Originally posted by: Deltablues
So the way I see it is this girl had a a glaring Freudian slip with that "Emotion sickness." She again asked her jiju to not touch her and that was pretty much Aryan's trigger.
She is in love as well but not as consciously Aru. Her emotional and social baggage makes her justify it as "fraaandship."
Now what she has been doing since yesterday is bat for Aru in front of her jiju. That he cannot be someone held hostage by an ugly emotion as vengeance. Pain? Sure. Unresolved trauma? Sure. But her fraaaaaand cannot be vindictive.
Firstly, they did a horrible job with the editing today. Instead of a dining table scene, we needed a nightmare FB which would have properly explained Aru"s outburst today. Do you hear me Atif, my love?
Now, Aru contradicted her vote of trust in him by hitting her jiju. He gave her jiju a chance to go told-you-so on her Poor kid look embarassed that she had to eat the humble pie.
I don't think she will question Aru's intention regarding her. It is her trust in him that she went to clarify things with Aryan instead of doing her BS-jaap. It would, frankly, undo all that they have built over 4 months. What she will be pissed at is this idiotic vengeance business.
Aditya"s arrest would make her interpret all of Aru's action outside of her as suspect. And, frankly, it would set a chain of events in motion which will end up in their marriage. I don't think she will be pissed at the idea of a marriage to him as much as the badla looming large over them.
As far as Atif Jaan doesn't show them manipulate each other into a marriage for the sake of a badla, they can do their ruthna manana biwi employee-not fraand till Kingdom comes. Aditya deserves retribution for his incompetence despite his overdeveloped sense of self.
Feeling groggy. Bai.
Blues, THIS.
Everything you said was on point.
About Imlie's being in love, I don't know if she is there yet. She needs a full closure from everything Babusahab to fall completely in love with Aryan, but are there feelings from her side for him. Definitely. These feelings arise from a place of companionship, partnership as she calls it. Now contrast it with "emotion sickness".
In her previous case of emotion sickness, her checklist is fulfilled. Her love for labels - tick, because BS was her husband. And with those labels comes her obligation to keep the vows of her marriage. Pati Parmeshwar hi Pyaar Hain - tick.
From the place she belongs to, she was conditioned with the mentality of falling in love with her husband, husband is the ultimate one. That's why no matter how traumatic her marriage was, she accepted it from the beginning even though AKT didn't give her the right to accept it in front of everybody.
First puppy Ultimate (First) Love- tick, we all have our infatuations and crushes when we are young especially teens but that doesn't guarantee that it will last for a lifetime.Imlie being 19, probably experienced a romantic relationship for the first time, so all those feelings ignited in her which we face in our teens. She doesn't even have the experience or knowledge to seperate infatuation from actual love. And combined with the life threatening situations, it does strengthen your bond in a way that is more about gratitude but Imlie couldn't differentiate between these two things since she is so young.
Now that she was "in love" and it was a conventional sort of love, considering she fell in love with BS when he was her husband.
But with Aryan, none of her criterias in the checklist she has made in her mind for the thing that she considers love, is ticked off. Aryan vehemently refuses to give labels to their relationship and she is aware enough to know that it is not a regular relationship between an employer and an employee, or an owner and the tenant. So, she names their bond "friendship", because friendship is a known entity for her but as I mentioned above, Aryan refuses that. But what is interesting is that, Aryan doesn't refuse the tag of Partnership because he knows that partnership connotes not only platonicity but romantic equations as well. Partnership can be defined in so many ways, all upon the context and it is upon AryLie to set the context .
So Imlie's love for labels - Cross.
Now, Pati Parmeshwar hi pyaar hain - Cross for obvious reasons but it is gonna change soon.
Ultimate Love - Cross. She thinks that she has loved before and it hasn't worked out, especially when he was her husband and Sita Maiyya's blessing so everything should have worked out right ? That's what she had been taught since childhood. But since her ultimate love didn't work out, which was supposed to last for a lifetime. Everything else is dead. There's no love for her anymore. That's how she compartmentalizes this.
So Aryan doesn't fit anywhere near. In her mind it's impossible for them to have a romantic relationship so she names it "partnership". But it will take her plenty of time to understand that love can arise from companionship and friendship. Like Meethi's and Satyakaam's did. She just needs to introspect and be aware of them.
At the back of her mind, maybe she has reservations like Meethi had who thought she wasn't good enough for SatyaKaam while Imlie's reason would be that she was married before, Meethi's was that she already had an illegitimate child and such.
So, it will take many, many and many long months for Imlie to realize and act on these feelings.
Edited by CaffeineMuggle - 3 years ago