How is Akshara suddenly so insensitive? - Page 2

Originally posted by: aishapl013

True, Even this is the only series I watch now,

I remember I had given lot of benefit of doubts to Aarohi too, I was fine even when she blackmailed Akshu on first accident, Cuz humans tend to be selfish in some phase of their life.

So if we accept Aarohi emotionally blackmailing, her stealing Akshu's credit, her need to be the best n buying MD seat n stuff. Then why are we still stuck on Akshu, why can't she be selfish for once.

I've seen ppl complain when she was doing family jaap, then when she chose her happiness, Blah, Blah, Blue, Blue......

I don't understand is it that Akshu should only be expected to be perfect n not have any flaw.

Oh then she shouldn't be a human then. Then ppl would be like Akshu is too perfect to be true.🤢

If she is happy she did forget that Aarohi was once the candidate too, but when we are happy we do forget other things too, don't we?

I don't remember Aarohi considering Akshu's feelings ??

I think Akshu has finally lifted up Aarohi's blind love blindfold. Which is great n a positive step now.

If we accept Abhimanyu's Flaws, Aarohi's Flaws, its high time we accept Akshu's too.🤗

Nicely put dear. Yes no one is perfect here. Neither Aarohi, nor Akshara or Abhimanyu.. All has flaws

We just need to make peace with them if we need to enjoy the serial 😍😍❤️❤️

Akshara is just in her happy bubble right now..what matters the most is the intentions and not the actions..whatever she said was completely unintentional..akshara thinks aarohi has moved on and she knows that aarohi never loved abhimanyu..and akshara doesn't think that there is any past between arohi and abhimanyu because abhimanyu was constantly involved with Akshara even when he was engaged to aarohi..

Aarohi on the other hand is still bitter about her rejection and humiliation..aarohi and abhimanyu had zero interaction in their marriage track ..abhimanyu never even looked at aarohi and he had made it clear to her that he'll always love akshara and aarohi was completely okay with it and agreed to marry him..so I think arohi is tasting her own medicine..

Aarohi intentionally separated abhimanyu and akshara and took the credits for akshara's good deeds..aarohi always knew that abhimanyu was not interested in her..aarohi also knew that akshara and abhimanyu had a romantic link up..aarohi knew that she had emotionally blackmailed akshara into Giving up abhimanyu in the hospital..aarohi intentionally joined birla hospital as an intern to win over abhimanyu even after knowing that he loved akshara..

So as you can see arohi has been intentionally insensitive throughout her wedding track..she asked akshara to prepare for her wedding and select her dresses and even asked her to select her engagement ring..

So if akshara expects her sister to be normal in her wedding and assist her in her wedding preparations then its not an issue..aarohi and abhimanyu do not have any past..aarohi was forcefully trying to manipulate and marry him..abhimanyu never gave aarohi any rights on him or allowed aarohi to cross her limits..aarohi has always been Dr Aarohi for abhimanyu..so akshara is not bothered about their broken marriage..

If aarohi can intentionally separate abhira and be insensitive towards akshara even after knowing that abhira are romantically involved then akshara can very well be insensitive about arohi's broken marriage knowing that abhimanyu never had anything for arohi and her marriage was sham and fake..its not a problem because abhimanyu and arohi do not have any past..it was just a forceful marriage Alliance which aarohi herself created through her manipulations and lies

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I am not liking the sudden 360 degree change in akshara... First she didn't understand Abhimanyu's emotions that he must be hurt and then acted strange by shouting at bade papa and abhimanyu that don't seperate abhi from his family without even knowing about Abhimanyu's stand about it..she didn't even realise that if she had claimed abhimanyu since day 1, the family wouldn't go through the same humilation

Her precious aarohi for she was was sacrificing and she was ready to give up her love because she didn't even want her sister to feel hurt for a second, suddenly she didn't have one conversation with her regarding this fiasco apologizing to her for the humilation she had to face of a cancelled wedding.

