BALH 2 EDT #23 - Page 67

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I think it is Nandini’s game plan. Ram for the first time raised his hands against Shivina. Maybe Priya will ask Ram to stop investigation and then Nandini might tell Ram that MS is involved in the case … or may tell Priya that MS is involved

Since investigator is involved I don’t think anyone can ask to stop investigation…hopefully Ram and Priya will stay United in this episode/segment of family drama…

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I think it is Nandini’s game plan. Ram for the first time raised his hands against Shivina. Maybe Priya will ask Ram to stop investigation and then Nandini might tell Ram that MS is involved in the case … or may tell Priya that MS is involved

Whoa! Is there a BTS video link? I just saw some screen grabs posted on T bird.

Getting a sense of déjà vu..multiple tracks are going to run parallel. Fingers crossed they do a better job at ending each track convincingly.

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

Am I the only one already thinking nostalgically about missing these moments between Ram & Pri knowing that once the C & C is done, we'll be back to samosas and jalebis and god know what else!

Originally posted by: Balh2fan

I agree with you, I think he never doubted her even when Vedika told him that Priya said ILU to Neeraj, he defended her being with Neeraj in the bakery, when Adi mentioned it. Also when Nandini tried to seed a doubt against Priya and Neeraj’s closeness he decided not to question her. So one thing is for sure, he always knew that Priya had moved on. The only point where he was a moron was the birthday episodes where I am not sure why he was jealous of Neeraj.

With both of them claiming that their relationship is a very strong which has survived the onslaught of so much planning and scheming, it makes no senses for Ram to again go back and be jealous of some good looking dude who happens to be his wife’s classmate. It would be again revolving in circles.

Only thing as you said, he may have the child like possessiveness for Priya like not wanting to share Priya with anyone… or any other male who he thinks as even a remote competition. It all depends on how they show it.. they can keep the insecurity part as a small track / angle and progress with the story, then it may come across as cute, hope it does join turn out to be a dragfest as with the Vedika track & typical ITV formula.

On his birthday with neeraj it was not jealousy, it was a temper tantrum thrown by him bcz he thought he is not getting enough attention from priya.

See, he was in quarantine before that and her entire world was revolving around him for that one day, and he liked it.

His family didn't even call to ask how he is but priya didn't let him feel alone or lonely.

She gave him; care, concern, love, understanding. She treated him like a small child being scolded and showered with all the attention he could get when sick, for the first time after his parents, someone made him feel wanted in their life without asking for anything in return.

All she wanted from him in that moment was his health and him being back with her.

And when he got out, they got into a fight and priya was gone the entire day. Everyone knew where she was or what she was doing but kept him in the dark. And he knew that. It irked him. He was expecting to get all of priya's time and attention but what he got was neglect, ignorance and secrets from her in his perspective.

Then he was made to believe that, she choose to spend her time with someone she doesn't like over him. His abandonment issues were triggered and he threw tantrums like a child until he saw that she was not neglecting him but was busy planning this party for him.

And similar to a child, he was ashamed of his actions but didn't know how to ask for an apology bcz he has never really learned to ask for it when he does something wrong.

Ram knows how to ask for an apology for someone else's mistakes, bcz that is what he has done his entire life. Ask sorry for his family's mistakes.

But no one ever questioned his mistakes but make him a victim of the situation to manipulate him. That is what happened on the birthday, he was portrayed to himself as the victim of priya's neglect by vedika, neeraj and nandini. So when he realised what a big eff up he has done, he didn't know how to look her in the eyes and say sorry.

It's not like he didnt feel remorse for it, he just didn't wanted to bring it up again as all his life he has learned to live in guilt for one thing or the another, so he added it to the list and locked it up in his unconscious brain. It is part of his trauma.

He has been forced/made to live a guilt-ridden life by nandini, so what happened on his birthday was not looked by him as something new. For him he effed up again, earlier he would have gotten something materialistic to make up for it but with Priya it doesn't work like that, and before he could gather enough courage to talk to Priya vedika played her game and side tracked the entire bday events bcz she had witnessed that Ram is trying to take efforts for Priya.

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

Whoa! Is there a BTS video link? I just saw some screen grabs posted on T bird.

Getting a sense of déjà vu..multiple tracks are going to run parallel. Fingers crossed they do a better job at ending each track convincingly.

https://youtu.be/GC-vC3jAtvs

Originally posted by: Doodle

Kind of true. Did you see the movie Dasvi? I won't spoil it for you. There was a scene which will help all understand one doesn't need to be a love interest to prick jealousy. This IS healthy. I will always take it to see Ram jealous.

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Breaks my heart to see all that is thrown at Ram. Good thing though, seems clear that Ram's issues are going to be brought forward and dealt with..so yaay for that

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

Breaks my heart to see all that is thrown at Ram. Good thing though, seems clear that Ram's issues are going to be brought forward and dealt with..so yaay for that

While I do agree that Shivi and Shubham's behavior is uncalled for, they're not entirely wrong from their perspective.

Their father died when they were very young and they hardly have any memory of him.

For all intents and purposes, he was just a man who left them when they needed him.

Maybe they don't want to think about him anymore. Maybe, his memory brings warmth to Ram and Nandini but for them it's a gaping hole. Maybe they're still bitter about him leaving them (even if it was not in his hands)

Ram, ideally, should've consulted them before reopening this investigation (and old wounds).

That being said, Shivi and Shubhu never fail to play their 'Sautela' card. This event might be the catalyst of Ram's separation from the rest of the Kapoors.

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

I haven't seen the movie. But exactly my point. As i keep pointing out, it won't be a romantic situation, but ram will not like a presence of a new male from priya's past back for some time until priya will assure him that there is nothing to worry about him.

This presence is for Priya to give Ram assurity from her side. She will see that Ram is uncomfortable and doubting himself, so she will tell him what he told her on Friday.

That Ram is all she cares about, and no neeraj, Krish or anyone can take ram's place in her life.

By the way new bts shows Ram against Shivi and Shubham . They are against Ram reopening the investigation...looks like Nandini is also against. He raises hand against hand but stops before hitting her..then he apologies to her. Looks like Shumbham nd Akki are going to be business partners with Priya monitoring them..check it out

.. lots of drama on the way..

Originally posted by: Zanutix

While I do agree that Shivi and Shubham's behavior is uncalled for, they're not entirely wrong from their perspective.

Their father died when they were very young and they hardly have any memory of him.

For all intents and purposes, he was just a man who left them when they needed him.

Maybe they don't want to think about him anymore. Maybe, his memory brings warmth to Ram and Nandini but for them it's a gaping hole. Maybe they're still bitter about him leaving them (even if it was not in his hands)

Ram, ideally, should've consulted them before reopening this investigation (and old wounds).

That being said, Shivi and Shubhu never fail to play their 'Sautela' card. This event might be the catalyst of Ram's separation from the rest of the Kapoors.

I guess that number plate with Priya might make Ram doubt her as she is trying to protect her family's image..now it's fathers death that's under investigation..wondering if this is what that will start a separation between Ram nd Priya.