc Now he wants anupama and anuj wedding at shahhouse so that life long maan will be in gratitude to him and shahs. Enough isenough marry in garden or road not shah house if no money or at temple or court

Instaed of doing a show howwoman breaks shacles o f toxic in laws and hubby and leads happy life free lifeyou are showing woman is nothing without ex hubby ex in laws etc what sort of10th century messaging is this? In 10th century man married 3 wives and stayedin same house. Are you not showing anupama is still like married to vanraj andin laws house? Where is self respect? In name of kids shes going everydayto ex hubby house? Let pakhi and samrshift with her if they want or go to meet her there or in dance classes.

Will anupama marry pakhi herdaughter in first hubby house if pakhi gets divorced from her hubby later to 2ndhubby?

Will anupama allow pakhi to goto ex hubby house after divorce every day?

Will anupama allow pakhi toconsider ex in laws as her parents when she is alive?

Will anupama be ok if kinjalhad a a 1st hubby and married toshu later that she goes everyday toex hubby house?

One rule for her daughter andworld one different rule for anupama only

One rule for all woman insociety another new rule for anupama only

I agree 👍

Anupamaa was very relatable to me and I could connect very deeply with the storyline which was progressive before.

For me Anupamaa was synonymous to self respect,breaking stereotypes and strong self determination....now they have butchered her character......the makers are hell bent on whitewashing and validating the toxicity......instead they could have shown Anu's personal growth like may be completing her graduation, her business with Anuj etc....

Both Anu and Anuj have lost self respect and the show doesn't seem progressive anymore 😕 😢 😒 😔 😑 😞

Why they are doing wedding at shah house is for ✨drama✨, they clearly have no other ideas and keep going around in circles.

what would’ve happened if anuj’s parents were alive tho? was she gonna split her time between 2 houses?

No if anuj's parents would have been alive then anupama would be giving her all time to shah's saying that anuj already has caring parents he doesn't need anupama by her side 24*7 but shahs are mentally disturbed and totally dependent on anupama for their survival so they nees her.🤣

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

No if anuj's parents would have been alive then anupama would be giving her all time to shah's saying that anuj already has caring parents he doesn't need anupama by her side 24*7 but shahs are mentally disturbed and totally dependent on anupama for their survival so they nees her.🤣

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

would anuj have taken that disrespect tho?

The way he is bending, maybe to yes. 🤪

Originally posted by: myviewprem

AnujKapadia

Till anupama came in his lifehe was practical man who ran successful business and took no nonsense decsionsin life. After anupama entered his life all he dos is dance to her tunes tryingto please her and shahs at his own cost and cost of his sister and kapadia andson company. Hes like main jhoru ka ghulam ban ke rahunga to anupama. No malelead has fallen so much after love to heroine like anuj kapadia has fallen toplease a lover or heroine. Only work anuj kapdai has from novemember is anupamehis right anupamah is correct anupama will do. There is a limit for human toagree with a lover or wife. No human behaves like this not even hen peckedhubby.

GK

GK used to before defend anujkapadia and advice him correctly because he tends to lose his praticality andmaturity when it comes to anupama and shahs. Now hes also gone silent or bendsto anuj. Why not put foot down and say no to bapuji idea of marrying anu inshah house. Who does such stupid jobs do marriage of ex wife in ex hubby housewho hates her and groom? Not even modern USA anyone will do this. GK failed toplay father and gaurdian role properly and let anupama and shahs take advantageof anuj and Mukku too

