Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #16 - Page 55

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

You and me … we are idiots…

See the intelligence of n and v…see their perspective and confidence in virtues of p and r

…. they, pnr are wnh, staying in the same room, sharing the bed, engaging with eo’s lives like how wnh do , and these intelligent enough to know that their marriage is a sham

Kansa locked up Devaki and Vasudev together in the cell knowing that 8th kid of his sister is Vishnu’s avatar born to kill him… aisa kuch lagta hai inka logic…

But there was explanation back then, that he should not divide wnh acc to manusmriti, with no crime commission , even villainous character had ethics of not separating wnh.…😆 he only had single aim of killing his to be killer🤷‍♀️

Yeh v and n ka funda pata nahi, kis chakkar me r and p ko alag karne baite hai… v, I get it… but why should n want p out?🧐

p told she will give back 5% if shubu becomes responsible…

1. she is teaching him responsibility, that n didn’t …

2. she doesn’t spend money, saves electricity,water,restaurants ka bills in km.

3.Cooks like a pro, folds like a wonder folder, cleans and organises like Marie condo

4.Kal km me bacche honge to, she will become masterniji for all of them

5.Treats the servants and assistants with respect and also knows to take care of them…

They actually got a sarva gun sampann , sarcasm filled and athmanirbar bahu who can surprisingly also

6. get the bad humour of her sons and can put up with shivi’s tantrums, and

7. cut off mami like a live wire through cotton thread…

Oooo… now , I get!

N ko P se jealousy ho Rahi hai🤣

N is jealous of Meera Maa ... Ram should have called Meera aunty ... Then there would have been no kaands .. Sab Ram ki galti hai

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Ye to welcome ka majnu nikla 🤣

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Interview ka mahool matam me badal jata🤣

Ram kapoor bhi naa ... He should have used his wit now ...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Ram might be married to Priya and loves her very much but his problem is that , his emotional anchor is Vedika. And I guess that is the reason why he is not able to let go or even think that she could go against his happiness. Even though Vedika was married to Shashi and acted as a happy couple in front of Ram..Ram and Vedika maintained that emotional connect. Vedika did this because she wanted to benefit from Ram . She wanted Ram to help her husband.

But for Ram, this friendship , this emotional connect is seen as a gift from her . He knew he was not rich and hence lost her but he was happy that she was willing to be that emotional anchor.

There has been scenes where in we get to see Vedika giving that support to Ram and helping him move on. Conversation before Akki and Shivi's marriage...her support to Ram and Priya during the dinner table , her helping Priya with lipstick on the day of Ram and Priya's engagement.

Every individual has a grey shade , it is the intensity of that grey scale that makes you take decisions which can harm people or self.

Vedika who is shashi's wife kept the emotional connect for purely selfish reason where as for Ram that emotional connect and friendship was a breath of air he needed for his survival . Thats the dept of his affection he had for her. He was happy in her happiness. Ram at heart is a good man. His intentions werent bad. He never interfered in Shashi or Vedika's marriage. Ideally Vedika shouldnt have encouraged Ram to keep that emotional connect .

After Ram's marriage , he an opportunity to cut this emotional connect but Ram couldnt because Priya was not like other women and to top it all she came with her own set of issues and past.

Ram and Priya connected in "Pain". Their past experience and pain that they endured helped them to understand each other much more than anyone has ever understood them. They accepted their pain in their own way. One being introvert and the other being extrovert. This made verbal communications difficult. Every decision taken by them is based on assumptions and we all know what that means .

Assumptions are the mother of all mess ups

All three Vedika, Priya and Ram didnt do the right thing after their marriage. When you are married to someone, one shouldnt maintain that emotional bonding with your ex. Its good to be friends but this level of bonding is not good for their marriage. This is where Vedika and Ram made a mistake.

Coming to Priya , she is locking herself away from her husband who wants her all for himself. 🤣

We all know every one needs an emotional anchor, but we need to be careful who we choose as emotional anchors in our life.

