BALH 2 EDT #23 - Page 63

Originally posted by: Doodle

Don't think. She already wants it but hesitating for what I have no idea.

I know. The thing which she keeps repeating to herself. " Mr. Kapoor kya sochenge? Gale pad rahi hai ?"

Originally posted by: Doodle

Word! ❤️

Even if Dhond sisters are well-read, the grills of ITV will churn into something other than elixir.

I was away yesterday, IF was very active, so much to catch upon. Anything I need to read first? I am at hometown with my parents, so busy with lots of stuffs 😎

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I was away yesterday, IF was very active, so much to catch upon. Anything I need to read first? I am at hometown with my parents, so busy with lots of stuffs 😎

Nothing much. I have more than 250 notifications so I am clearing now. You enjoy your stay. Monday se IF will be in Full Form.

Originally posted by: Balh2fan

I think he just senses there is something not right, he senses her as a threat to him and Priya being together. It’s the sixth sense… like we say at times .. we have a gut feeling but nothing to substantiate… or for that matter most of the times one is not even conscious about such a feeling… it is just manifested in such gestures… and that is the passive aggressive behaviour he has with her these days.

This is since the Kangan kaand, where he could feel there is something more than that meets the eye, but again I don’t think he gave it a conscious thought. Hence he is wary of her and anyways even before the Kangan kaand he was never comfortable sharing his and Priya’s relationship with her… may be because her constant pestering about how his marriage with Priya is an arrangement of convenience. She always made him feel uncomfortable about it, to the point that he felt guilty about holding his wife’s hand in front of her… ( in the hospital)

So when Priya made the promise he was reminded of the annulment track… and that gut feel or fear about Nandini struck him… again I don’t think he is self aware of this as yet.

Btw regarding his EQ, yesterday’s bepisodenwas the first time when I really appreciated it, when he said how embarrassed she must have felt when she realised it was her father who was trying to harm her husband… loved the way he reads her now.

This is in his subconscious. He takes her care as pity for him. Till Pri came into his life, he was unable to differentiate between seeing and perceiving. Like God gives brain to everyone but one needs to invest to gain knowledge. Similarly, Ram needs to open his eyes to have the perfect vision.

Originally posted by: Saanjh.xyz

@bold- this is exactly what I was thinking today. For Pri to understand Ram's love, The girl now just needs to recall the times Ram has spoken with his actions. And same for Ram to come out of the notion that Priya doesn't like to be loved.

Exactly! Unki suin wahi atki hui hai.

She just needs to recollect both his actions and NOW in words. He too should understand how many times did she slap him for the advances? Kuch nehin hoga inka.

Originally posted by: RandomWaliLadki

she didnt really say makeup she said glow 🤣

But akki is she is sure to give Priya deedi Jaap. Both him and his P di has tones of makeup. Don't question our intelligence

Originally posted by: Doodle

This is in his subconscious. He takes her care as pity for him. Till Pri came into his life, he was unable to differentiate between seeing and perceiving. Like God gives brain to everyone but one needs to invest to gain knowledge. Similarly, Ram needs to open his eyes to have the perfect vision.

I feel Ram feels/knows/understands everything, he is just unable to vent. Or may be I should say, he never had anyone to speak to. And no. There are certain things about your family you don't want to speak to your friends. When Priya came, Ram actually saw someone exactly getting irritated with things that may be he used to get irritated with initially but has now become used to it and hence doesn't care. Like, in the conversation with Nandini when she was asking him, ' aisa tumhare saath hi kyun hota hai Ram ?' ,he simply said, ' it doesn't matter, that's not the point now'

Originally posted by: Mages

Ok guys i just want u guys to be alert so this is kind of a small warning for the upcoming storm.

Everyone thinks including🐦ghar that with Krish entry and being Priya's classmate we will get lighthearted jealousy track of Ram. Its not going to be smooth sail here it will start of being light hearted but the prolong will not be lighthearted it will turn intense passionate & toxic. Ekta's MLs jealousy tracks are toxic so we need to be beware of it.

Ram is obsessed with Priya & possessive too he has his own abandonment issues that he needs to fight. His abandonment issues will lead him to have jealousy & insecurities he might have no control of his feelings & his fear of loosing Priya. He can be intense angry & toxic.

What Ram felt with Vedika & Priya is completely different.. The fear of loosing Priya is immense because she gave him the care & concern the attention he always craves & he loves her way too much. The fear and his abandonment issues will lead his jealous in a intense way

He can get easily manipulated and deadly drunk & even his mind will play games with him so Krish entry is not a smooth sail

Its time for Ram to fight his inner demons this time he cannot ignore because his heart and soul is connected with Priya. This demons will haunt him ,he will have to battle b/w his heart & mind for his love

So it will get complex so we need to understand Ram's perspective putting ourselves with his lens. Just because he is goofy naughty and a childlike.mind with a maturity and a gem doesn't mean he doesn't have his inner demons. His main demons is his abandonment issues and he needs to battle it

Love this!

I'm hoping that the Krish track brings his issues to the fore..and for Priya to be by his side and fighting with him and for him. Ram is as broken as Pri..just that his issues get masked because of his goofyness, people pleasing and everything he does keep the people he loves close to himself.

Imagine the strength of their relationship once they have gone though all of this..I'm willing to sit through a bumpy ride to see this happen ❤️

Originally posted by: Doodle

Yes, at that moment, she wanted a warm comfort. She needed to contemplate her thoughts with equanimity. If she had embraced him at that moment, Ram would interpret it as her next step toward marriage. It’s not that she didn’t want to, but she wants to be entirely sure of her want. She wanted a friendly hug at that moment, not the one which could have transpired.

