Slow Poisoning :( - Page 3

I would just say one thing. Just stop watching this crap. Because writing posts ranting is of no use . Is this show adding some value to our lives? Nopes. It isn't. To itna analysis kyu karna ? Don't waste you precious time.

I vividly remember a memeber in this forum , wildreaper. Wildy loved sairat to the core . Itne gifs , os ., Vms . Those things made our day . Now she doesn't even visit here

I come here only when I am bohot zada bored. Warna it's Always in hibernation. Trust me , you guys do the same and if ayesha ke liye bhi dekh rahe just STOP . Watch her in some other projects.

We rant and then come back again . Simply shows ki humara khud ka self respect hurt ho jayega .

And trust me this show is utter nonsense idk why did I even watch it. Idk but I wish they fall flat on their faces.

I regret watching this showwwwwww 😞

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

And the reason why I said, the show is toxic and also in a way has made us the viewers accept the toxicity.. You know when you are habituated to abuse, even a glitter of something good at times, makes you survive that abuse...Thats what happens to even audience as well... The show has for the major number of episodes served toxicity and puts these good moments , lighter moments in between.. The audience is too used to this cycle. .. I did mention in one of my posts on how this Sai who was shocked, scared wanted to run away at the way she was treated when she came in this house, when mirchi kaand happened, smiled when she is threatened to be burnt alive...

Imagine women watching this and thinking oh If I am sassy like Sai, I wont be burnt..

That particular scene really hit me hard...

How banker discarded the abuse... But in real world no matter how sassy you are you will be actually thrown into the fire.. And this is happening almost everyday around us..

How do we do that? Contacting channel? Mass request would help?

Originally posted by: SakZ

Why do you think we don’t have an option ?

Actually we have options. One and the most important option is STOP WATCHING THIS CRAP. I used to watch Ghum only for Sai/Ayesha. Now I can't even watch her on screen. All thanks to makers, they have butchered Sai's character . My last HOPE is also gone.

What can you expect from the makers (Vankar) who don't think their show is toxic. What can you expect from the ML who is totally clueless about his character and compared his abusive, humiliating, torturing type behavior towards wife is equivalent to funny Tom and Jerry fight

As a tv viewer I hv decided not to gv trp from my side. I watch some clips on insta. I need to stop that also. Why to watch such cheap and mediocre content when many good shows are available in other channels or platforms.

Yeh PH tini chindi hei ek hi costume mei full month nikal deti hei😵

One request to the TM(Thread maker),please send this post 's link to the makers and cast n crew. It's high time they should know what audience actually think about them.

The makers should switch NB as secondary lead, introduce some other actor like Karan Singh Grover as the main lead as a doctor and change the whole love triangle. Making NB an antagonist. He surely looks like one😁😁.. Also, they should move the story from CN to a hospital.

Originally posted by: Samistha29

How do we do that? Contacting channel? Mass request would help?

At the end of the day, you are the consumer. Most shows go through their ups and downs, but level of toxicity and abuse in Ghum is consistently unbearable and cringeworthy. If it doesn’t agree with your sensibilities or your morals, please stop watching it or at least take a break until it becomes watchable. Nothing and no one is worth your peace of mind especially when acting, dialogs, costumes and directions are all sub par.

The only thing that will affect Star is the ratings. As long as the TRP is high, they will not bother.

Maybe a media article would bring their toxicity into focus. But some days ago there was an article on love triangles, Ghum was mentioned but there was no comment from the makers whereas other serials like Udaariyan, the producer spoke about it.

So the PH avoids such articles. What's the point?

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Miss you around us on the forum ❤️

I miss the forum too..I hover here at times, but I dont follow the show much yaar.. Its very disturbing.

Originally posted by: TotallyPagalSai

They don't care and honestly neither should we give these shows so much importance to the extent that they influence our lives or thought process. They ARE normalizing abuse. They ARE normalizing domestic violence. They ARE normalizing toxic marital relationships. They are normalizing even gross incompetence at work 😂. If I let all this affect my value system and thought process, I'm the idiot. But no doubt it still affects us all at some level...We are human.

Even judging purely on entertainment value-It is not entertaining anymore. I can't watch it. I stopped after Virat was admitted to hospital. Because it just wasn't entertaining to watch V become Mahaan and Sai the scapegoat. It didn't gel with me. I couldn't watch It and I don't.

On the whole, Ghum is probably the most relentlessly negative show I've ever watched. Anu aunty has her toxic moments with loads of drama but then they space it out with some random happy moments too. This show doesn't do happy. They sell misery or maybe I should say Misery ultra pro max 😋. Well, I refuse to buy it. I watch TV to de-stress after work- not to feel miserable.

On the devar bhabi ick factor- it doesn't bother me that much. They never showed them as a normal devar and bhabhi. It was always something weird between them that the writers kept alive for obvious reasons. So yeah..not great, definitely not realistic, i don't care for it, but it's not worse than how the Chavans treat Sai and how that is considered totally acceptable on this show.

Two people in a consensual relationship, no matter how immoral >>>>> domestic abuse. So yeah...I'll take Pakhi and V together any day over Sai being abused her whole life but "in love" and with her abusive, emotionally manipulative husband.