Aarohi needs a reality check!

Even if the card was accidentally swapped and it was not Aarohis fault, she was roaming around with it all morning. Why was she doing that?

Aarohi always had a superiority complex when compared to Akshara. She always felt that she was the real daughter of that house as Sirat was her mother. She had no idea what Naira was or Kaira was. She wrongly feels that she shared her mother with Akshara and so did a favor on her. But she does not know what Akshara meant to both Karthik and Naira. Goenkas are responsible for overlooking Aarohis mistakes and also not letting these girls know what exactly happened in the past. She does hold a lot of vengeance against Abhimanyu for picking Akshara over her because she thinks she is superior.

If now the makers are trying to whitewash Aarohi or let her play the victim card, then I dont even know what to say. Ofcourse Abhimanyu has anger issues, but he was not wrong in warning Aarohi. She did deliberately push the tilak thali. She was super jealous that everyone was happy for Akshara .

It would have been better had she been yelled at by a Goenka elder. Then things would not have gotten this bad. She would be watchful of her behavior and been a bit afraid,

Agree to each and every point mentioned by you, even last time Arohi didn't received any punishment or reality check for her deeds, nor did anyone make her understand. bade papa was angry with Akshu but what abt Arohi, when are they gonna call out on her?

This!

dimagh ka dahi …bechari aarohi poor aarohi victim aarohi mainey kuchh nahi kiya etc etc why were you moving around holding the card of a marriage which was anyways a power alliance for you…she needs to stop acting like a jilted lover…neither did she love abhi nor did he love her…period…his yes also in a way stemmed from her lies …Abhi’s anger in the sbs segment is 200% justified. Arrey insaan kab tak patience rakhega…even viewers are angry (Atleast the ones like me lol) …I want to see if goenkas scold aarohi or not…kya mazaak laga rakha hai …

THIS!!

It doesn't matter to me whether Aarohi actually switched the cards or not. What matters is the intention. She was about to throw paint to destroy the card AND she was carrying around the card all morning... so even if it was not her doing, it was her wish all along.

Back track to even before the card fiasco...

She purposefully knocked over the tilak AND tried ruining the wedding pictures, which is why Abhi warned her in the first place. Abhi is impulsive and does not control his words, but he is not wrong at all to be suspicious of her and be on high alert around her. He has experienced first hand what she is capable of! I think that people saying that Abhi is triggering Aarohi are failing to see that the only reason why Abhi is warning Aarohi is because of her own nature and her own actions!

Back tracking another step to before the tilak ceremony...

She purposefully revealed that Abhira and Kaisha were at the park to Manish... because again, they had something that she did not. See, if Aarohi was just feeling bad and crying and having flashabacks, I would truly sympathsize for her. But it is the fact that she is going out of her way to try to ruin things for her own sister that shows her true intentions. It is human nature to feel bad and maybe even a little jealous in Aarohi's circumstances...but the extent to which Aarohi's jealously escalates and the kaands she creates are entirely unacceptable.

Aarohi was totally fine and even "forgave" Akshu while Abhira were separated. But, the second she saw that the families were accepting them, she started plotting again. I don't think she is shown to be flip flopping. This is just who is she. As long as she is on "top", she is happy and carefree. The second someone, especially Akshu, gets "something" that she does not have, she loses it.

This was her problem with Abhira in the first place...she could not understand why Abhi loved Akshu and not her...because in her mind, Akshu has been and always will be inferior to her. That is why again, the nurses's comments led her to say "I will show you who's best" yesterday...because she needs to prove to herself that she is better than Akshu in every way possible...she cannot hear a single nice thing said about anyone except herself.

Also, signs are pointing that this time, Aarohi's target is on Abhi's back. She is jealous of Akshu and cannot see her happy, but as she herself said, she wants to cut Abhi's wings. Why? Because he had the audacity to call her out on her actions. Because he is not falling prey to her act of being a victim. She is going to try to harm him, which won't go down well with Akshu at all. Because, Akshu can tolerate all the pain and suffering in the word...but she cannot tolerate Abhi being harmed. She will go against the entire family and put her own life in jeopardy too...as we have already seen multiple times by now.