Anupama

I am not sure what is anupamasstupidity calling ex hubby family as her family and his parents as her mom dadetc. Just take your two unmarried kids and walk out of house and break all tieswith that evil toxic sadist family. No woman behaves like you with ex hubby ortheir family after divorce. Before you were financially dependent on Shahs nowanuj is there so what is this ameoba kind of effect to sticking to Shah houseand vanraj and ba and bapuji etc. If you behave so in real life no 2nd hubby orhis family tolerate. It will lead to 2nd divorce. Your foot is in two boats andyour anchor is Shah family while married to anuj kapadia. Either go and marryvanraj and stay with shahs or marry anuj and come to kapadia house over. Yourkids can come with you stay with you and anuj over. As per law if anuj files acase for harassing him by having relationship with ex hubby and his family youwill be in trouble for not following 7 vows of marraige and harassment ofcurrent hubby actually. Anupama must first stop going to Sahh house thatbelongs to kavya not anupam aat all even court will say same so will society.If her kids want they can go stay with her and anuj as shes their mother.Whoever her kid wants to stay with father can stay at shahs. Anupama shouldstop going shah house. No divorced woman will go to ex hubby and souten houselike this everyday

Malvika

Malvika first wanted anuj to beout of AK companies. Now she wants him back. Than that day why she neverstopped anuj when he left? Anuj like a sacrificail lamb gave everything toMukku now pressuring her to give job to vanraj and toshu non stop two threetimes. Vanraj will betray malvika and snatch all from her thanks to anuj. NowMalvika is being emotionally blackmailed by Anuj to please anupama and shahs.God knows what will happen?

Bapuji

I think bapuji is bigger villanthan vanraj and baa in show. I had already put a post on this last week. Heemotionally blackmails anupama and through him anuj and gets all thngs for hisfamily like business job etc Now he wants anupama and anuj wedding at shahhouse so that life long maan will be in gratitude to him and shahs. Enough isenough marry in garden or road not shah house if no money or at temple or court

Instaed of doing a show howwoman breaks shacles o f toxic in laws and hubby and leads happy life free lifeyou are showing woman is nothing without ex hubby ex in laws etc what sort of10th century messaging is this? In 10th century man married 3 wives and stayedin same house. Are you not showing anupama is still like married to vanraj andin laws house? Where is self respect? In name of kids shes going everydayto ex hubby house? Let pakhi and samrshift with her if they want or go to meet her there or in dance classes.

Will anupama marry pakhi herdaughter in first hubby house if pakhi gets divorced from her hubby later to 2ndhubby?

Will anupama allow pakhi to goto ex hubby house after divorce every day?

Will anupama allow pakhi toconsider ex in laws as her parents when she is alive?

Will anupama be ok if kinjalhad a a 1st hubby and married toshu later that she goes everyday toex hubby house?

One rule for her daughter andworld one different rule for anupama only

One rule for all woman insociety another new rule for anupama only

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Damn, people in this forum REALLY can't make their points without resorting to using sexist terms like 'jhoru ka ghulam' and 'henpecked husband'. Perhaps the mentality of the people here need to change first before they go out and criticize fictional characters lmao. 😬

I would tell you I agree with your other points if I didn't keep seeing that term be used haha.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

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Damn, people in this forum REALLY can't make their points without resorting to using sexist terms like 'jhoru ka ghulam' and 'henpecked husband'. Perhaps the mentality of the people here need to change first before they go out and criticize fictional characters lmao. 😬

I would tell you I agree with your other points if I didn't keep seeing that term be used haha.

Its not really sexist actually i feel its just how anuj behaving

The way anuj is bending backwards to please anupama what else should i call him?

Thats what we call in lay man term a person saying yes to everything lover or wife says when its completely wrong actually for others

If anuj does whats right i will not use such terms

Anuj has to maintain his respect and whats right not what anupama or shahs want

Than no one will comment

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Its not really sexist actually i feel its just how anuj behaving

The way anuj is bending backwards to please anupama what else should i call him?

Thats what we call in lay man term a person saying yes to everything lover or wife says when its completely wrong actually for others

If anuj does whats right i will not use such terms

Anuj has to maintain his respect and whats right not what anupama or shahs want

Than no one will comment

It's sexist because it's built on the idea that men that listen to their wives are 'ghulams'. Supposedly because men are supposed to be 'alphas' and be the 'man of the house' and have the 'pants on in the relationship'. These are preconceived notions and ideas that we standardize for the sexes, and abide to a sort of gender role in which they must behave. It sets a dangerous precedent. Anuj can ve criticized without restorting to such sexist terms and phrases.