Pyaar ka Nagma❤️🎸 - Page 7

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Dimag ki dahi, chutney, falooda, khurma...sab bana diya..

Hope we get some Sangeet BTS this weekend to make us all happy again 😃

Ak ne bol diya hai sach..ab jisko sunna hai woh sune...🤣

My baby will be out of guilt..🤗

@ red - for a second then she will panic when she realises it was not Abhi but someone else. I want to see both sisters work together to find who listened...😆

Do you think the sangeet will happen this quick? there will still be a fallout from the accident revelation.

I think Mahima will be evil like in Tilak1...she will wait for a ritual and then release the truth...to blast Abhira...😭

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

As I keep saying the love is there between the sisters but Arohi has to dig deep for it.

Today, the only person who spoke the words that shows the movement of the story is Neil when he mentioned to Mataji about the sisters connection of love or worry. Totally right.

It was an interesting episode - so many little nuggets of future issues. The Birla's are definitely unhappy and making no bones about it. Abhi has totally blundered on that aspect. Mahima is now out with her axe, she wants to grind it and looks like she will be given an opportunity. We saw the love between the sisters, and yes Akshu still loves her Aru like mad and it seems Aru even loves her sister after all.

Mahima hears Akshu's confession....it happens when you close you eyes and blab out things when you should really sit down, open your eyes and talk sensibly!😆

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@ red - for a second then she will panic when she realises it was not Abhi but someone else. I want to see both sisters work together to find who listened...😆

Do you think the sangeet will happen this quick? there will still be a fallout from the accident revelation.

I think Mahima will be evil like in Tilak1...she will wait for a ritual and then release the truth...to blast Abhira...😭

Mahima is not letting it go easily.

If She has listened the conversation then she will wait until the marriage day to bring worst humiliation to Goenkas and especially Akshara...Like they may show parallel of temple fiasco 1..Where Abhi abandoned Ar..this time he will not..

It will be good to see Abhi apologizing to Birla elders..so they all happily start preparing for sangeet. It would be nice to see few episodes of Sangeet preparation in both families..competition preparation 😳

Originally posted by: maduri12

me thinks u dont understand how abuse works. u dont just get out of it with 1 slap. anywayz i am happy u clearly have never experienced anything like this sort of trauma in ur life. ur understanding of mental illness iz just not there so no point in discussing thiz. i respect ur viewz too.

@ bold:

Each individual neednt require first hand experience to get knowledge of certain aspects in life.. If it was so then this whole life wouldnt have been enough to survive after getting only first hand information... We learn from our surroundings.. we learn from our family.. we learn from our near friends..we learn from books... All these too r counted as experiences..

“Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.”

― Otto von Bismarck

We havent experienced it on first hand doesnt mean that we are ignorant to the whole concept.. and the traits seen in Akshara due to trauma and abuse are lack of trusting people to share her personal issues, lacks confidence and courage to fight or stand for herself.. self blame.. guilt ride..anxiety, panic attacks, trouble forming new relationships due to lack of trust. thats the reason ak says that she needs to make khud ka khud se rishta first befor getting into any form of relationsp.. and Abhi ws one person who knowingly or unknowingly helped her to seek that understanding of herslf.. and gave that confidence and courage to stand for herslf.. Agree in any abused relationship.. transformation cant happen overnight..it takes lot of time to come out of it.. but the time too depends on the individual's will power and determination to overcome it.. and any journey or transformation begins with the first step.. which is the most crucial and hardest part from a victim side..

That first baby step towards light.. towards her love .. fighting against the whole world.. fighting against her own beloved but bully sister...fighting her own promise to her expired sirat mom.. was done on her confession day.. She had declared to the whole world her love and intention of marrying abhi who was then the bridegroom of her sister ...which ws direct emotional slap on her bully sister...so that was the first step ak had taken... which was the toughest step she had to undertake.. and she took that cos of abhi and his level of craziness which pushed ak to the edge.. similarly each time there is a pull between akshara and arohi.. arohi trying to manipulate or trying to exploit or take advantage of ak.. abhi will simply lift and carry her away like most of the times we see.. he doesnt even wait for anybdy consent for it.. or push her to the edge where ak wil always choose abhi under any circumstances if the choice had to be between abhi or arohi..though she retorts to this wen she is left without any other option.

Akshara next baby step can be seen with the slap on arohis face.. wen arohi was so insensitive to speak about death of a person.. death of maatha whom she considers as her own mom,,and most importantly who had lost her own mom to a similar disaster...

So each transformation of any victim in an abused relationship is taken by such baby steps.. and Abhi will always ensure that ak takes that step..by hook or crook.. Agree tis slap may not end the complete relationsp of ak and arohi as abuser and victim .. In future too ak will always show concern for her sister arohi and will always try to protect her as well..

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

@ bold:

Each individual neednt require first hand experience to get knowledge of certain aspects in life.. If it was so then this whole life wouldnt have been enough to survive after getting only first hand information... We learn from our surroundings.. we learn from our family.. we learn from our near friends..we learn from books... All these too r counted as experiences..

That first baby step towards light.. towards her love .. fighting against the whole world.. fighting against her own beloved but bully sister...fighting her own promise to her expired sirat mom.. was done on her confession day.. She had declared to the whole world her love and intention of marrying abhi who was then the bridegroom of her sister ...which ws direct emotional slap on her bully sister...so that was the first step ak had taken... which was the toughest step she had to undertake.. and she took that cos of abhi and his level of craziness which pushed ak to the edge.. similarly each time there is a pull between akshara and arohi.. arohi trying to manipulate or trying to exploit or take advantage of ak.. abhi will simply lift and carry her away like most of the times we see.. he doesnt even wait for anybdy consent for it.. or push her to the edge where ak wil always choose abhi under any circumstances if the choice had to be between abhi or arohi..though she retorts to this wen she is left without any other option.

Akshara next baby step can be seen with the slap on arohis face.. wen arohi was so insensitive to speak about death of a person.. death of maatha whom she considers as her own mom,,and most importantly who had lost her own mom to a similar disaster...

So each transformation of any victim in an abused relationship is taken by such baby steps.. and Abhi will always ensure that ak takes that step..by hook or crook.. Agree tis slap may not end the complete relationsp of ak and arohi as abuser and victim .. In future too ak will always show concern for her sister arohi and will always try to protect her as well..

Very well said and explained Deep -

I too said that Akshara is out of Abuse already the day she confessed her love in the temple in front of all..After that there was not looking back for her..She always took and taking stand upto her bullying sister.

Now what we are seeing is Akshara's love and care for her sister to show her the right path and owned up the mistake they both did..she slapped her for making insensitive remark for someone's mother as they too lost their mother...

We don't need to wait for our hairs to become white to understand and experience something in life..It's not necessary for one to go through that experience to understand it..Otherwise why people go to Doctors especially psychiatrist and counselling and similar profession for treatment.

It's not just slap..to initiate that slap the girl has gone through hell and now has reached to this stage. But what to do with jumping remarks..you just don't understand abuse...can't go beyond slap..

There is a character growth in Akshara in these 5 months from her abuse relationship with her sister..