The most insensitive part is today she is expecting aarohi to acknowledge abhimanyu as her jijaji ..like it's okay if she wants to but saying it so explicitly and excitedly as if nothing happened between aarohi and abhimnayu and then saying abhimanyu ka joota chupana...has she lost her mind? No matter even if aarohi moved on, doesn't she understand the awkward terms between abhimanyu and Aarohi? She knows what kind of hurt she went through when abhimanyu and Aarohi were getting married, so she should understand aarohi must also be feeling awkward and hurt seeing the same guy who dumped her in mandap to marry her sister.. how does she expect aarohi to become normal so soon? I get it she is excited and all and wants to share this with her sister but it's looking as if she has forgotten everything that happened in the past and expecting her sister to be all normal about it...i don't know I don't get Akshara's character, sometimes she is overly mahaan, she always expects people to do stuff she wants.. first she voluntarily sacrificed abhimanyu for aarohi and expected abhimanyu to anyhow move on, then made aarohi suffer to satisfy abhimanyu, keeps on throwing tantrums like valentine's day surprise, even today's episode she appeared like a nautanki, the way she orders abhimanyu to convince his father anyhow without knowing anything of the past, she comes across as dominating and extremely stubborn person who would want to get her way anyhow! All she does is family family whereas herself keeps on hurting abhimanyu, aarohi and family members due to her stupid decisions.

IN my opinion, aarohi and akshara are very similar.

Akshara wanted abhimnayu because she was attracted to him because of the "khudse khudka rishta thing abhimnayu said" and she found him as a kind doctor.

Aarohi wanted abhimnayu because she wanted a supportive talented doctor as her husband as we see aarohi remembering the moment abhimanyu praised her that you will be a very good doctor.

Neither of them are wrong to desire someone. Just they desire abhimanyu in different ways. Yes akshara's love is deep for abhimanyu as she saved him for the fire but it's also a matter of fact she is insensitive to his emotions , she voluntarily sacrificed abhimnayu , even after that abhimanyu and akshara got together, i haven't seen akshara appreciating Abhimanyu's efforts, his love whereas we have seen aarohi appreciating that akshara is so lucky, she appreciated abhimanyu for the internship she did under him. Aarohi is not an evil or bad person according to me and nor is akshara a saint.

Akshara is not being insensitive let's do the analysis of the situation.

Arohi wanted to be Abhi's bride, only because of his status as a successful doctor and wanted to be a power couple meaning she's after the power which can be a mirage.

Her hunger for power is so much that she tries to take her MD exam on the day of her wedding without taking into account how might her near one's react when it gets revealed to them.

It's unfair to expect compassion for such an incompassionate person.

We cannot guarantee AR wouldnt leave Abhi if she had found a better option, because according to her dill laga liya tho jaha chahe waha pyaar ho jayega.

Akshara is no saint because humans are not meant to be flawless, but let's appreciate her for her compassion to her half sister, it requires a lot courage for someone to give up on their love when they have no clue of its depth and not aware of moving away from it.

I just appreciate👏 AK and Abhi characters despite of their flaws.

I have my sympathies😟 to Arohi but most of it is her own making. Had she not accused👉, belittled🤷‍♀️ or emotionally blackmailed AK, Abhira would have been married and she wouldn't have got humiliated for her kaands.

Finally AK appreciating Abhimanyu's efforts for his love happens only after their marriage.

AK is the typical Indian girl, till marriage every Indian girl's heart ❤️ is like a mirror whoever looks into it their image can be seen, after marriage her husband's image gets deeply imprinted and becomes a photo frame.

So she needs that rishta for her to behave with poora love towards Abhi.

Not sure if it's because of our conditioning or the effect of marriage rituals.

Fiction can happen in real life as well I have written a post on a real life incident let me know your thoughts.

You know I was big into analysing the series. And i dedicated my every second to put up my best. I was doing it for HC and Yrkkh.

But there came a time I understood that my logic does not even understand how to fit Shiv-Parvati story into the current track.

I did not want to force myself.

And you are right if this had happened in real life people would question the character of the individuals involved.

I know it does happen where people fall in love with the sister in law or BIL. but those people are looked down upon by the society n the family.

Here everything is blatantly celebrated and uncomfotable issues are kicked under the carpet.

This is a serial they could have easily shown everything is a more detailed manner but they have rushed through a lot for what reasons is anyones guess.

You keep writing and expressing your thoughts even if it not accept by the popular stream. I will always hear you out.

Originally posted by: aishapl013

True, Even this is the only series I watch now,

I remember I had given lot of benefit of doubts to Aarohi too, I was fine even when she blackmailed Akshu on first accident, Cuz humans tend to be selfish in some phase of their life.

So if we accept Aarohi emotionally blackmailing, her stealing Akshu's credit, her need to be the best n buying MD seat n stuff. Then why are we still stuck on Akshu, why can't she be selfish for once.

I've seen ppl complain when she was doing family jaap, then when she chose her happiness, Blah, Blah, Blue, Blue......

