TRIPATHIS, AND THEIR HISTRIONICS.......

Each one of you fill in the blank for yourselves, girls and boys!😃

The whole celebration and teasing of Adi guy is so distasteful 😡and Ewww..... Do they remember he is still married with a child on the way? I have to give it to them for their over-confidence, that Imlie and Adi guy will be a thingafter announcing in a news paper about how Imlie betrayed bechara with ASR😡

Don't care about the new vamps in town👎🏼. Really, why did Narmada dig herself and her son into a ditch?😡 She seemed very scared about the new badi mummy😡Did she think they would play her game along? Please, don't take the show into the kitchen again. BTW, does anybody else think the actress playing Narmada has some resemblance to Sharmila Tagore?

OK, now to my point of contention. I thought I would hide under a rock till I am at peace with this marriage. And today, I had to deal with 2 real life incidents which opened a new perspective for me. A professional interaction, where we had to take a firm action against a failing student. The options were laid out to him with an OR ELSE. The choice was the student's in the end. Another one, a friend had to be supported as she dealt with her troubled child, again options were given. But in either of these situations, they were not given a choice that they can continue with their status quo with no consequences🤢. So, if I look at the situation from the standpoint of Imlie's well wisher, I probably won't give her the choice of self-destructive status quo. Because, I know that the other option she is given has no downside from my standpoint. But, if I am looking at the situation from the standpoint of her advocate, then, I don't like the fact that she is coerced into making a choice that I like. She is put in between the rock and a hard place.

I know thoda hypocritical hain😲, but I chose to understand where Aryan is coming from, as a well wisher🤔. I would rather have her between a rock and a hard place rather than completely losing her-self in her unending service to the Tripathis. 😃I made my peace with the situation and I am sticking to it for nowAaj ke liye itna hi gyaan hain🤓

I would like front seats to watch the Tripathis faces' today as the Aryan Singh Rathore bulldozes their imaginative skyscrapers😃 Did I say, I can't tolerate that Rupi👎🏼? I want to see how happy and wishful they will be for their beti's happiness or change in status🤔Aakhir shaadi-shuda hain, shubh kamnayein toh bante hain. Will they indulge in heartfelt celebrations or will they be jealous? I want a scene where ASR tells the Tripathi clan to back off as she has a life now with him and his family Bahut sukoon milega

Ok. one thing I didn't understand. Why did ASR agree for a fake marriage? His true reasoning for the fake marriage is to keep Imlie under some emotional control, not to show the world or Tripathis that he snagged her. He may flaunt her as Mrs. Imlie ASR in the face of Adi guy, but that is not the primary reason for his decision, right? How do her emotions reign in when she knows that she is not married to ASR? Will she still continue to run to the Tripathis rescue? Ewww....... that won't bode well for ASR in the future. Did ASR miss a small detail here?

With my changed perspective, I am a shaant aatma . Later girls.......

From imlies pov , the whole shaadi natak is for the tripathis !

If tripathis ask her to be at their beck and call , and ASR stops her, i dont think she would be able to defy him !!

Other aspects like gng back to job , college she may refuse him , would love to see how tht plays out

Originally posted by: mili9

Each one of you fill in the blank for yourselves, girls and boys!😃

The whole celebration and teasing of Adi guy is so distasteful 😡and Ewww..... Do they remember he is still married with a child on the way? I have to give it to them for their over-confidence, that Imlie and Adi guy will be a thingafter announcing in a news paper about how Imlie betrayed bechara with ASR😡

Don't care about the new vamps in town👎🏼. 1. Really, why did Narmada dig herself and her son into a ditch?😡 She seemed very scared about the new badi mummy😡Did she think they would play her game along? Please, don't take the show into the kitchen again. BTW, does anybody else think the actress playing Narmada has some resemblance to Sharmila Tagore?

