Arylie Discussion Thread 34 🧿 - Page 102

Aaj toh sach mein Aditya victim lag raha tha 😭(tha nahi hai). Imlie hume fasaya jaa raha hai 😭😭😭. Aur fir Bewajah park mein usko taunt v sun ne pade😭.

Arryan kya sochke marriage proposal rakha Imlie k saamne ki agar Imlie uski patni ban gayi toh woh Tripathi aur Adi k peeche nahi bhagegi 🤔🤔🤔,usko Rathore family an sambhalnaa hoga. Chalo maan liya Arylie shadi se Aryan ne Adi k upar case wapas le liya but I highly doubt ki yeh banda apni revenge give up karega. Aisa lag raha hai ki woh Imlie k career ko save karne k saath saath uska hidden motive to destroy AKT chalu rahega. Aryan ab pura ziddi aadmi lag raha hai,grey se badhke thoda thoda black hone laga hai.

Originally posted by: dee.soliloques

That’s the whole thing. The whole problem, they hate giving women any agency over themselves in this show unless they are crying over, fighting over men and their families or going insane because of them. Imlie has been kept a very regressive character for god knows what purpose, because I don’t think any audience enjoys the suffocating cycle her character is in. But because imlie can have no agency of her own. The only character who remained unscathed is now being played with because only he can carry the story forward. Imlie just.. reacts. In a show that is named after her.. she can’t even think of her own self, others have to baby her to make her realise what is right and wrong for her and that’s what’s very frustrating😭

Honestly just give me the romance and some entertaining tracks bas, forced bhi jhel leti shaadi but I don’t need the reason some false sense of progressiveness where the female character is so suffocating. I like seeing my female characters self aware and self reliant too. She has to be held by the hand to be shown what’s right and wrong for her because she has no brains, and I find that insulting rather than progressive. Like imlie’s stupidity is such an insult 😭 women have zero brains in this show and it sucks so bad

right like, (i know we can't compare other shows here so just, read my article where i discussed anupama's growth) i get that ITV hates to give its women agency and things have changed but this is, this is a show that would have been ~normal~ ten years ago. how is it 2022, an adaptation of an already awful premise, worse??

idk i just hope regardless of all this deal/forced/marriage of circumstance/whatever the heck, when she's back in the rathore house she gets her ish together, i mean fights bad guys in brothel imlie and this imlie are TWO different people

We already know Aru's world revolves around the people he loves. Earlier it used to be arpi and narmu maa. With this gadha falling for this jungli she is now added to that as well. Just like he destroyed his young aelf to avenge arvind because he loves him and his family, he is again willing to make himself look bad for imlie. This is Aru for you plain amd simple. If he loves you, he would do anything for you.

I have been saying this a long time, asr is the new old imlie 😆 and imlie acts .. well this is the one of the most regressive characters I have seen on television and deliberately kept so.. I love good supportive grey shaded nuanced male characters yes. But not at the cost of my female leads, I love seeing asr supportive and protective but does imlie have to be an utmost imbecile for that? As if the world is pleasant to women wanting better for themselves.. imlie can be shown having a bit of brains and others as hurdles stopping her from growing. aryan can be supportive there too, even self reliant clever women wanting better for themselves need support because there is always something keeping them back or not letting them grow ahead.

Originally posted by: dee.soliloques

I have been saying this a long time, asr is the new old imlie 😆 and imlie acts .. well this is the one of the most regressive characters I have seen on television and deliberately kept so.. I love good supportive grey shaded nuanced male characters yes. But not at the cost of my female leads, I love seeing asr supportive and protective but does imlie have to be an utmost imbecile for that? As if the world is pleasant to women wanting better for themselves.. imlie can be shown having a bit of brains and others as hurdles stopping her from growing. aryan can be supportive there too, even self reliant clever women wanting better for themselves need support because there is always something keeping them back or not letting them grow ahead.