I will add some more of my thoughts to your thoughts.

She knew she had found love but her bruises from the past and the day's events needed a friend and not a husband. I know Ram would have been the friend she wished that moment, but after what he told her about their relationship, it would mean she accepted his resolution.

Whether Ram had understood her at that moment or not, we will find out on Monday. Sometimes we need a friend and not our lover to console us. With whom we share no emotional bonding. [I know this is where the new entry can help.]

When he fell sick during Diwali, she was scared of losing him. With Neeraj or MS, she was strong, and they didn’t affect her natural traits of strength. But Ram was turning to be her weakness, and she promised herself that she would not let that happen. But now Ram has made her weak so that she is losing the capability to pick up the broken shards from the ground. She is wholly scared of losing him now.

In the car on Friday she told to herself – “you are spoiling me by not letting me fall.” All her life, she learned how to rise from fall. In the early days, even before their marriage, every time she was thrown in the woods, she rose up with her head held up high. Then in some months of their marriage, every time even before she would be wobbly, there is this man who is supporting her all the time. What can she do now? No one has ever done that to her; she needs to compose herself and put the puzzle pieces to solve the puzzling thoughts of her heart and mind.

In the same way, she is spoiling Ram; no one has ever cared for him all these years, and here is this girl who, even in her distress, was caring for him in the bakery. What can he do now? No one has ever done that to him. He would not even think of letting her go.

Ram told her on Friday what he thinks her views on love are. But that is not completely correct. When they were going to Babbar’s for dinner that night, Pri helped resolve the doubts about Shivi and Sid’s meeting. Then Ram was stunned, knowing a girl who doesn’t believe in love is supporting a girl in love. Pri explained to him that she believes in love, just that she doesn’t believe in the love shown in movies. There is a difference between fairy tales and reality. Her abusive father and misogynist ex forced her to look at life pragmatically. She feels to gain something in life, one needs to lose something else.

These two dialogues of MS and Pri are appropriate here to understand why she stopped midway:

MS: You are an obligation to Ram [tu Ram ke gale ka kaanta hai]

Pri: Love and I are at loggerheads. We don’t see eye to eye.

We know what MS meant is not true. But tell that to a girl who is devoid of a loving father? She knows that she is everything to Ram. But still, it’s not easy for Pri to maintain her composure. We saw her breaking down in the middle of the road some hours earlier. A private person like her broke down in public. How ironic!

Pri, before going to the dinner, told Ram that ‘pyaar and she have a chattish ka ankhra. She has no relation with love and will never have one. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t understand someone else’s love and if she can be the reason to unite the lovers, she will happily do so.’ We saw her even in her intoxicated state; she wanted Ram and V to unite in the bakery.

So, yeah, Ram thinks for Pri, love is fake, or she is afraid even to taste it. He gave her time and even offered coupons so she could relax her opinion about love.

Remember when @Ritika told about stonewalling and how Pri would shut Ram off after she saw the embrace? [go and read her post on the last EDT page 1 if you haven’t yet.]

Ram, in his monologue on Friday, said in the car – “Don’t shut me off, Priya.” The majority of the audience didn’t understand why Pri and Ram were behaving the way they did on that confrontation day. This is why Ritika and I were talking about stonewalling and shell. She behaved the same way on Diwali after the date in the hotel and went to the bakery, and Ram understood then and rushed to the bakery. He was not in love then, so how can he let her shut off now.

Priya is straightforward to write but very tough to explain. She is a very layered character. So, in my piece, I used the rain to unfold the petals of the rose to reach the heart. In the same way, Ram will have to fold the layers of Pri one by one to reach the inner core of the heart. She will not retaliate if hurt but close her inner core like a Venus flytrap. [I hope you know how a Venus flytrap acts.]

Is there a light at the end of the tunnel? Yes, there is. Every time she is intoxicated, she bares her heart in front of him. The recent ones on his birthday and Holi, he might remember, but I don’t want him to forget the first time she was drunk at Babbar’s. I saw a glimpse that Ram remembers. That night after dinner, in her intoxicated state, she told him that everyone thinks they are a mismatch (bemil). We saw Ram on Friday and told her that they are unbreakable (bejod). They have withered all storms.

What did she say that night after dinner to Ram about how she felt after marriage?

“Mujhe lagta hai main ek rajkumari hoon. Do you know the princess in the fairy tales? I never believed them when maa used to tell them, but Sara di and Maitri would; but then I met you, and I realized that my prince is here only.”

But then she jokingly dismissed it, saying she was drunk; otherwise, why would I talk nonsense about princesses? This is the dream in her heart. I hope and pray Ram gets it sooner.

Margaret Hale rejected John Thornton once, but at the end of the book North and South, when he was bankrupt, she gave her fortune to rebuild his empire. Even at that moment, she was resisting confessing her love. Then John Thornton called her name and pulled her and said this -

'Take care.--If you do not speak --I shall claim you as my own in some strange presumptuous way.--Send me away at once, if I must go;--Margaret!--'

Ab mein kya hi bolu. Bolti band kardi meri😐

This is exactly what happened! I was not able to put everything into words, but you never fail to amaze👏

Originally posted by: Doodle

Nothing much. I have more than 250 notifications so I am clearing now. You enjoy your stay. Monday se IF will be in Full Form.

i too have something around it and I feel like a kid forced to do homework 🙈