The mistake that Ram and Priya is doing - not letting their past go. All the while as singles they derived their strength from their past experience/pain , as both are not completely comfortable to discuss their pain. Now they have each other , they should take that leap of faith and embrace this relationship of theirs and come to peace with their past. They need to heal each other.

They should learn to lean on to each other. Just like life , love will also find its way .

I used to like Vedika before. I dont know why CV made her a vamp all of a sudden ...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Wondering what Priya will respond. She might take it as Ram in love with someone else.🤣Is this going to backfire??

Definitely priya will say " your in love" and ram will think she means by herself.🤣

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Definitely priya will say " your in love" and ram will think she means by herself.🤣

Don't worry behen. Ram has his Laxman and the entire banara sena (Friends, Priya's family) to help him out. This time around Ram will take help from the right set of people, that's the positive thing about this kaand

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Ram kapoor bhi naa ... He should have used his wit now ...

Are he tried that but it is backfiring on him and he realised that so now he is being sincere.

He knows priya is angry and any thing he will say usually will come back later to bite him in the ass but this time priya sabke samne ise sunari hai.

Iska stress mode activate hogya hai bss tablets pop karna baki hai 🤣

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I used to like Vedika before. I dont know why CV made her a vamp all of a sudden ...

v is negative from start… we didn’t realise it… the subtlety they wrote that character with is wonderful… we were fooled just like ram , seeing her nicities …👏👏👏

She knew ram is around like a puppy with her, knows sashi uses it, sashi tells her that, sashi asks her to do things to manipulate ram…and she does it… 😳

she wasn’t just manipulated, she wanted ram to act as per her influence and whim… she made sashi believe that she is acting to his tunes until she didn’t…😛 she is self obsessed and preserving to the point that she doesn’t mind breaking ethos for that… 😠and she does that under the pretence of being abla- naaripan … 😡

I was watching previous episodes, and then realised it … she was always meant to be evil ex… writers left clues all over…

1.she went after prawns issue, to prove Sid innocence, not for ram..

2.the loooong term friends were always miffed with v, not just the ram’s feelings for v…

3.her reluctance to be bad infront of ram , though it means harm to him…

4.her constant hammering of virtue signalling of herself and ram together, that manipulated ram for years together…

Many many more….

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

v is negative from start… we didn’t realise it… the subtlety they wrote that character with is wonderful… we were fooled just like ram , seeing her nicities …👏👏👏

She knew ram is around like a puppy with her, knows sashi uses it, sashi tells her that, sashi asks her to do things to manipulate ram…and she does it… 😳

she wasn’t just manipulated, she wanted ram to act as per her influence and whim… she made sashi believe that she is acting to his tunes until she didn’t…😛 she is self obsessed and preserving to the point that she doesn’t mind breaking ethos for that… 😠and she does that under the pretence of being abla- naaripan … 😡

I was watching previous episodes, and then realised it … she was always meant to be evil ex… writers left clues all over…

1.she went after prawns issue, to prove Sid innocence, not for ram..

2.the loooong term friends were always miffed with v, not just the ram’s feelings for v…

3.her reluctance to be bad infront of ram , though it means harm to him…

4.her constant hammering of virtue signalling of herself and ram together, that manipulated ram for years together…

Many many more….

Will check the previous episodes. Actually I started watching BALH2 from the engagement time. Recently only after the symbolism keeda bit me, I started watching earlier episodes. I have not yet watches the starting 2 episodes

One more symbolism to be added here

Nandini had pushed for Raya union and the more she pushes, the more closer they get. That's why Raya will never get separated because of Nandini

Vedika had suggested for Shikki union and the more she tries to push, more strong they will get. That's why Akki kaand misfired, now Kangan kaand will also because V took the lead

Some other external person can only separate Raya and Shikki, not N and V