OK, now to my point of contention. 2. I thought I would hide under a rock till I am at peace with this marriage. And today, I had to deal with 2 real life incidents which opened a new perspective for me. A professional interaction, where we had to take a firm action against a failing student. The options were laid out to him with an OR ELSE. The choice was the student's in the end. Another one, a friend had to be supported as she dealt with her troubled child, again options were given. But in either of these situations, they were not given a choice that they can continue with their status quo with no consequences🤢. So, if I look at the situation from the standpoint of Imlie's well wisher, I probably won't give her the choice of self-destructive status quo. Because, I know that the other option she is given has no downside from my standpoint. But, if I am looking at the situation from the standpoint of her advocate, then, I don't like the fact that she is coerced into making a choice that I like. She is put in between the rock and a hard place.

I know thoda hypocritical hain😲, but I chose to understand where Aryan is coming from, as a well wisher🤔. I would rather have her between a rock and a hard place rather than completely losing her-self in her unending service to the Tripathis. 😃I made my peace with the situation and I am sticking to it for nowAaj ke liye itna hi gyaan hain🤓

I would like front seats to watch the Tripathis faces' today as the Aryan Singh Rathore bulldozes their imaginative skyscrapers😃 Did I say, I can't tolerate that Rupi👎🏼? I want to see how happy and wishful they will be for their beti's happiness or change in status🤔Aakhir shaadi-shuda hain, shubh kamnayein toh bante hain. Will they indulge in heartfelt celebrations or will they be jealous? I want a scene where ASR tells the Tripathi clan to back off as she has a life now with him and his family Bahut sukoon milega

Ok. one thing I didn't understand. 3. Why did ASR agree for a fake marriage? His true reasoning for the fake marriage is to keep Imlie under some emotional control, not to show the world or Tripathis that he snagged her. He may flaunt her as Mrs. Imlie ASR in the face of Adi guy, but that is not the primary reason for his decision, right? How do her emotions reign in when she knows that she is not married to ASR? Will she still continue to run to the Tripathis rescue? Ewww....... that won't bode well for ASR in the future. Did ASR miss a small detail here?

With my changed perspective, I am a shaant aatma . Later girls.......

@bold 2 that is life unfortunately. We always will get ultimatums, the only true way for us to have free will is to believe in the illusion of free will. There is no free will. We have to listen to our parents, grandparents, neighbors, society et.al. and adjust our behavior accordingly. No one will drop everything and go live off the grid, few do but those are not applicable to the general population.

@bold 3 He wants her to have some semblance of control when everything is slipping away from her. even if it is a fake marriage she is still bound by societal rules where she knows its fake but the society does not and she will have to at least show loyalty to it. Hopefully. Giving her that one bit of control has ensured that Imlie will in future look at ASR differently she wont completely lose logic over her emotions regarding him.

Although again creatives and PH may do it differently.

Originally posted by: nmurali

@bold 1 there are certain relations you can never say no to and this badi mummy whatever may be one of those. If we keep to true character of ASR, as long as they are cordial to his mom, sister and Imlie he wont say anything but if they try something he will respectfully show them the door. He has threatened AC with that. Creatives may keep them for a week but in real life with a person like ASR they would be out the door in 2 days.

@bold 2 that is life unfortunately. We always will get ultimatums, the only true way for us to have free will is to believe in the illusion of free will. There is no free will. We have to listen to our parents, grandparents, neighbors, society et.al. and adjust our behavior accordingly. No one will drop everything and go live off the grid, few do but those are not applicable to the general population.

@bold 3 He wants her to have some semblance of control when everything is slipping away from her. even if it is a fake marriage she is still bound by societal rules where she knows its fake but the society does not and she will have to at least show loyalty to it. Hopefully. Giving her that one bit of control has ensured that Imlie will in future look at ASR differently she wont completely lose logic over her emotions regarding him.

Although again creatives and PH may do it differently.

Thanks for these replies, my friend.😃

1. I still don't understand why she intentionally called the evil her and her daughter in . She thought that they would nudge ASR and Imlie to come to some sort of a commitment. But, this lady is too evil. I was just tired having to see the show establish her as a pure evil. Agreed, knowing ASR, I hope he puts them in place👍🏼

2. Totally agree with this👍🏼. I know I got stuck on consent. Full and free consent in vaccum doesn't exist. It always has conditions associated with it, whether we look at them as such. Like how you articulated it.

3. Love this explanation❤️. I totally ignored ASR doesn't just want her to thrive in her life, but he is also looking out for her emotional balance, a semblance of control. This makes total sense👍🏼