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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: shriz

are you talking about that red wali saari jo tu dukan se chura k bhagi thi or that black wali saari jo tujhe bheekh me ek aunty ne diya tha??!!😳

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hina? inquiring minds would like to know. 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

she has the stomach flu? cuz i have a cure…


I dunno, AlI, if that therapy will work here. She’s inured to scary visions after her 26 years at Shah House 🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: shriz

mai cool and funny nhi hu kya 🔫🔫🔫

they arent the first words that come to mind. 🙂🙂🙂

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

we can give him a world tour. 😉

anyways, after he is done exploring, we take him back to 🇮🇳 and live during the day with Komal cuz she is cool and fun and i just love 💕 her and spend the nights with Shriz cuz i always wanted to see what hostel living was like plus she stays up late. 🤔

Please ask him to spend his evening with me then...

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I like your perspective. Thank you for posting them. 👍🏼


I am not even concerned about her final decision. Her giving a cold shoulder to Anuj, then weeping at this point of time in the story is uncalled for. Given how close she has grown towards Anuj, he could be her perfect sounding board. Open up to him and talk about her pain inflicted by the people she loves.

When there is someone who is offering so much love and affection it must be reciprocrated. If nothing else, even if she wanted to be alone at that time and did not want to talk to him, she could have told him that in a nice way, instead of giving him stern looks. All his fault was to shower her with limitless affection & care.


I am surprised she had expectations from her family( baa, pakhi, V et al) that they would happily agree. She of all people should know how they are going to react.

Overall, I could not relate to her grief.

It’s cuz she didn’t want to hurt Anuj.. she didn’t want to upset him more after hearing him pour his heart out when intoxicated. How is she to tell Anuj what all her so called family (namely baa and Pakhi) told her.. they age-shamed her, berated her etc. That shit hurts. I am a woman in my 20s living in the US and the shit that baa said, it gave me goosebumbs. It was brutal and harsh. Cant even imagine how much it must have shaken for someone like Anu. They baa threatened to kill herself if Anu chooses Anuj. How is she to tell all this to Anuj? And she herself is not in a condition to talk about her turmoil, or make anyone understand. Yes it hurt Anuj that she wasn’t sharing or talking to him… but for anuj to know what kind of shit her so called family hurled at her because of their relationship, it would have hurt him more and Anuj would have gone into his guilt-mode.

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Edited by YoungHeart - 3 years ago
Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: YoungHeart


I disagree. I actually think she’s already made up her decision to choose Anuj and her happiness over so called samaj ki baatein and family. She’s tormented because she thought the so called family she considered her own and did so much for all these years, isn’t in support of her love and her happiness. While she expected them to support her (yes delusional), esp Pakhi… but her bubble just burst.

All those expressions and silence isn't because she's reconsidering her yes. It's because her heart is shattered from how her family has behaved. Everyone's words echo through her because her family is split into two. She legit said she's ending this story - the story of how women are treated in society. And she was so determined. If she meant she’s ending her love story, she would have sounded sad.

I am surprised many people (esp here.. in social media many have tweeted that they know Anu has already chosen anuj.. surprised the pov is so polarized) too didn’t understand Anu’s anguish and turmoil they are trying to portray. They never gave any long monologues to Anu. It was to the point. Parivar pyar ko Kyun nahi samajh raha. I guess it’s the fault in the writing. Also cuz they wanna keep the suspense factor going (mainly for trp audience who doesn’t get info from social media) and their dialogues are vague and ambiguous.


I quite disagree as well...why is Anu having to reconsider when she said yes already(which was after she found out about the daadi thing) she could have just asked for more time to think if she was unsure of the consequences.


I'm actually surprised too that people(here or on social media) have the opinion that Anu is not at fault. We have been tortured by her monologues before so I'm glad they spared us for once, her tears I'm sorry to say didn't garner any sympathy from me this time cause they seemed superficial.


The only thing that Anu should care about at this point is her kids, Paakhi is a fickleminded child and Vanraj has made his intentions clear, which leaves Baa who just can't let go of her control over Anu...she needs to shuffle her priorities. Its sad that she can't see who's playing her and mistakes it for respect.


And I'm not saying all this cause I'm pro Anuj, he's no less of a dumbass.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: hinz


I quite disagree as well...why is Anu having to reconsider when she said yes already(which was after she found out about the daadi thing) she could have just asked for more time to think if she was unsure of the consequences.


I'm actually surprised too that people(here or on social media) have the opinion that Anu is not at fault. We have been tortured by her monologues before so I'm glad they spared us for once, her tears I'm sorry to say didn't garner any sympathy from me this time cause they seemed superficial.


The only thing that Anu should care about at this point is her kids, Paakhi is a fickleminded child and Vanraj has made his intentions clear, which leaves Baa who just can't let go of her control over Anu...she needs to shuffle her priorities. Its sad that she can't see who's playing her and mistakes it for respect.


And I'm not saying all this cause I'm pro Anuj, he's no less of a dumbass.

Bold- Hina ye toofan se pehle ki shanti hai..

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

It’s cuz she didn’t want to hurt Anuj.. she didn’t want to upset him after everything. How is she to tell Anuj what all her so called family (namely baa and Pakhi) told her.. they age-shamed her. They baa threatened to kill herself if Anu chooses Anuj. How is she to tell all this to Anuj? And she herself is not in a condition to talk about her turmoil, or make anyone understand. Yes it hurt Anuj that she wasn’t sharing or talking to him… but for anuj to know what kind of shit her so called family hurled at her because of their relationship, it would have hurt him more and Anuj would have gone into his guilt-mode.

Well, she is about to share the rest of her life with him, I see no reason why she cannot tell Anuj all those insults that were hurled towards her. Yes, she must tell him, so he knows her perspective. She very well can add - "this is my battle and I want to fight this alone, I need some alone time".

I dont see why she cannot tell him, infact she must.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: hinz


I dont think she will choose Anuj, she will decide to let him go for his own good like she'll be ke Anuj ko constant family drama and taunts se bachane ke liye maine ye bada decision liya ke usko jaane doon...mahaanta bhi toh ajati hai na beech mein, dono ek se baadhkar ek mahaanta ke contenders hai aur Baa jaisi audience ke mazze😡


Hmm I don’t think that will happen. If it does then I hope Anuj just runs away to US because he deserves better.

But I think she has already chosen Anuj.

She is probably questioning everything because of what the Shahs are saying. Of course she shouldn’t because Anuj has proven time and again that he is the only one who deserves her love.

But somewhere I get it. The Shahs are trying to malign her in the worse possible way. All those things that they are saying are what people in small town India actually say and its boring holes in her heart.

What she is grieving right now is the prospect of scandalising the family.The story makes no sense because we would have assumed that she got over all these doubts when she said yes to him, and the good Shahs are already with her.

But she will overcome these inhibitions and choose Anuj.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

she has the stomach flu? cuz i have a cure…

Yes Ali, go for it. But only show it to Anu, dont show it to us as we are already cured for next 7 births. I don't think I will ever have the stomach flu again

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