For Imlie to draw all the parallels in her relationships.
I want her psyche to be affected by today.
In her previous relationship, she has received love in private and rebuke in public.
In this relationship she receives love in public, but rebuke in private.
I want her to see this. See that this person cares about what people think of her. See that this person will only highlight the good things about her in public, even when he is mad at her for something.
I want her to draw these parallels so much.