I truly believe that nothing and no one can put Aarohi in her place except Akshu. She thinks Akshu is emotionally weak and that she can keep manipulating her and using Akshu's love for her against her. But, Akshu is actually the strongest character in this show. Someone's calmness and love does not make them weak...and Aarohi does not understand that.

Originally posted by: tptwi

THIS!!

It doesn't matter to me whether Aarohi actually switched the cards or not. What matters is the intention. She was about to throw paint to destroy the card AND she was carrying around the card all morning... so even if it was not her doing, it was her wish all along.

Back track to even before the card fiasco...

She purposefully knocked over the tilak AND tried ruining the wedding pictures, which is why Abhi warned her in the first place. Abhi is impulsive and does not control his words, but he is not wrong at all to be suspicious of her and be on high alert around her. He has experienced first hand what she is capable of! I think that people saying that Abhi is triggering Aarohi are failing to see that the only reason why Abhi is warning Aarohi is because of her own nature and her own actions!

Back tracking another step to before the tilak ceremony...

She purposefully revealed that Abhira and Kaisha were at the park to Manish... because again, they had something that she did not. See, if Aarohi was just feeling bad and crying and having flashabacks, I would truly sympathsize for her. But it is the fact that she is going out of her way to try to ruin things for her own sister that shows her true intentions. It is human nature to feel bad and maybe even a little jealous in Aarohi's circumstances...but the extent to which Aarohi's jealously escalates and the kaands she creates are entirely unacceptable.

Aarohi was totally fine and even "forgave" Akshu while Abhira were separated. But, the second she saw that the families were accepting them, she started plotting again. I don't think she is shown to be flip flopping. This is just who is she. As long as she is on "top", she is happy and carefree. The second someone, especially Akshu, gets "something" that she does not have, she loses it.

This was her problem with Abhira in the first place...she could not understand why Abhi loved Akshu and not her...because in her mind, Akshu has been and always will be inferior to her. That is why again, the nurses's comments led her to say "I will show you who's best" yesterday...because she needs to prove to herself that she is better than Akshu in every way possible...she cannot hear a single nice thing said about anyone except herself.

Also, signs are pointing that this time, Aarohi's target is on Abhi's back. She is jealous of Akshu and cannot see her happy, but as she herself said, she wants to cut Abhi's wings. Why? Because he had the audacity to call her out on her actions. Because he is not falling prey to her act of being a victim. She is going to try to harm him, which won't go down well with Akshu at all. Because, Akshu can tolerate all the pain and suffering in the word...but she cannot tolerate Abhi being harmed. She will go against the entire family and put her own life in jeopardy too...as we have already seen multiple times by now.

I truly believe that nothing and no one can put Aarohi in her place except Akshu. She thinks Akshu is emotionally weak and that she can keep manipulating her and using Akshu's love for her against her. But, Akshu is actually the strongest character in this show. Someone's calmness and love does not make them weak...and Aarohi does not understand that.

Aarohi feeling sad or depressed is fine but trying to create problems in her sister's wedding in the name of trauma is something that can't be tolerated..

Its high time that aarohi accepts that abhimanyu never loved her and he was never even interested in her..its time for aarohi to move on and get a life..

Plus now I feel abhimanyu has started hating aarohi..like a serious HATRED..Abhimanyu literally HATES Aarohi..he tried a lot to be normal and civil with aarohi for akshu's sake but now he's seriously pissed off..abhimanyu had made peace with aarohi after Tilak 1.0..but this time he's totally done with her...specially after card pooja kaand..

In sbs segment when abhimanyu blasted and lashed out at aarohi and burned her wedding card..it was such a strong scene..I could literally feel abhimanyu's anger, hatred and frustration with aarohi..

This girl is digging her own grave by doing this stupidity..but I wonder why did makers include Aarohi's wedding card in abhira's function..

Just so that abhimanyu could burn it !?🤔

I am glad this post made its way on the forum!!

I agree with all of you!!

For so many years aarohi was happy because it was all about aarohi.

