Originally posted by: sherry_24
It’s so aggravating to watch such content on national TV. Why did I bother watching the clips today 🤦♀️
1. Sai Virat Chavan - What does it even mean? Does Kamal Joshi not hold a value or is inferior in any terms? Is changing the last name a means to prove that one accepts a marriage? Name is an identity not a tag of ownership. Its a choice, provided it is taken up with the right sense and not as a label.
2. Main is baar bhi mana lungi - When was she fully accepted? When did they stop abusing or discriminating. The people who she thought were on her side actually abandoned her. Worse they have started accusing her. She was wrong but how is she more wrong than any of the other Chavans/Salunkes. What is the logic? And she wants acceptance from such people?
3. Apology- Apology is apology. All that matters is how heart felt it is. Weighing it in terms of number of words, or its extravagance and to what extent the prolific words and actions take course is not the right measurement. That actually says one is testing the person and not trusting the person. So Virat doesn’t trust Sai! What does he want from her? Run around him like a tail, bow down to his demands like a servant, with no self respect, and worship him like god?
4. V’s act - I feel he is observing. But even then this behaviour is unacceptable. He has refrained from making any comments on the tussle between Sai and his family. He may be hurt, hence be upset with her but if he loves her he can’t be taking a revenge on her. Keeping a track of all her actions and words in the past and striking them across in a ledger is not a sign of true love. It sounds more like business. If its tit for tat he should remember the number of times he has wronged her and how she forgave him and came back to him so easily.
5. Mere dil mein jagah banane ki sochna bhi mat - He turned away from her. He knew he has hurt her with his words and couldn’t face her. I felt that, but then again I feel ML failed to express it. It was too bland (if he was feeling bad for hurting her).
6. Tum Pakhi ko kyon beech mein la rahi ho - This one got me thinking and kind of gave him away. This was his only dialogue in his entire conversation with her lately that was out of place in his repetitive “Mera tumse koi rishta nahi hai” and its synonyms and his sullen monotonous expression. It pinched him that she still holds Pakhi as a third angle and he can’t take it. If he doesn’t consider her as his wife, why does it bother him what Sai thinks about Pakhi’s place in their relationship?
7. Ninad coughing - V’s mask dropped as he got concerned. Why is it not slipping for Sai? Is he being extra cautious? Or like we all know, she needs to be in a life threatening situation for him to melt/react.
8. The family - Is a bunch of hypocrite pests. Most of them know about Pakhi’s intentions and they are themselves encouraging her to go close to V and in the presence of her husband who is a mute spectator while his wife lusts over his brother. Which family pampers and encourages and holds a woman with such disgusting behaviour in high regards and above everyone and call her the most virtuous. I seriously want to understand their definition of that word “Sanskari”🤯
PS - Can someone ask Vankar what his take is on feminism, women’s stature in society. And then what he thinks about his portrayal of women in this show. I want to see this man’s hypocrisy
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