Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #20 - Page 100

Originally posted by: Doodle

Oh, you bet!

His face was so discolored when he heard the message and that, too, Shivi was holding Pri's phone. He was so flabbergasted that his whole ground shook beneath him. But, above all, Shivi was paranoid that her home would break along with Ram's. I felt so bad for him; the thought already shook him that Pri might leave him, giving him the sense that his home was almost on the verge of breaking.

He got the much-needed reality check. He understood that the world does observe things and has its own set of rules that he needs to follow. Unfortunately, not everyone is what they seem to portray.

It reminded me of the famous quote from Dr. House - "Everybody lies."

Methinks he will still not connect many dots and will anyway put it down to Vedika being dil ki achchi but mentally disturbed because if her crumbling marriage. That is why he engages her in convo & even holds her sympathetically in the hug. I am not saying he hugs her back but he does hold her.

That, in fact, is the essence of the problem - Ram is not actively betraying Pri but he “allows” it to happen. But, because he is not “doing” anything wrong, AND he hasn’t realised that he was allowing it to happen, he is unable to read Pri’s misery.

Until Shivi’s remark nobody has pointed it out for him to realise, tho all are aware. One time Adi tried, Ram became defensive. He wld hv been defensive with Shivi also, if he had not known about the kangan truth. So its now not 2 but 2 + 2.

Still, I very much doubt if it is enough for him to get to 4, to make that realisation.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Ram’s memory is not that strong either. He cannot even remember who hung up the call for e.g. 🤣 CV, Please make him eat some Chyavanprash along with complan.🤣

Tujhe toh mauka mile toh you won't even spare him, right?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Doodle

I wish they do that. I like the pair, Shikki.

In all this I forgot to mention that did you all notice Pri today? She didn't want to even sit beside Ram today. She used the excuse of getting her phone from the room and Ram looked at her with so much pain. Today, I really did feel bad for him.

Our girl is losing it... Full of contradictions..

on one hand enjoying the balm application sitting close to him and then so uncomfortable with sitting next to him on breakfast table.

On one hand fighting for her self respect and then that sigh... "Fir bhi i want to live this relationship with you..."

But now I can see it (thx to you ladies) She is in love. Brain saying be practical... Heart full of sighs..

Bechara Ram.. i am missing his goofiness since the Holi ep... Bechara didn't even smile seeing P laughing... He is in pain and scared.

When Ram insisted on applying the balm saying “tumne pehli baar bhang pee hai” Pri should have said “magar sardard pehli baar nahi hui hai… mujhe dard ki aadat hai, aap balm dijiye main lagalungi.”

That would have crushed Ram!

Originally posted by: Bana

Methinks he will still not connect many dots and will anyway put it down to Vedika being dil ki achchi but mentally disturbed because if her crumbling marriage. That is why he engages her in convo & even holds her sympathetically in the hug. I am not saying he hugs her back but he does hold her.

That, in fact, is the essence of the problem - Ram is not actively betraying Pri but he “allows” it to happen. But, because he is not “doing” anything wrong, AND he hasn’t realised that he was allowing it to happen, he is unable to read Pri’s misery.

Until Shivi’s remark nobody has pointed it out for him to realise, tho all are aware. One time Adi tried, Ram became defensive. He wld hv been defensive with Shivi also, if he had not known about the kangan truth. So its now not 2 but 2 + 2.

Still, I very much doubt if it is enough for him to get to 4, to make that realisation.

Yeh baat toh, I agree.

He has never given any indication otherwise that people will believe him. The people around him know that he is innocent, but that does not make two negatives positive.

When in V-Day, Viper didn't listen to him with the kachori thing, and in the room after Shivi's fake breakdown, V apologized to him, and he didn't even get mad; simply said - "that's ok." I mean, HOW is that ok?

He thinks everyone around him is exactly like him. I know he is scared of Pri leaving him, but that is NOT an excuse for not coming clean to your wife, the wife whom you claim to love.