I don't understand is it that Akshu should only be expected to be perfect n not have any flaw.

Oh then she shouldn't be a human then. Then ppl would be like Akshu is too perfect to be true.🤢

If she is happy she did forget that Aarohi was once the candidate too, but when we are happy we do forget other things too, don't we?

I don't remember Aarohi considering Akshu's feelings ??

I think Akshu has finally lifted up Aarohi's blind love blindfold. Which is great n a positive step now.

If we accept Abhimanyu's Flaws, Aarohi's Flaws, its high time we accept Akshu's too.🤗

Very well said!

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

Akshara is just in her happy bubble right now..what matters the most is the intentions and not the actions..whatever she said was completely unintentional..akshara thinks aarohi has moved on and she knows that aarohi never loved abhimanyu..and akshara doesn't think that there is any past between arohi and abhimanyu because abhimanyu was constantly involved with Akshara even when he was engaged to aarohi..

Aarohi on the other hand is still bitter about her rejection and humiliation..aarohi and abhimanyu had zero interaction in their marriage track ..abhimanyu never even looked at aarohi and he had made it clear to her that he'll always love akshara and aarohi was completely okay with it and agreed to marry him..so I think arohi is tasting her own medicine..

Aarohi intentionally separated abhimanyu and akshara and took the credits for akshara's good deeds..aarohi always knew that abhimanyu was not interested in her..aarohi also knew that akshara and abhimanyu had a romantic link up..aarohi knew that she had emotionally blackmailed akshara into Giving up abhimanyu in the hospital..aarohi intentionally joined birla hospital as an intern to win over abhimanyu even after knowing that he loved akshara..

So as you can see arohi has been intentionally insensitive throughout her wedding track..she asked akshara to prepare for her wedding and select her dresses and even asked her to select her engagement ring..

So if akshara expects her sister to be normal in her wedding and assist her in her wedding preparations then its not an issue..aarohi and abhimanyu do not have any past..aarohi was forcefully trying to manipulate and marry him..abhimanyu never gave aarohi any rights on him or allowed aarohi to cross her limits..aarohi has always been Dr Aarohi for abhimanyu..so akshara is not bothered about their broken marriage..

If aarohi can intentionally separate abhira and be insensitive towards akshara even after knowing that abhira are romantically involved then akshara can very well be insensitive about arohi's broken marriage knowing that abhimanyu never had anything for arohi and her marriage was sham and fake..its not a problem because abhimanyu and arohi do not have any past..it was just a forceful marriage Alliance which aarohi herself created through her manipulations and lies

@bold I remember saying the same about aarohi vs akshu few months back …aarohi’s intentions were wrong n akshu’s intentions are not wrong here…she is not purposely doing this …also coz she us a lil slow in understanding expressions lol…she does the same with abhi…I mean the guy was literally in tears outside the hospital and akshu was busy saying I didn’t want this kind of love lmao completely oblivious until abhi spoke up n then she immediately apologized …was that enough…as Abhi’s fan …for me…no…but would I dwell on it…no…lol as abhi also has done stuff he ideally shouldn’t have done

Look however righteous one is they are bound to hurt someone. Thats the nature of life.

So here we are discussing the flaws of a character and the event has already happened. What we are doing is character analysis according to the story as shown to us.

Akshara and Abhimanyu both behave self righteous and it never makes most of the people around them happy or they remain unhappy. its this or that each time.

Akshara bottles up her sadness from beginning, then she keeps her feeling secret from all coz of Aarohi was the stupidest thing. She always does things according to aarohi.

And now her being happy and over looking Aarohi's feeling is dumb. Aarohi was assertive and her keeping quiet should make Ak worried not say you will dance at my wedding. esp. since Aarohi asked her not to dance.

Whether Aarohi loved Abhimanyu or not is not the questions. it is all about ego.

Normal ppl say,"I love his/ her so much because so n so is handsome/beautiful." superficial reasons.

Aarohi's interest in marrying Abhi was a practical one like in arranged marriage. And for her to feel bad now is natural which needs to be acknowledged.

But writers will bring it like a sly drama which will only fizzle n fall flat on their face. Because Abhira will get married. So why not address each issue as they keep rolling up. Let us know aarohi is grey or trying to improve but is not able to so she tries to sabotage. even that would seem human error n would bring her sympathy from a section of audience.

Similarly,

PRuncle, who gives such power blaster dialogues n acting but ultimately his role is a fattuu.