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Originally posted by: mltr16

Dee, I so agree with @bold. That more than anything exhausts me. The sheer stupidity. Why?? When the show started, I thought of her as an old soul. Focused on her dreams and aspirations. So, why after being separated from patrakaar for what is it now 2-3-4months, who's counting, why is she not able to just hit a pause button, think before she speaks and acts. That is progressive. Not this I haath jodoes, hate me if you want but spare my family bull shit. Completely skews the power dyanamic. Though I do think she will have the upper hand in other ways, once they are married. Like I said, I cannot reconcile the writer's vision of a progressive Imlie with what we know and believe to be true progressive traits.

Nows its all marriage, EMA, remarriage, another EMA, another marriage, rinse and repeat.

They don't understand the concept of moving on, they should see shows like Tara, Hasratein, Shanti, Kora Kagaz even. Those were strong females not whatever is happening in TVs now.

Ughhhh!

The sole reason for me to watch this show honestly is seeing that one non toxic male lead. But only time will tell what happens..

Originally posted by: chotoranii

right like, (i know we can't compare other shows here so just, read my article where i discussed anupama's growth) i get that ITV hates to give its women agency and things have changed but this is, this is a show that would have been ~normal~ ten years ago. how is it 2022, an adaptation of an already awful premise, worse??

idk i just hope regardless of all this deal/forced/marriage of circumstance/whatever the heck, when she's back in the rathore house she gets her ish together, i mean fights bad guys in brothel imlie and this imlie are TWO different people

I just want a woman in this show to have some goddamn brains for once. From anu to rupi to malini to even the damn titular character imlie all cry and give away their lives for useless men. And though I love aru with all my heart, I don’t like the notion only another man can show her her worth, literally force her to see it or else she doesn’t care one bit about herself.

I still disagree that it is black. Not to compare with other shows but black was definitely how asr in ipkknd married khushi. Aryan is still grey, a shade darker but still grey. I think Aru will just use the new found authority to push imlie towards work and assignment and make sure the Ts are not there to manipulate her anymore or to clean their messes. She resigned from her job, she peft his house, there was no other way she would have listened to anything he had to say because right now she cant fathom anything except helping the Ts. I think with this marriage, Aru would do everything in his power to keep her bussy with work so she is not dragged into that mess pointlessly every single day. I don't like this coerced marriage trope either but this is ITV for you. What can you say

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Aaj toh sach mein Aditya victim lag raha tha 😭(tha nahi hai). Imlie hume fasaya jaa raha hai 😭😭😭. Aur fir Bewajah park mein usko taunt v sun ne pade😭.

Arryan kya sochke marriage proposal rakha Imlie k saamne ki agar Imlie uski patni ban gayi toh woh Tripathi aur Adi k peeche nahi bhagegi 🤔🤔🤔,usko Rathore family an sambhalnaa hoga. Chalo maan liya Arylie shadi se Aryan ne Adi k upar case wapas le liya but I highly doubt ki yeh banda apni revenge give up karega. Aisa lag raha hai ki woh Imlie k career ko save karne k saath saath uska hidden motive to destroy AKT chalu rahega. Aryan ab pura ziddi aadmi lag raha hai,grey se badhke thoda thoda black hone laga hai.

Aryan was always big on imlie making her own choices. Her natural tendency is to self destruct so aryan would give her a reality check and then tell her choose what you want to do. So though he hand held her, the ultimate choice was always hers.

Now he is doing the exact opposite even if the intention is right. Oof! Why would you change him like this.

Though i do think that they have sort of built up enough for him to go unhinged. He was already suffering from ptsd, then his sisters accident, then imlie left him. He basically seems to have lost all sense of calmness and rationality. He just wants to "protect" his people. More than imlie, he seems to be having a saviour complex.

The best i can hope for is a pretend marriage like the promo suggested. That you pretend to marry me for x months. So it's not a forced marriage again and just a dikhava.