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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I have said this before, I hope the new character is a true friend who has no inferior motives. It would have been better if they introduced the friend earlier when V was around and Priya had no-one to talk to. Well, the writers are on a different trip. I really don't want to deal a romantic third wheel again, that'll torture us to no end. .Seeing how Priya opens up to her school friend will make Ram a jalkukdi. Ok I don' think they need to dance to " Pyaar ki ek kahaani Suno" to make him jealous. But krish arranging Priya bday party will be fun to watch. There should be some payback to Ram's bday kaands.🤣 I still haven't recovered from it, even if Priya has! 🤣


I don't think the new entry will have any ulterior motives, but don't quote me on that. They change with every tide.


Oh, don't think I am serious when I say I want her to dance with K on the same song. I joke about it all the time. Do you think my girl will do that? Nope Nada.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

On his birthday with neeraj it was not jealousy, it was a temper tantrum thrown by him bcz he thought he is not getting enough attention from priya.

See, he was in quarantine before that and her entire world was revolving around him for that one day, and he liked it.

His family didn't even call to ask how he is but priya didn't let him feel alone or lonely.

She gave him; care, concern, love, understanding. She treated him like a small child being scolded and showered with all the attention he could get when sick, for the first time after his parents, someone made him feel wanted in their life without asking for anything in return.

All she wanted from him in that moment was his health and him being back with her.

And when he got out, they got into a fight and priya was gone the entire day. Everyone knew where she was or what she was doing but kept him in the dark. And he knew that. It irked him. He was expecting to get all of priya's time and attention but what he got was neglect, ignorance and secrets from her in his perspective.

Then he was made to believe that, she choose to spend her time with someone she doesn't like over him. His abandonment issues were triggered and he threw tantrums like a child until he saw that she was not neglecting him but was busy planning this party for him.

And similar to a child, he was ashamed of his actions but didn't know how to ask for an apology bcz he has never really learned to ask for it when he does something wrong.

Ram knows how to ask for an apology for someone else's mistakes, bcz that is what he has done his entire life. Ask sorry for his family's mistakes.

But no one ever questioned his mistakes but make him a victim of the situation to manipulate him. That is what happened on the birthday, he was portrayed to himself as the victim of priya's neglect by vedika, neeraj and nandini. So when he realised what a big eff up he has done, he didn't know how to look her in the eyes and say sorry.

It's not like he didnt feel remorse for it, he just didn't wanted to bring it up again as all his life he has learned to live in guilt for one thing or the another, so he added it to the list and locked it up in his unconscious brain. It is part of his trauma.

He has been forced/made to live a guilt-ridden life by nandini, so what happened on his birthday was not looked by him as something new. For him he effed up again, earlier he would have gotten something materialistic to make up for it but with Priya it doesn't work like that, and before he could gather enough courage to talk to Priya vedika played her game and side tracked the entire bday events bcz she had witnessed that Ram is trying to take efforts for Priya.


I wouldn't say there was no jealousy; as a small prick of it definitely was, but definitely a complete temper tantrum. I remember the office scene on that day when he was in a meeting with a client and Adi, and Ram was not even paying attention. He was solely concentrating on his phone, b/c Pri was not picking up. He threw tantrums something along the lines of - "absolutely ridiculous."


Yes, I agree even V's ditching him was guilt for him. He blamed himself for not having enough money to keep Vedika with him. He was made to play the victim card all the time. That b'day fiasco was the first time he knew that he was not the victim but later figured out he wrongly victimized Pri. If you think back, the morning after he left the office early which is another reason he didn't want to face her due to his recklessness toward Pri knowing that she is a no-nonsense girl who allowed him to peek at her heart some hours back.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: tirchinazar



I think it is Nandini’s game plan. Ram for the first time raised his hands against Shivina. Maybe Priya will ask Ram to stop investigation and then Nandini might tell Ram that MS is involved in the case … or may tell Priya that MS is involved


Aur kya! We knew this is coming. Fasten your seatbelts. Nandini is not comfortable knowing they are opening Pandora's Box.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

I haven't seen the movie. But exactly my point. As i keep pointing out, it won't be a romantic situation, but ram will not like a presence of a new male from priya's past back for some time until priya will assure him that there is nothing to worry about him.

This presence is for Priya to give Ram assurity from her side. She will see that Ram is uncomfortable and doubting himself, so she will tell him what he told her on Friday.

That Ram is all she cares about, and no neeraj, Krish or anyone can take ram's place in her life.


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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Are are šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

Watching a jealous ram is like a guilty pleasure for mešŸ˜ŒšŸ˜›šŸ˜›

It will be fun few episodes before he gets his brain back.šŸ˜‰


@bold: WORD!


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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: smita1

SuperbšŸ‘šŸ‘...Jahapanah...tusi great ho


Thank You. Thank you. ā¤ļø

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SEA05

For Priya, Ram wants to be everything) When he is jealous, he looks like a huge hurricane, a storm that blows everything away and turns into a light breeze falling asleep in the branches of trees, when Priya makes it clear that no one cares about her except him, no one is needed


That light breeze on the faces, sitting on a mountain top in the trunk of a car with a cup of coffee in the hands of two souls wrapped in a blanket, whose eyes were looking at the mist forming far, far away, dreaming of an abode in a white picket fence brushing the lavender and tulips alike.


Do you see jealousy has a sit in the car's trunk along with them?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Ngl my heart skipped a beat!!!

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https://twitter.com/federerisking/status/1513088341356388354?s=21


My heart ā¤ļø is stuck here only!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Ab mein kya hi bolu. Bolti band kardi meri😐

This is exactly what happened! I was not able to put everything into words, but you never fail to amazešŸ‘


Meri itni majaal ki main teri bolti bandh karoon? smiley36smiley36


@bold: Thank you for that! I know we feel so tempted to write about Priya but hardly get time.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Saanjh.xyz

I feel Ram feels/knows/understands everything, he is just unable to vent. Or may be I should say, he never had anyone to speak to. And no. There are certain things about your family you don't want to speak to your friends. When Priya came, Ram actually saw someone exactly getting irritated with things that may be he used to get irritated with initially but has now become used to it and hence doesn't care. Like, in the conversation with Nandini when she was asking him, ' aisa tumhare saath hi kyun hota hai Ram ?' ,he simply said, ' it doesn't matter, that's not the point now'


Yes, Nandini played the victim card again that time. Ram knows this now consciously and not subconsciously anymore. When Priya got mad for Akki's stepbrother comment, then also he shoved it under the carpet instead of addressing it. I hope after the BTS, Pri really gives him hug first and then tell him to straighten up and open his eyes. He has one family and that is Priya. He needs to understand this. Really wish she teaches him the definition of self-respect.

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