Nothing works according to him. but he is given his 2 min each epi. He is not a doctor but the way he talks as if he invented the ventilator. In real life characters like him are so hated because they dont let anyone around them be relaxed and happy ever.

Therefore. Aarohi should have had her moment with Ak, with Mimi, with AG and Vansh. So we know her feelings were addressed. then if she does something mean or not. we get a glimpse of her gray character.

Akshara never reallu shown to have a heart2heart with aarohi ever.

with Kairav yes. and Vansh respects her is also given to us.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

This weird insensitivity on Akshu's part towards the sister for whom she was sacrificing her most precious thing has been glaringly in the face since the mandir confession.. Just suddenly, immediately that Akshu confessed her feelings for Abhi she seems to have cut off her bond with her sister... Now the entire Goenka clans unconcern is also very strange.. Like you said, in the time of Aarohi's wedding they didn't know of Akshu's feelings, she had convinced them all that she was not interested and also that she had said it openly to the Birlas.. But now they know how Aarohi was so happy and how she was humiliated.. So this behavior is unacceptable.. Even after her breaking down in Kairav's arms and telling the disturbance of her heart, he is least concerned..

The YRKKH team has been a unsatisfactory journey. I remember Akshara sr. time. they had relatives come to stay, cousins visiting, neighbours coming. Office colleagues come home. And the situations were all well details. those became less in season2.

And this season a whole lot of family has been severed off to LALALAND. dead or alive has also not been explained. Naksh.Kirti. especially. Mama bua are so important. anyways.

When aarohi caught Abhimanyu climb the window. that was a time for the sisters to have a heart2heart. in true sense not just... Badepapa this that... and tum theek ho kinds.

ANd even after than Aarohi being a vamp is still understood and interesting too coz her reasons are based on ego trip.

But Akshara's let us make everything positive by pushing everything under the rug is just being cuckoo in real world.

Its a shortcoming of the writers and the direction thing. Actors are doing a flawless job of what is given to them. gorgeous gorgeous these ppl that they have me hooked in spite of so many glaring shortcomings.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I'll not deny you completely and Minis points are also very valid but finally I started being positive about Akshara to enjoy wedding episodes fully and the post I created for weekend here some of our friends said lot of good things about Akshara so I am trying to think from that perspective to keep my mind positive and enjoy the serial 😍😍❤️❤️ this is the only serial I watch currently so Kya karun

Arre behen, serial enjoy kar. Dont worry. I am very objective like that. I love Akshara.

And I am devoted to Abhimanyu Birla. He can do nothing wrong in my eyes. so even when he does something I dont like I blame it on writers. Abhimanyu kabhi galat nahi ho sakta.

I am clear this is a fiction. and writers are accountable for any shortcoming in the characters. they are professionals how can they not explore each character properly before putting it on air is my issue. well rounded role are such a joy just will watching pakistani serial. sukoon milta hai.

Actors to are simply amazing in this series. I enjoyed Hina Khan series coz there was so my reality. relatives, siblings, best friends, office colleagues, this series has nothing as such and yet they are not able to give issues enough time.

Serial to mein nahi chor sakti dekhna... ABHIRA mein jaan atki hai..😉

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Arre behen, serial enjoy kar. Dont worry. I am very objective like that. I love Akshara.

And I am devoted to Abhimanyu Birla. He can do nothing wrong in my eyes. so even when he does something I dont like I blame it on writers. Abhimanyu kabhi galat nahi ho sakta.

I am clear this is a fiction. and writers are accountable for any shortcoming in the characters. they are professionals how can they not explore each character properly before putting it on air is my issue. well rounded role are such a joy just will watching pakistani serial. sukoon milta hai.

Actors to are simply amazing in this series. I enjoyed Hina Khan series coz there was so my reality. relatives, siblings, best friends, office colleagues, this series has nothing as such and yet they are not able to give issues enough time.

Serial to mein nahi chor sakti dekhna... ABHIRA mein jaan atki hai..😉

Lol yaar wohi tho.. Don't worry hum dono ek hi ship mein hai and soch bhi ek hi rakhte hai... Whenever Abhimanyu also does anything wrong I blame on writers lekin when I start blaming akshara I go over board and chill nahi hota mujhse isliye I try not to even talk and keep my mind positive but as I always tell you I love reading you ❤️❤️

They need TRP so we cannot expect much as well from them. @Bold how true is that 😂😂😂