Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 31 DT NT Pg 116 - Page 40

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

Gotta comment for the phorumwa activity babes...need to regain position 2 while we can, god only knows when this baarish of articles will dry up.

The only reason we're stuck at 4 is cos of lack of buzz

Civic duty kar diye Hain. Comment BHI Kiya or rate BHI Kiya. Jai hind! 😂 AAJ ekdum aata majhi satakli mood hai be......

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Did Rupi really say "Once Imlie is back, life would be perfect"??!! She is smart, gotta say that. Afterall, Imlie is the owner of the T house. Adi has a job. Financial troubles ghaayab. I am fully aware that the makers didn't mean this..& that she is in her la la mode. But was surprised how daft someone can be. Wasn't she in an abusive relationship too?

Originally posted by: lovereading14

yeh kaafi lamba nahi ho gaya? 🤪

Originally posted by: libran90

So, I did not comment anything about Imlie's behavior around Aditya because I felt really sorry for her. Her emotions are being used against her, and the poor girl is not even being allowed to process it🤔. What Aditya is doing is actually abusing her mentally and emotionally. Had there been any law for this, the guy would be jailed for sure😡. He is so damn sick. I mean woh puchu puchu wali phuto log tab dete hai, jab kaha suni hoti hai; publicly humiliate karke, uske character, background, aur socio-economic conditions pe usko malign karne ke baad nahi diya jaata.

He is a narcissistic sociopath, who always makes people turn to their worst instincts, be it Malini, Aryan, or even Imlie. I guess that is the reason Aryan finds the man so distasteful. Because he creates situations that jeopardize a person's life.

I felt really too bad. At 19, she feels lost, burdened, mortified. It's exhausting bro. And there was no one to show her the toxicity of it until Aryan came along. Aryan has helped her tap her self-respect, her courage, her spirit which was buried by the Tripathi and Chaturvedi toxicity. And since, she has no one to vent out, Aryan is someone she vents out to. Conflicted and saddened by her situation, when Aryan maintained that she is his employee, it irked her. Ek to she sees him as a friend, her apna, and when Aryan shuts that door for her, it hurts. Because otherwise, she has no one to turn to. Aryan has to be very gentle with her.

Aditya is surely not responsible for the weather, but he is surely responsible for what report comes and leaves his desk. He is a decade-old journalist, they are supposed to triple-check everything. Hamesha se he has been writing and throwing his weight on the editor. If he is leading a team, he is responsible for checking everything himself, considering he is new to the department. To understand the functioning of the department. Now, here pankhis will say, ki apne team pe vishwaas bhi na kare aadmi. Then I will counter that with, he has to pro-actively learn the functioning of the department. Reliance on team tab hota hai, jab team ke baare me aur department ke kaam ke baare me aap bahut achche se jante ho. Ownership lena to aadmi ko aata nahi, department khaak chalayega ye.

I can anticipate Imlie lashing out at Aditya, seeing Arpita and Aryan in such a traumatic situation. All her frustrations will boil over and internally she will erupt on him. Issue minor hoga, lekin, itna saara buildup ho chuka hai ki, ek choti si baat pe bhi bawaal ho sakta hai.This storm that they have created is to push Imlie down the road which will lead to greener pastures post the rain. Cause, when emotional leeches like Aditya suck on her spirit, it will not hamper her mental health. I am still holding on to my hunch that the fake certificate and real marriage will be initiated by Imlie only.

@Blue and @Komal, really commendable and appreciate your take on Imlie's condition👏. However grating on the nerves, I really felt like she looked cornered completely.

her crying yesterday during AKT’s proposal screamed helplessness!

And what this guy AKT is doing is prime example of what Gaslighting is, IMO, it’s pretty scary manipulative situation that is very tough to realize and react to. While most of may be guilty of some form of gaslighting from time to time , here this seems to be a pattern … maybe I am wrong , but there were so many scenes that reminds me to of this …

She certainly wants to get away alright that’s why she is confused, she is still young and naive in many ways and does not have a lot of true moral supporters, except for now.

It was only Aryan who time and again kept saying she is merely 19 years old and this not fair to her , she is no superwomen… even yells at the villagers after listing her achievements and tells them they don’t deserve her association with them!

So this guy ain’t hurting her , no matter how much he is pushed , because he already considers her family along with his mom and sister.

The marriage is going to be so tough on Imli,( I am moving more towards this being her idea too now, and isn’t this a big twist for Gul’s show - a first one for her , it’s the girl that wants to go ahead with this ! 😂)

But how much do you want to bet it’s going to upset ASR even more so ? That after he is aware all that she has said and has undergone ?

He is so not going to impose anything on her even after marriage yet give all the rights that a husband does . Imli has to be the one changing the gears in their relationship, show him outwardly signs post wedding too , if her feelings change and she wants to check his stand on this …. because I don’t see this dude reacting to his feelings of love towards her purposefully , if he accepts them to himself in words that would be a big deal!!!! 😂🤣

Good morning/evening folks. I’ve got a long day so won’t get to hang out as much but here’s the article that I’ve mentioned. Wrote about growth (and lack of it). Next one is all about aryan and anuj! https://www.thefandomentals.com/imlie-anupama-range-growth-heroines/ tagging some folks I had mentioned it to before.

How do we respond to this article??

Originally posted by: SundariP

How do we respond to this article??

Originally posted by: _AmyChoco_

Did Rupi really say "Once Imlie is back, life would be perfect"??!! She is smart, gotta say that. Afterall, Imlie is the owner of the T house. Adi has a job. Financial troubles ghaayab. I am fully aware that the makers didn't mean this..& that she is in her la la mode. But was surprised how daft someone can be. Wasn't she in an abusive relationship too?

God so appalling it was with Rupi. And I thought of all people, this lady will actually show some spine. But nahi. You can see an abuser in Pranav, but cannot see that your loser brother is doing the same thing.😡

What crap are they trying to show when Aditya says agar ye rishta khatm ho gaya hai to tumhare aankhon me aansoo na hote jaise humare aankhon me hai

Bhai, chhaan ke aankho ka nalka, aansun to zara bhi nahi chalka🤣And I am supposed to believe that he is repenting. Behen dikhta to hai nahi mujhko😆 And then he does blatant khilwaad of Imlie's emotions, her pain. Only Imlie and Aryan know what hell that night brought on her when he handed the divorce papers.

On the surface it looks like Imlie still feels for Aditya, but no, Imlie is actually looking for an avenue to escape and cannot figure. Usually she would have leapt at the opportunity to go back to Aditya, but here she is feeling something is wrong, and that in my opinion is progress.

Originally posted by: chotoranii

Good morning/evening folks. I’ve got a long day so won’t get to hang out as much but here’s the article that I’ve mentioned. Wrote about growth (and lack of it). Next one is all about aryan and anuj! https://www.thefandomentals.com/imlie-anupama-range-growth-heroines/ tagging some folks I had mentioned it to before.

Damn Girl that is one well written article! I loved all the ins and outs that you've represented. Even if someone was coming in new without watching the drama, they'd be able to understand the issues you're trying to bring to light.

I'm looking forward to the next one comparing Aryan and Anuj!

I want to claim “Imlie hum dost nahi hain” in his soft baritone. So dreamy!