Is aarohi's pain worth it ? Was abhimanyu aarohi's ex??

Okay so the episode is not out yet..and I'm bored..and saw some posts on Twitter that how arohi is so hurt because her sister is getting married to her ex..

Now the point is ..is abhimanyu really aarohi's ex??

I agree that abhimanyu was about to marry aarohi but calling abhimanyu as aarohi's ex is bit too much for me..aarohi always knew that abhira were romantically involved still she agreed to abhimanyu's proposal..abhimanyu had clearly told that he was just doing this marriage for his mother and she should not expect anything else from him because he loves her sister and will always do so..

There marriage was more like a deal..arohi was doing it for her greed for power and her obsession to always have 'BEST' ..and abhimanyu was romantically involved with akshara even when he was engaged to aarohi..

Abhimanyu didn't give aarohi basic rights like calling him abhi ..he didn't even allow aarohi to sit on his bike claiming that only akshara can sit on it..

I agree that Romance is not everything..but atleast respect and support should be there n a relationship and abhimanyu and aarohi had NOTHING

So abhimanyu was NEVER aarohi's ex..

It has always been aarohi's one sided obsession and greed for power..that's why I think even akshara isn't bothered about aarohi's feelings because akshara knows that aarohi never loved abhimanyu and that she has moved on ..

Aarohi had told akshara in hospital after her hand accident that she'll never be able to be happy for abhira..and she'll never be happy if akshara accepts abhimanyu and marries him..and that's why akshara rejected abhimanyu..

So I think don't think that aarohi is sad or unhappy because of her broken marriage or humiliation..she would have been the same way if akshara had accepted abhimanyu's love after the first Tilak broke because she looked terribly shocked and unhappy that mimi and goenkas were thinking of fixing akshara and abhimanyu's marriage again...aarohi can't digest akshara's happiness and that's the only reason that she's unhappy..that's all.

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER HUMILIATION OR REJECTION..

Abhimanyu is as much of an ex of aarohi as much aarohi’s rejection of abhi counts after abhi rejected her given her lies n schemes or counts as much as harsh saying I uninvite myself after abhi uninvited him lol

Still... Aarohi wanted abhimanyu because she saw him as a top doctor and she was doing internship under him. It's natural to crush on a good looking doctor who you are interning with. Aarohi had dreams that being her husband, he will be able to teach her more of medicals. She also liked abhimanyu romantically somewhat as she was dreaming about him in Gopi mask festival. She remembered the time abhimanyu complimented her for being a doctor. In her eyes, he was a topper and since she is a topper so they would be a perfect match. It can be childish to you but many people do look for qualities like these in their partner and by getting that, they feel they will be satisfied. I don't know whether aarohi would have been satisfied or not after marriage, but she surely had dreams too.

It's not just about abhimanyu and Aarohi her. Aarohi saw that harsh uncle and manjari aunty too liked her.

I find it hard to believe that even after marriage abhimanyu wouldn't give any rights to her. Atleast his mother, father ,family would. Just like he proposed akshara for maa ki khushi, he would have slowly started accepting aarohi too because he would have understood he has no chance on akshara now and he is married to her sister. A marriage is a big deal. It's not just about two people having romantic feelings for other. Abhimanyu wouldn't have loved her but he would definitely have to share the same bed with her, eventually have sex too if maa asked for kids else proposing the marriage by him didn't make any sense, they would go to work from the same home, eat together,celebrate all festivals together, in the eyes of the world they would be husband and wife..that is what aarohi expected too from the marriage...to be known as the wife of this top surgeon..and a birla bahu...

So telling that she won't have any pain is wrong because abhimanyu himself proposed him out of the illusions he and manjari created..yes aarohi lied, but abhimanyu and manjari are more in fault to create this illusions, do all the functions with Aarohi for maa ki khushi, manjari the most selfish person- first she herself assumed all this and conveniently dumped all this on Aarohi's shoulder 🤢. I don't get why people are so agitated about Aarohi hiding about the fire incident truth. She did feel guilty like any other human would. Yes she is selfish but she wanted abhimanyu since day 1 so she hid the truth just like abhimanyu was hiding that bade papa has kept shart that I'll have to leave home to marry akshara....

