Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim
Honestly, I think that's a better reason to be on opposing ends. Your brother's doing it out of care and I'd probably be a little vary too. People pick sides in a breakup, and if you're not friends with both parties, then the picking becomes easier and more extreme.
You're in a really tough spot - stuck between two people who you love so dearly. Personally, for me, the cold war hurts more than a verbal argument or a physical fight. My loved ones often put me in a similar position and it sucks like hell.
Have you ever brought up the break-up in your more recent fights? I imagine some things are hard to forget or overcome easily. I mean, Abhi can't let go of the insecurities he got because of their break-up so I imagine a similar situation. I'm so sorry if I'm getting too personal. Please tell me to shut up or feel free to ignore me if I'm crossing boundaries.
@ Bold - true.
@red - Maybe in future we would bring those days up when we have our fights. 99% sure we would bring them up because lot was said by both of us that can't be unsaid now. But for now, our fights haven't been all that big. No time, actually. Courtesy of covid and then my mom passing away - our time flew away in our respective hospitals and our cribbing currently limited to why can't you fold your clothes properly and why didn't you learn to cook. 😆
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