The 'I' in the CHOICE - Page 3

Oh man that ' Victim ban na band karo' was one whistle worthy line. And this isn't the first time he's called her self victimization tendency out. Remember the day she came running to him for the Tripathis. He said, ' tum mere liye koi raaz ya koi mystery nhi ho Imlie. I know you. Tum yeh aansu bahakar mujhe Tripathi house lejana chahti ho taki unke favour mein koi emotional case bana sako.' but the highlight was actually Imlie's reply which made it clear that she's clearly aware of it too. She said ' Agar tumko pata hai to chalo mere saath.' 🤣

And even during the initial phase of AryLie Aryan told Imlie that usko latt lag gyi hai rone ki aur kamzor padne ki. Ab kya hi bole is Kanya k baare mein. Shabd kam pad jayenge😡

Originally posted by: Exuberant_Soul

Oh man that ' Victim ban na band karo' was one whistle worthy line. And this isn't the first time he's called her self victimization tendency out. Remember the day she came running to him for the Tripathis. He said, ' tum mere liye koi raaz ya koi mystery nhi ho Imlie. I know you. Tum yeh aansu bahakar mujhe Tripathi house lejana chahti ho taki unke favour mein koi emotional case bana sako.' but the highlight was actually Imlie's reply which made it clear that she's clearly aware of it too. She said ' Agar tumko pata hai to chalo mere saath.' 🤣

And even during the initial phase of AryLie Aryan told Imlie that usko latt lag gyi hai rone ki aur kamzor padne ki. Ab kya hi bole is Kanya k baare mein. Shabd kam pad jayenge😡

Imlie had a choice from day ONE... She can always choose herself over AKT... But she choose akt and t clan instead.... So eventually its her CHOICE🤦... She can always had a choice to tell everyone and come out clean from all the mess but her MAHANTA( which i hate to the core) and Her saviour syndrome and nanny or mumma behaviour can't let her do that so she chose to be Aryan's fake wife..

Aryan was telling her its all in her hand during the whole wedding but she CHOOOSE to play a victim as always... See even today she had a choice to look good for the reception but what she chose to come like a naukrani... She can come up with other randoms versions of herself also...

Originally posted by: lovereading14

SHE HAD A CHOICE... SHE HAD A VERY CLEAR CHOICE.

Okay let me explain. Choices are in most cases binary, to do or not to do, ta accept or to not accept, to call or to not call, to eat or to not eat. Every second of our lives we are making choices. Like now I am making a very bad and self detrimental choice of drafting this post and not working (like I should be) instead.

Every action in life is a choice. In most cases they are so trivial and we make them everyday so we do not think twice. These choices are in most cases binary (sometimes they are not but I will get into that later)

Her Imlie's choice was restricted by and interaction with a third party (Aryan). If he wouldn't be in the picture she would have alternatives that would have made the decision making non- binary but him being there limited her choices. How?

He wanted revenge, the only way he would stop was if she married him. If he did not want revenge she wouldn't have had to make the choice. But do you see that this arguement can be made for anything? Oh if there was no law I could drink alcohol at 14 - every interaction/institution in some way creates or restricts choices. When you are surrounded wit people it is a given to have restricted choices. You can't blame anyone for that.

Aryan said a dialogue and I swear it is so accurate because my god does she not self victimise. Aryan said "bekaar mein victim ban na band karo" and if that does not describe Imlie right now I don't know what does. Because the woman blames everyone but herself and this entire situation is mostly her fault. Her predicament was her choice.

Forget the last phera the woman had a choice from day 1. SHE ALWAYS HAD A CHOICE. But she just refuses to take it and then blames everyone else for it.

Aryan did not put a gun on her head and forced her to marry him. he offered her a choice that too when SHE went to him with folded hands and with the demeanour of a defeated person. Aryan made an offer to a desperate Imlie who had come to him. Imlie being dumb and thick headed interpreted that as his revenge despite hime telling her not once not twice but THRICE that he would never use her. She chooses to disregard all his previous actions and assume this to be revenge so that is on HER and HER STUPIDITY!

Imlie and her idiotic tactics just infuriate me to no end.

Thank you, my friend for being so clear.👍🏼 So very accurate.

What she really wanted is that Aryan to give up whatever he had in mind. PERIOD. Well, that is not how the world works. She keeps harping on Aryan didn't give her the choice. It is in fact her who didn't even want to consider the other option. She wanted the only option on the table to be for Aryan to stop.

But, once you agreed to do whatever sacrifice , you can't keep on crying and resisting whatever you are supposed to deliver. The people who benefitted from this sacrifice don't even know about the sacrifice. Go cry over there and boast about the sacrifice and get some brownie points🤬.

@bold....... so accurate. Thank you for this again. Balm to a burning heart❤️