can you be with a man who never tells you he loves you? - Page 8

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

I also may not say I love you. I may express my love thru doing things which makes him happy...and while I have no aversion to actually verbalizing the emotions...I would be perfectly content if the love and care are demonstrated thru actions/behaviour but not in words

Maybe I am too old fashioned 😆

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I also may not say I love you. I may express my love thru doing things which makes him happy...and while I have no aversion to actually verbalizing the emotions...I would be perfectly content if the love and care are demonstrated thru actions/behaviour but not in words

Maybe I am too old fashioned 😆

what actions manasi?😳 hum bhi sune...

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

what actions manasi?😳 hum bhi sune...

Tumhe bada interest hai😈

Actions jaise - taking care of what I like, jaise Anuj remembers small things which make Anu happy - imli or how Anu cooks for Anuj bcoz she knows he enjoys her cooking!

For me - love and affection should be demonstrated more than said. And that is in any relationship. My brother and I fight like cats n dogs but when he takes the day off on my bday to take me out, I know he loves me even if he doesn't say so.

Even with partners, I feel it is the same. Small, non-verbal gestures mean much more to me than declarations and vows of love

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I also may not say I love you. I may express my love thru doing things which makes him happy...and while I have no aversion to actually verbalizing the emotions...I would be perfectly content if the love and care are demonstrated thru actions/behaviour but not in words

Maybe I am too old fashioned 😆

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Tumhe bada interest hai😈

Actions jaise - taking care of what I like, jaise Anuj remembers small things which make Anu happy - imli or how Anu cooks for Anuj bcoz she knows he enjoys her cooking!

For me - love and affection should be demonstrated more than said. And that is in any relationship. My brother and I fight like cats n dogs but when he takes the day off on my bday to take me out, I know he loves me even if he doesn't say so.

Even with partners, I feel it is the same. Small, non-verbal gestures mean much more to me than declarations and vows of love

Siblings are different, that of a mother-child is different. Those are undeniable instincts.

Here the context is that of partners. Even before you( not you per se! ) know that he/she is a partner, what actions, gestures specifically indicate that (s)he is the one? You could cook a nice dish for a friend/cousin etc remember little things about them. But how & when do you know that all the actions of care was indeed love?❤️

Genuine que with no other hidden agenda. sacchi😳

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Siblings are different, that of a mother-child is different. Those are undeniable instincts.

Here the context is that of partners. Even before you( not you per se! ) know that he/she is a partner, what actions, gestures specifically indicate that (s)he is the one? You could cook a nice dish for a friend/cousin etc remember little things about them. But how & when do you know that all the actions of care was indeed love?❤️

Genuine que with no other hidden agenda. sacchi😳

Love may manifest differently in different relationships but the basic emotions of care, concern, commitment, honesty, empathy are all the same.

For me, apart from the undeniable physical attraction which has to be present, if I feel that I can spend my entire life with that person, I know I love him. Ehsaas hota hai....violins nahi bajte but you do feel special about that person!😳

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Love may manifest differently in different relationships but the basic emotions of care, concern, commitment, honesty, empathy are all the same.

For me, apart from the undeniable physical attraction which has to be present, if I feel that I can spend my entire life with that person, I know I love him. Ehsaas hota hai....violins nahi bajte but you do feel special about that person!😳

sirf tumhare ehsaas ka kya faida? How will you tell the other person about your ehsaas? What if the other person isnt feeling the same way as you do? In that case, how will you express if not verbally? how?

Again, genuine que 😳

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

not nothing like that. i guess its what you want out of a relationship. i like to hear that im beautiful and loved and i like that expression. it needs to be words backed by actions. im a communicator so to be with someone like anu (or even anuj for that matter) would be helll for me. also where im from, a guy can act like he really likes you but not tell u and when things ends they behave like “well i never told u anything”

That's true...every person experiences emotions in their own way...there is no right or wrong, it's a preference!

God!!! I hope I never come across such men so easy to back out whenever one feels bored

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

sirf tumhare ehsaas ka kya faida? How will you tell the other person about your ehsaas? What if the other person isnt feeling the same way as you do? In that case, how will you express if not verbally? how?

Again, genuine que 😳

Yeh tum har baar disclaimer kyun de rahi ho🤔

I will also say the seven magical words 'I want to grow old with you'

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Yeh tum har baar disclaimer kyun de rahi ho🤔

I will also say the seven magical words 'I want to grow old with you'

🤣🤣🤣🤣

What if the other person asks - "I want to grow old with you too" but how? padosi banke? door se niharke? kaise? batao... please.😳