O Anupamaaaaaaa…… - Page 10

Originally posted by: Koms9

I know. why all these girls are complaining about hasty proposal? Dude, she doesn't even let him touch anything other than her hands and he has already wasted 26 yrs (though he did have some shaam se subah ke saathi) so he must hurry and get the balls rolling! and asli ring ke paise to pata nahi kab aayenge so he has to improvise ladies

dude I get that he’s understanding and only wants her sath, he even said if she says no to shadi, nothing would change between them and he would still visit her from across the hall, watch TV and cheel matar…

they made him a bit too nice and holy and thats whats not sitting well with me, like how initially as well this too good to be true persona was bothering, he’s back to be being that superhuman which I’m not very fond of.

Physical intimacy toh was never his priority, pata nahi kaisa sant banda hai ya toh iske auzaar faulty hai🤣 after saying such a powerful line ke he wants to be Anuj Anupama Joshi and he cant wait to be her pati, he walks away casually, arey haan you are giving her the time and space so what cant he wait for now? cheeling matar for the nth time? jab pati banne ka main perk hi usko nahi chahiye toh shadi kyu karni hai? guess baghbani karne and not the kind we want😳

Originally posted by: DJ_3

But do women not romance post 40 in India? 🤔 What a shame...

That’s how it is perceived. Especially she has been married once with 3 children toh itna blushing n desire won’t look good … that’s how creative think🙄 This is something Rups has said in her interviews that they are trying to portray it not OTT.
In pursuit of it, they are making it meh 😑. Especially Rups in inexperienced in romance n GK is king of romance, so performance pressure is there and on top of it this restriction. So how can we expect the right emotion to be expressed?

I remember that we had a long discussion about the romance n passion in a relationship irrespective of age on IF and we all were of the opinions that it has nothing to do with age but alas makers don’t get such things.

Originally posted by: DJ_3

But do women not romance post 40 in India? 🤔 What a shame...

Originally posted by: Koms9

I felt methi saafing was a code word for getting Anu to experience nirvana! Usko Mini ka OS forward karoon kya, she shared some techniques in there?

Originally posted by: hinz

exactly how I wanted to say it…I get that she hasnt done romance before and the man opposite is romance king, her words not mine, and perhaps she is too critical of her own work but it just makes him look like he’s talking to the wall…even that face covered supposed blushing is pretty boring…I dont think reactions differ according to age or circumstances, if he can act the same at 40 plus…so should she

remember how he goes all crazy and falls to the floor to celelebrate woh thi khadi mere liye?

Yeah , she was quite a let down today , maybe she wasn't prepared because of the hastily added track . Surprisingly during the confession she was very good , but today like most scenarios GK did the heavy lifting .

Also I know it sounds odd but I feel she conveys much better when they are all dressed up (the Christmas party scenes , the intense bangle scene after Mukku entry , the confession )...Maybe she gets a sense of confidence and more freedom in such cases than when she's in her usual look , or maybe in the usual look the expressions don't come across well 😒

Originally posted by: hinz

how can he turn a mundane thing as cheeling matar into such a turn on?

he must have said it like 10 times and bet it was getting Anu all…errr tunrned on, hence that face?😳


I’ve never cheeled matar in RL, now I must go looking for some to cheel, apparently its therapeutic and revitalising😳

and dont even get me started on saafing methi, thats a whole new ball game leading to stuff like chutney peesing and thepla making, all pure tharak material dude…

I’ve never been prouder of being a vegetarian🤣

Is the writer obsessed with him or his character Kya?

Like that black shirt unbuttoned - he was in her house and that smooth I love you - very inviting.

Then that confession ka end - that tone

This week toh next level only. Like chal Kya raha hai?????

Or is the writer just visiting all the T pages INSTEAD of the mudde wale pages on the logic/story? Have these T pages turned the writer on????????

Originally posted by: hinz

dude I get that he’s understanding and only wants her sath, he even said if she says no to shadi, nothing would change between them and he would still visit her from across the hall, watch TV and cheel matar…

they made him a bit too nice and holy and thats whats not sitting well with me, like how initially as well this too good to be true persona was bothering, he’s back to be being that superhuman which I’m not very fond of.

Physical intimacy toh was never his priority, pata nahi kaisa sant banda hai ya toh iske auzaar faulty hai🤣 after saying such a powerful line ke wants to be Anuj Anupama Joshi and he cant wait to be her pati, he walks away casually, arey haan you are giving her the time and space so what cant he wait for? cheeling matar for the nth time? jab lati banne ka main lerk hi usko nahi chahiye toh shadi kyu karni hai? guess baghbani karne and nkt the kind we want😳

Originally posted by: Koms9

plus another reason for his hasty proposal is how unfortunate he has been in terms of relations. even with mukku in one scene he said he trusts Anu for being there always but he doesn't trust his fate. So he wants to make it official before some new kaand happens and he is left to make love with the plastic coated gulab ka phool instead of actual phool

I agree the reason of his hasty proposal but I really don't want marriage so soon. I hope makers first clear this mess then again establish them as individuals. If we talk about logic here then there is much more to explore in their relation like a woman having kids and having DIL can also have a boyfriend, she can date too, she can live too only marriage is not the solution for them at this age. Marriage or no marriage is still her choice.

Originally posted by: arya212002

Yes dear, it was a weak portrayal of expression combined with over analysis of what a 40+ woman should emote when in love.

expressions are not tamed by age IMHO

Originally posted by: arya212002

That’s how it is perceived. Especially she has been married once with 3 children toh itna blushing n desire won’t look good … that’s how creative think🙄 This is something Rups has said in her interviews that they are trying to portray it not OTT.
In pursuit of it, they are making it meh 😑. Especially Rups in inexperienced in romance n GK is king of romance, so performance pressure is there and on top of it this restriction. So how can we expect the right emotion to be expressed?

I remember that we had a long discussion about the romance n passion in a relationship irrespective of age on IF and we all were of the opinions that it has nothing to do with age but alas makers don’t get such things.

Correct. They are mature actors they know how to flow it. Its not that they go all hanky panky. They should stop restricting her so that she can feel and act