Abhimanyu was the more wrong person to be constantly and creepily involved with akshara while doing functions with Aarohi...

if you can't move on from a girl, you don't have right to ask another girl to do a namesake marriage without love or anything... Basically announcing i won't even try to move on, indirectly I will keep on cheating you...even if the other party accepts such a proposal,the party who makes such a proposal is wrong because they are somewhere giving hope to the other person that things would get normal soon. Aarohi too assumed the same and told abhimanyu, I have a zid like you and I know we will get normal one day , then abhimanyu didn't respond anything giving her hope .. she never wanted romantic abhimanyu anyway.

.she wanted all things like it happen in arrange marriage and abhimanyu was like Aarohi's dream man... To win over someone who is equal to you in looks, status, profession is love.. that was her idea of love....yes she is immature but everyone have their own standards of life partner...

Even thinking about it now gives me weird feels coz now abhira marriage has started and honestly i am not enjoying the functions as I would have if functions with Aarohi didn't happen... My mind is still giving me weird vibes especially when Aarohi will steal Abhimanyu's joota and all that...

And how are you guys forgetting the dance that abhimanyu did with Aarohi on mehendi day, what should aarohi expect out of that? Using a girl just to make another girl jealous was also not right...

And abhimanyu was ready to leave aarohi even if akshara told him one yes and even without knowing fire incident truth...he said on engagement that if akshara says yes ,i will fight the world...even Neil kept on trying on the wedding day itself as if it's the right time to make things right by saying akshara se baat karlo.. even if fire incident truth didn't come out they were willing to do all this and being so selfish to a girl who they think is the reason for abhimanyu being alive now that they will make her face humilation on the wedding day.

Abhimanyu was absolutely wrong to use a girl whom he thought saved his life... If he wasn't saved, he wouldn't be in the position to demand who he wants as his bride, whom he will love, whom he won't .. he was so rude to her in engagement day when all she said was... should I help you with band aid

Suddenly manjari appeared from kuldevi ka mandir, after creating all kaands and almost getting her son married, comes and says to harsh " ab mera beta wohi karega Jo uska dil chahta hai " 🤢 aapko yeh baat pehle kyu nai samajh aayi? Why were you willing to ruin your son and Aarohi's life...and then goes to mandir and gives gyaan to abhira that I am with you blah blah...manjari is so selfish 🤢 she says to akshara mai tumhara maa banungi but didn't even care when akshara had an accident.. when harsh told akshu has an accident , she took Harsh's advice to go to kuldevi ka mandir for her son's wedding without even caring about his mental ka condition, all she cares about is his wedding even when akshara is in hospital

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Still... Aarohi wanted abhimanyu because she saw him as a top doctor and she was doing internship under him. It's natural to crush on a good looking doctor who you are interning with. Aarohi had dreams that being her husband, he will be able to teach her more of medicals. She also liked abhimanyu romantically somewhat as she was dreaming about him in Gopi mask festival. She remembered the time abhimanyu complimented her for being a doctor. In her eyes, he was a topper and since she is a topper so they would be a perfect match. It can be childish to you but many people do look for qualities like these in their partner and by getting that, they feel they will be satisfied. I don't know whether aarohi would have been satisfied or not after marriage, but she surely had dreams too.

It's not just about abhimanyu and Aarohi her. Aarohi saw that harsh uncle and manjari aunty too liked her.

I find it hard to believe that even after marriage abhimanyu wouldn't give any rights to her. Atleast his mother, father ,family would. Just like he proposed akshara for maa ki khushi, he would have slowly started accepting aarohi too because he would have understood he has no chance on akshara now and he is married to her sister. A marriage is a big deal. It's not just about two people having romantic feelings for other. Abhimanyu wouldn't have loved her but he would definitely have to share the same bed with her, eventually have sex too if maa asked for kids else proposing the marriage by him didn't make any sense, they would go to work from the same home, eat together,celebrate all festivals together, in the eyes of the world they would be husband and wife..that is what aarohi expected too from the marriage...to be known as the wife of this top surgeon..and a birla bahu...

So telling that she won't have any pain is wrong because abhimanyu himself proposed him out of the illusions he and manjari created..yes aarohi lied, but abhimanyu and manjari are more in fault to create this illusions, do all the functions with Aarohi for maa ki khushi, manjari the most selfish person- first she herself assumed all this and conveniently dumped all this on Aarohi's shoulder 🤢. I don't get why people are so agitated about Aarohi hiding about the fire incident truth. She did feel guilty like any other human would. Yes she is selfish but she wanted abhimanyu since day 1 so she hid the truth just like abhimanyu was hiding that bade papa has kept shart that I'll have to leave home to marry akshara....

