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Originally posted by: mpks1

An apology coming from a person like Suman is really a big thing.

She has once apologized to Rishita and this time to Raavi.

For what all Suman did to Raavi since she came back for Dhara in epi #199, after almost 170 episodes of sheer torture and humiliation, all she could say is sorry.
I really hope we get to see the Suman who was supportive of Raavi from the first time they married till the Temple confrontation.

Hope she won’t put Raavi through anymore agni pariksha 😕

Agree Prema . I want to see how suman and Shiva behave in

1. The next kaand by maami - does she also get special privileges like rishita gets when Seths do a kaand ?

2. When she says something against dhara - This is especially for Shiva. He needs to hear her out . Act based on who is right not blind support to dhara and ignore / taunts to Raavi . He needs to balance.

Originally posted by: firsttimehere

Two bads that stood out for me in the episode :

1. Suman saying maar inko and Shiva about to do just the same. - Both are wrong. Suman for instigating knowing his hot headedness and him getting instigated . And all this inspite their recent history of Anita ka choti kaatna in anger. If it were all real not a natak of raavi .. tab Kya ? Maami ko maarke Shiva jail Jana is the plan is it ? And isn't taking her to a hospital priority over all this badla ?

2. Dhara bringing up the ruckus from past wedding in front of the whole mohalla - things have changed in all these months , Rishita is not the same person . What's the point in digging old graves ? Why to bring in bad memories when you are in the process of making new and better ones ? It's okay to reminisce sometimes how far you have come or how things changed for better ..but this ? Taking a jibe at someone for something they did long back and have been trying to adjust to this damn family and people ever since ? And that too in front of so many people . Not cool on Dhara's part.

Vani 🤗 have been reading your posts, agree with whatever you have been writing. Looks kike you moved out of India and we are in different time zones, hence not here much at the same time.

I agree with what you wrote above also.
Anger and maar-peet in Shiva is where I am looking fir a major change.
Raavi told him during the IVF kaand at the hospital, “har problem ke solution, maar - peet nahi hai”

Hope Raavi plays a major role in taming him😕

I am using what Shiny said during one if the segment interview, “Dhara being Dhara” , thinks she knows it all and funny

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

VOUCH

I felt bad whenever Dhara interrupted her and her cute smile faded into a pout and then a frown.

😒

Yes, I felt bad for her too, she was so excited during ring ceremony and yes even she never had all these post shadi rasam, anyone would want to enjoy that😔

She was so happy for Raavi, she looked so cute asked Raavi to get up and end the acting, it was a like a cute moment of Sisterhood.

I want her to enjoy her pregnancy and not just be afraid of everything.

I understand Dhara's concern for the baby, for someone who have longed for a baby, to get protective about Rishita is justified, but at the same time being the mature one she should understand Rishita's emotions as well, this is what joint family is all about. She is advising her more than Suman

Sometimes we don't understand, what seems like care and concern to us becomes a cage for the other one. That's what is happening b/w the two.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Vani 🤗 have been reading your posts, agree with whatever you have been writing. Looks kike you moved out of India and we are in different time zones, hence not here much at the same time.

I agree with what you wrote above also.
Anger and maar-peet in Shiva is where I am looking fir a major change.
Raavi told him during the IVF kaand at the hospital, “har problem ke solution, maar - peet nahi hai”

Hope Raavi plays a major role in taming him😕

I am using what Shiny said during one if the segment interview, “Dhara being Dhara” , thinks she knows it all and funny

Hi Prema 🤗

Yeah .moved a month back .we don't get to be around the same time at all .

I do understand that maar peet won't go away from Shiva completely . That's his core behavior and if he stops being that he won't be Shiva any more. But I want the maar peet of how Shiva 1.0 was. Emotional yet a Calculated risk taker . He knew he had to take care of Raavi but also knew he can't rage like a bull in front of 20 gundas in the kidnapping track. He went ahead with beating janu and his men during Shaadi track but had the sense not to hit a woman ( motiben)

The Shiva we saw from recent times is just a mad raging bull who gets angry at everyone and everything . No sense of what he is doing and what the impact was.

This needs to be toned down and take care of .

dhara is just a few steps from becoming those women who act like a friend and then steal your baby at the end lol its always the case on those tv movies on hallmark and lifetime lol

Raavi kitni boli kyun hai 😆

Accepted that she drank honey to Krish😆

Apologized to Mami for how she got the truth out ❤️

After showing her kicking skills, “ sorry, sorry, Shiva se shaadi ke excitement todi zyaada hogayi thi” 🤣

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi kitni boli kyun hai 😆

Accepted that she drank honey to Krish😆

Apologized to Mami for how she got the truth out ❤️

After showing her kicking skills, “ sorry, sorry, Shiva se shaadi ke excitement todi zyaada hogayi thi” 🤣

The kick was legendary...Fandom ki khwaahish puri hote hote reh gayi 🤣

Originally posted by: manny136

dhara is just a few steps from becoming those women who act like a friend and then steal your baby at the end lol its always the case on those tv movies on hallmark and lifetime lol

So dhara is like anitha.?..😆

Dhara today showed the trait of gossip aunties, literally taunted Rishita and then moved away with a smile

That what they do say bad things about you, embarass you and then end it all with par ab mujhe kya, smiles and walks away😆

I am not the biggest Dhara fan here, but I do think her protectiveness of Rishita and her baby comes from a place love and place of “don’t let what happened to me happen to you”. It’s a bit annoying and hypocritical but each time Rishita too isn’t perfect. She was seen overextering or downright falling.

Rishitas biggest problem is her close minded approach to life. She approaches everything with the same tunnel vision and only to often realize others were right too/ or they may be making a valid point too. Case in point her almost abortion. It’s great to be independent and have your own mind but you can learn some lessons in life by watching other people’s mistakes and misfortunes.

Dhara needs to learn to let go and realize people can make SENSIBLE decisions for themselves WOTHOUT her help, and Rishita needs to just be more receptive to people’s opinions and thoughts.

It’s gonna be a clash of two headstrong women and as usual I want my shivi babies to just ignore them and not become phokat ke lawyers for Dhara cuz they’ll be biased as hell.