I said earlier; he needs an earth-shattering moment. He got it today from Shivi and the event that Viper ACTUALLY sent the video to Pri.

Actually, Pri should have left him today. I don't know, but I feel she leaves him on Monday or after she witnesses the embrace. I think that's why he will go to SH to get her.

90% - I think the office scene is entrapment, but I may be wrong about that 10%.

Originally posted by: Bana

When Ram insisted on applying the balm saying “tumne pehli baar bhang pee hai” Pri should have said “magar sardard pehli baar nahi hui hai… mujhe dard ki aadat hai, aap balm dijiye main lagalungi.”

That would have crushed Ram!

Oh Lord! You are on a roll.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEIE0H708x4

Please makers Meri Priya aur Sarangi ka zabardast jhagda karwa doo.

Sarangi pls keep your Ram bhajan to yourself and stay away from my girl 😭

Originally posted by: Doodle

Tujhe toh mauka mile toh you won't even spare him, right?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Main toh waise bhi spare Na karoon☺️☺️

Originally posted by: bhubhnis

Our girl is losing it... Full of contradictions..

on one hand enjoying the balm application sitting close to him and then so uncomfortable with sitting next to him on breakfast table.

On one hand fighting for her self respect and then that sigh... "Fir bhi i want to live this relationship with you..."

But now I can see it (thx to you ladies) She is in love. Brain saying be practical... Heart full of sighs..

Bechara Ram.. i am missing his goofiness since the Holi ep... Bechara didn't even smile seeing P laughing... He is in pain and scared.

Then when she repeatedly asked in the bakery - "Bataiyee, aap kisse pyaar karte hai? Baitayye, bataiyee?"

Oh, Dear Lord! And Ram wanted to say out loud but saying - "no point, tum bhaang ke nashe me ho."

One would feel for these two. But the major heartbreak was the huge INSULT she gave him - comparing to MS. His face was worth watching. "Tum mujhe apne papa ke saath compare kar rahe ho?"

He was crying today inside. I can't even fathom how he will react seeing her see his embrace. He will be mortified for sure.

Originally posted by: Bana

Methinks he will still not connect many dots and will anyway put it down to Vedika being dil ki achchi but mentally disturbed because if her crumbling marriage. That is why he engages her in convo & even holds her sympathetically in the hug. I am not saying he hugs her back but he does hold her.

That, in fact, is the essence of the problem - Ram is not actively betraying Pri but he “allows” it to happen. But, because he is not “doing” anything wrong, AND he hasn’t realised that he was allowing it to happen, he is unable to read Pri’s misery.

Until Shivi’s remark nobody has pointed it out for him to realise, tho all are aware. One time Adi tried, Ram became defensive. He wld hv been defensive with Shivi also, if he had not known about the kangan truth. So its now not 2 but 2 + 2.

Still, I very much doubt if it is enough for him to get to 4, to make that realisation.

I agree. I had a feeling that instead of understanding the gravity of situation.. his focus was on just protecting Shivis marriage and Shivi. I have a bad feeling that he will excuse Vs behavior.. blame it on her love for him.. as if love excuses all... But it does in his books... He also did foolish things in name of love for his family... I have a feeling he still won't see her manipulativeness and evilness. I hope i am wrong...

I can understand his inability to think bad of someone he had loved and believed that she loved him.... fits his character. However.. as everyone keeps saying.. he has a mind of his own which is quite intelligent at times.. he should be able to add things together. He himself said he trusts priyas views. Why can't he just introspect on why she said that he loves V still. Ask the right questions. It will be so much more meaningful if he comes to see Vs true self by himself without any catalysts.

Having said all that.. i loved Shivi.. she seemed more intelligent. She didn't know the whole story like kangan sari kand and all. Just seeing this message and she gets it... Bhai wo aapka aur mera dono ka ghar Tod degi. And the way she understands Akki... His love for his sis surpasses all. And still loves him unconditionally. She may be spoilt and foolish but this insight about others is superb.