Abhimanyu was the more wrong person to be constantly and creepily involved with akshara while doing functions with Aarohi...

if you can't move on from a girl, you don't have right to ask another girl to do a namesake marriage without love or anything... Basically announcing i won't even try to move on, indirectly I will keep on cheating you...even if the other party accepts such a proposal,the party who makes such a proposal is wrong because they are somewhere giving hope to the other person that things would get normal soon. Aarohi too assumed the same and told abhimanyu, I have a zid like you and I know we will get normal one day , then abhimanyu didn't respond anything giving her hope .. she never wanted romantic abhimanyu anyway.

.she wanted all things like it happen in arrange marriage and abhimanyu was like Aarohi's dream man... To win over someone who is equal to you in looks, status, profession is love.. that was her idea of love....yes she is immature but everyone have their own standards of life partner...

Even thinking about it now gives me weird feels coz now abhira marriage has started and honestly i am not enjoying the functions as I would have if functions with Aarohi didn't happen... My mind is still giving me weird vibes especially when Aarohi will steal Abhimanyu's joota and all that...

I just wanted to answer for the current scenario..abhimanyu and aarohi didn't get married and that's a fact..so thinking that abhimanyu would have accepted aarohi after marriage is out of question...currently akshara and abhimanyu are together and they're getting married..so aarohi Giving jealous expressions and acting like a victim is something that I'm not able to digest..

Aarohi can't claim abhimanyu as her ex..aarohi and abhimanyu had nothing of that sort that can be called as a past..they had NO PAST..

Aarohi clearly told akshara that she'll never be happy if akshara marries abhimanyu in the hospital after first Tilak broke ...at that point abhimanyu had not proposed her..

Abhimanyu has clearly told her in first Tilak that he loves akshara..and goenkas were even planning to fix akshara's marriage with abhimanyu again..

Then tell me why was aarohi unhappy and acting like a psycho at that time?? Why did she emotionally blackmailed akshara telling her that she'll never be happy if akshara marries abhimanyu??.

At that point abhimanyu had not proposed aarohi and then left her on the wedding day..still she was unhappy..yes what happened with aarohi was terrible but she herself is the biggest reason for that..

Ideally aarohi should've backed off and completely forgotten abhimanyu when the first Tilak broke and abhimanyu clearly rejected her on her face..but she didn't..and that is aarohi's biggest mistake

ALL I'M TRYING TO SAY IS..IS THAT AAROHI IS NOT SAD , UNHAPPY AND IN PAIN BECAUSE OF HER BROKEN MARRIAGE AND HUMILIATION..SO WE SHOULDN'T SYMPATHIZE WITH HER UNNECESSARILY

Aarohi would have acted the same way even if aarohi abhimanyu marriage disaster did not happen..she was always like this..

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I had the same feeling when I started following Imlie.

Aditya - Imlie - Malini

The relationship became weird and I stopped watching the show altogether.

In Yrkkh I have consoled my self that Aarohi forced herself on Akshara but cannot forget the fact that Abhimanyu proposed to Aarohi too. Whatever was the prevailing circumstances, he chose her for his mother.

I cannot connect with the episodes since confession. The writers are trying to balance by giving sweet and simple episodes and trialing stain remover on all the characters.

Whatever they r trying to do it is not working. Episodes are falling flat.

The creatives are hell bent on dragging the episodes. , no promotions, Lustreless costumes, key family members are absent etc etc.

Birlas care a damn about rituals. When did all this take place in Yrkkh.

Agar new show ka concept Ichche Nodee se liye gya hai phir woh bengali OG copy karna.

Abhi yeh Jija Saali ka dialogue is not sweet music to the ears.

Yes, Abhi is Aarohi’s ex - her ex fiancé.

Their marriage was stopped just hours before the wedding ceremony. Irrespective of the fact that Aru lied or whatever, by all standards, Abhi is her ex.

And that’s why this is all so weird. Just a month ago Abhi was doing all wedding rituals with Aru and left her at the altar and now he is doing the same with Akshu. (One was an arranged marriage scenario, the other is love- still in both cases it was wedding ceremonies).

That’s why the current marriage celebration leaves a bad taste. They should have NEVER made Abhi propose an alliance with Aru.

As much as we hate to admit it they had a past together and despite the lack of love and emotion between them doesn't change the fact that they almost got married to one another and did all the pre-wedding ceremony. So, yeah, Abhi is Aarohi almost ex-husband-to-be.