Psychology of Bua jee

Hello Friends..

Now have you all noticed Bua jee always looks for sympathy , support and shoulder to cry on why ? maybe as she is all alone and nobody to look after her nd her daughter 😳, but thats the case with all of them now..be it Amrit jee Sohni or for that matter Simar then why they never cry or look for support .I guess Bua jee is "Selfish" she think about herself over all,her immediate needs are more important than anything,she just look for Attention and to gain sympathy,just to get her things done by hook or by crook, and that to on time..while on the hand Amrit jee supports her forgetting about her own pain!!

What do you think Whats her psychology? May be she has suffered nd faced many hurdles and time and situation made her that way ? people say nobody is good or bad in this world..Situations makes them so! but Can this justify her deeds ? questions are many and i am searching an apt reply!😊

Ok what if i provide you all with few options :🤔

1.She is just simple plan USER nd she is suing everyone for her own benefits.

2.She needs TRUE support then maybe she will change(although she is having many)

3.Her sitaution made her so, like broken marriage ..if i am not wrong(again not good enough justification)

Think....nd try and come with an anwser ..i am trying to find myself..but right now am all confused with all connection jamed pack that goes towards my brain...😆

Nish

People like Bua jee are like that because of past things 😛 They have witnessed a lot and maybe "suffered" so hence they act like this 😳

Its not exactly situations that make them such, its knowledge. Their knowledge and past experiences have made them this way and now if they want to change it will be hard. 😳 Like the quote says "Be the change you want to see in the world"...this ain't her 😆

She's probably jealous 😕😆 Such people are no comments 😛😆

Originally posted by: *VaVaVoom14*

People like Bua jee are like that because of past things 😛 They have witnessed a lot and maybe "suffered" so hence they act like this 😳

Its not exactly situations that make them such, its knowledge. Their knowledge and past experiences have made them this way and now if they want to change it will be hard. 😳 Like the quote says "Be the change you want to see in the world"...this ain't her 😆

She's probably jealous 😕😆 Such people are no comments 😛😆

wow...because they have suffered in past so making others SUFFER..these kind of people needs LIFE 😳...have tolreated many in past nd..now NO COMMENTS as well😆

the word says all 😳 they believe in this...saying 😳

The luck that is ordained for you will be coveted by others

Rest...i should better keep my mouth shut..😡 but i think they will get their Dues sooner or later...nobody goes from this world without paying for their deeds

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^ yes thats the way this works 😳 because they have suffered they wish the same to happen to everyone else...sad truth of life you see 😳

and yes whatever else you said is true 😳

^^ nobody can imagine what i am going thru at the moment..but i am laughing over it...as i knwo am right nd why should i worry when have not done anything wrong...about..bua jee..well...what she will do...after her daughter's marriage though chances are that she might elope with gaurav 😳 😆

maybe she wants to save her daughter with what she went thru in her life..yet nothing can paint Black into a WHITE again 😃 no matter how hard you try coal will always be black... rest we should leave in god's hand..what ever he will decided will be best

Well the writers have not really told anything about Bua ji's past....

Maybe her husband divorced her...

She can't be a widow....she looks like a suhagan...

Prehaps she is insecure b/c her husband left her, and she is all alone with her daughter....and moneywise she may have nothing and prob feels like she needs to get rano married before something happens to her.

She would have felt better if Balraj had left her something extra on the side...or made a separate account for her with some money instead of her being dependent on her Maayka.

She may have developed this inability to trust others b/c her past experiences.

Paranoia and betrayal can lead to people not being able to trust others....maybe this is why she is like this.


I think in the future the writers might be able to tell us what exactly happened to her...and why she became the way she is...

I agree with Voom, newpath and nish. Bua jee is probably one of those who has never had it all and has seen her brother and his family fluorish as she languished. She probably feels like a colossal "charity case". Deeply entrenched in a restricted way of life, she does not see the need to permit her daughter to achieve nor make her own decisions. In a way she is a control freak, manipulative, insecure and all this stems from deep seated resentment and unhappiness at her own failures.

She needs to introspect and let her daughter carve her own life rather than restricting her every inch of the way!

Originally posted by: chalia

is probably one of those who has never had it all

Thats the exact line...she never had it all 😆