The minute akshara got her happiness- it shook aarohi.

I will give her benefit of doubt and accept she didn’t exchange the cards but her intention was to exchange.

BP, Kairav and even Ak had some kind of communication with her and all she said was she is happy.

I really hope makers don’t make mockery of ptsd. It’s serious and very delicate topic.

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

absolutely correct..

Aarohi feeling sad or depressed is fine but trying to create problems in her sister's wedding in the name of trauma is something that can't be tolerated..

Its high time that aarohi accepts that abhimanyu never loved her and he was never even interested in her..its time for aarohi to move on and get a life..

Plus now I feel abhimanyu has started hating aarohi..like a serious HATRED..Abhimanyu literally HATES Aarohi..he tried a lot to be normal and civil with aarohi for akshu's sake but now he's seriously pissed off..abhimanyu had made peace with aarohi after Tilak 1.0..but this time he's totally done with her...specially after card pooja kaand..

In sbs segment when abhimanyu blasted and lashed out at aarohi and burned her wedding card..it was such a strong scene..I could literally feel abhimanyu's anger, hatred and frustration with aarohi..

This girl is digging her own grave by doing this stupidity..but I wonder why did makers include Aarohi's wedding card in abhira's function..

Just so that abhimanyu could burn it !?🤔

I think the reason for the card appearing there on a more symbolic level is definitely so that Abhi could burn it and for things to come full circle. Last time, the pooja still happened for Abhira even though the card was meant for Aarohi and Abhi. This time, not only will the pooja happen for Abhira, but Abhi will burn the past and mark an end to it. Fire is purity... fire is destruction and rebirth... so by burning the card, he is not only destroying the past and Aarohi's ego, but he is also paving way for Abhira's new relationship.

Like I keep saying, all these kaands are making Abhi lose all patience, but they are also scaring and annoying Akshu. So, this all seems to be leading up to runaway marriage without the families present...that would be yet another parallel that would end in the correct way this time!

When an engagement breaks, the families get together and return gifts of value, destroy pictures and invitations and such - memories cannot be destroyed and heartbreak/feelings ( if any ) will heal. But most families will destroy invites and photos - these Goenkas are so odd. Why would they save the invites from a broken engagement and have it floating around in their home?

Originally posted by: tptwi

I agree that Abhi is losing all patience with Aarohi. And even though he is the one who is blasting her and losing control (understandably so), the rest of the Goenkas and even Akshu, are not defending her anymore. They are all slowly seeing what she is capable of. Akshu might try to brush it off again after Aarohi hugs her and move forward with the pooja, but she is losing trust too. This is all building up to Aarohi getting herself into deep deep sh*t due to her own actions and intentions.

I think the reason for the card appearing there on a more symbolic level is definitely so that Abhi could burn it and for things to come full circle. Last time, the pooja still happened for Abhira even though the card was meant for Aarohi and Abhi. This time, not only will the pooja happen for Abhira, but Abhi will burn the past and mark an end to it. Fire is purity... fire is destruction and rebirth... so by burning the card, he is not only destroying the past and Aarohi's ego, but he is also paving way for Abhira's new relationship.

Like I keep saying, all these kaands are making Abhi lose all patience, but they are also scaring and annoying Akshu. So, this all seems to be leading up to runaway marriage without the families present...that would be yet another parallel that would end in the correct way this time!

Originally posted by: IAMHope

When an engagement breaks, the families get together and return gifts of value, destroy pictures and invitations and such - memories cannot be destroyed and heartbreak/feelings ( if any ) will heal. But most families will destroy invites and photos - these Goenkas are so odd. Why would they save the invites from a broken engagement and have it floating around in their home?

I think its arohi only who did so...and why think so is bcz when during the pooja we saw that only onw dr. was there on the card but if you see the sbb/sbs segment there are 2drs. clipart. I mean if this was some mistake done by a servant, will the servant go to the extent of pasting the other character?

And if she is falsely accused, then what are makers trying to show, that abhimanyu is being insecure of Arohi? I m sure its Arohi trying to create problems between Abhimanyu and Akshara