Chain se sona hai to jaag jao, kanya ko lekar bhag jao

Dear Anuj,

Please take Anupama to a good therapist to work on her co-dependancy issues and lack of healthy boundries. It has been a long time since her divorce but her emotional growth and self esteem seems to be stunted at best. As long shah so called elders and adults of shah family keep interfering you and anu won't be able to enjoy and move ahead with your relationship. You have waited 26 years and you deserve better. Maybe putting physical distance of 1000 km between anu and shah family will be beneficial. That way they won't be able to summon her on command whenever they want.

P. S. - while you are at it, get therapy for kinjal too so that she can recover from thosu emotionaly and physicaly neglecting her.