GUILT & INSECURITIES💃😓🕺 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

They spoil all festivals birthdays marriage days functions lil get togethers and marriages too. They won't give properly anytime. It's their permanent format . If marriage is done successfully next day they start another problem and fight. Orelse they break it on marriage day or time. They get the sadistic pleasure by snatching the served thali to audience always and keep it back again .that's the reason they are running from 13 yrs.

Beautiful review Hari. I am still reading other reviews, but let me put down my thoughts first..

1. Manish- abhi bonding: it’s is very touching to see abhi exercising his “haq” on bade papa. He has happily agreed to get jhapad/slaps from bade papa because it is bp’s haq on his children to scold/ beat them when they did something wrong. He is “haq se” scolding bade papa to take rest. That is his haq as he is part of family not because he is bp’s doctor since I am sure he doesn’t go scolding his other patients . Abhi has really dil se accepted goenka’s as his family and is taking liberties like they are his own family. His level of dedication and commitment to his akshu cannot be described in words.
2. Mahima: Her ego and insecurity for recognition in family is yet again bringing out the worst in her. You could clearly see that she was almost on the verge of melting. I feel she was trying to show some tough love and she wanted anisha to see that her mistake is not small that can be fixed by almond cookies. but when anisha said, “aapne meri feeling ko samajne ki koshish nahi ki”, thats when her insecurity got triggered, she felt that she is not recognized as a good mother and she went back to her angry mode. I think mahima does love her kids a lot and wants the best for them. And according to her, best =having successful medical career. And to achieve that she is constantly trying to show tough love to her kids. But then comes Manjari giving space/freedom/ unconditional love to kids and all kids are more attached to her instead of their own mother. I wouldn’t be surprised if mahima feels that emotional people like Manjari and ak, who have a more relaxed/softer attitude towards career are not a good influence on her kids. (not saying ak is not serious regarding her job but she’s into it to help people and not for building career with name and fame). So when she got to know that ak was again coming in between her parenting and anisha and clearly anisha is liking ak more than her own mother, she got hurt and went off on ak just like when she had went off on Manjari saying “tum ne bacho ko bigada hai. “

The big elephant in the episode, abhi -ak conversation- coming up in a separate post

Originally posted by: hari15

Today episode was at it's best. Dr. Abhimanyu Birla / HC rocked the whole episode.

FOOD ALERT 🚨🚨 HIGH ALERT - Aarohi gave bottle of water to akshu not glass so khaand is bigger. Happened na abhi ka major set back his competition for ak love with her family and his insecurity. 🙄🙄🙄

The episode starts with abhi and harsh talking about re-joining. Abhi says he wants akshu to join the hospital and it's only his suggestion and not threat, order or demand.

Akshu and Kairav talk about bade papa. Akshu says if something bad happened to bade papa she could never forgive herself. Kairav says the same and convinces her that abhi had fixed everything.

Swarna, mimi and Vansh come and enquire about manish. Kairav says once bade papa wakes up they can go and meet. Vansh clears kairav specs and both brother console each other.

Swarna sees akshu and says not to wory anymore.

" Teri abhimanyu nei, teri bade papa ko bachaya "

So the family had officially put it out of their mouth that abhimanyu is akshu's and now their family member.

Swarna and akshu have an hug and anisha sees this and wishes that even her mother was like this. Akshu sees anisha goes and talks to her. Mimi condemns how anisha didn't come and see them though swarna supports saying she may not be comfortable here.

Haan future saas and bahu understanding and love is brewing. 🤪🤪🤪

Anisha asks akshu's well fare. Akshu comforts anisha saying even though she didn't get her mom's support her mom loves her. Her mother anger is like boiling water how much ever it boils it calms down soon too. Akshu says all mom are same they are angry and upset outside but love i inside and to ask sorry for her mistake and she will melt. Anisha says her mom is not like that. Akshu convinced otherwise.

Akshu's duty as Birla bahu started.. 😎😎😎😎

Abhi is with bade papa and akshu sees them from outside. She asks manish health and abhi says he will be health that the first thing he will do is to wake up and make his cheeks red by slapping him.

Akshu sees bade papa and asks for abhi's stethoscope. Abhi gives her and she hears bade papa heartbeat. She happily says bade papa heart is beating for them, his family and his children. Abhi shows to akshu with the stethoscope that his heart is beating for her.

Abhi tells akshu how her singing helped bade papa to react akshu says it's due to his treatment not her singing. Abhi ends with saying both helped him. Abhi says both are needed in birla hospital and so let's rejoin. Akshu says bade papa will be upset again. Abhi says he will convince him as he had already put a dose in his name along with the injection he gave. Abhi says bade papa will shout, yell and be angry with him but later will hug and love me when the medicine he put works.

They hear a really.

Bade papa wakes up. He remembers akshu saying she won't let abhi go to jail and how she went and spoke to police.

Akshu asks sorry as this happened because of her. Abhi tries to check his pulse but bade papa throws tantrum like a bache. Abhi says he will have to listen to him as he is a doctor and bade Papa is his patient. This is not his house to do as per his wish and gets h to cool down and let him check.

Abhi and bade papa ka soul connection hogaya 🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰

Bade papa thinks in his heart once he gets fine he will see to him. Abhi says he can listen what he is thinking and he can deal with him once her recovers. Abhi says once he rests he can meet his other family members. Akshu leaves.

Mahima talks about manish case to a jr. doctor. Anisha comes and tries to give almond cookies to mahima recollecting childhood memory of her forgiving anisha after breaking mahima Italian case and diamond necklace after anisha gave her the cookies. Mahima gets emotional but changes saying her fault wasn't simple to forgive this time.

Akshu comes and anisha says see my mom is not like other mom's she is different she won't forgive me. Mahima gets angry and says so you are behind this and asks her to stop being a mahaan.

Hey mahima is pakka senior aarohi. Or aarohi is junior mahima.

Mahima in anger says she doesn't know about maa beti relationship but stops and asks to forget it and not to get involved in her family matter.

How wrong you are mahima. Akshu already started her mission of being birla bahu by supporting and consoling anisha.

Manish wakes and is surrounded by the whole family. He says he felt like all his life flashed towards him and he was leaving then he heard his kids voice. They have a family moment where manish tells he heart all his family calling him out and he is here. Abhi comes and asks everyone to leave.

Manish wants to speak with mimi and swarna. He tells them before he leaves this world he wants to see all his kids happy and wants to make everything right for them.

Hogya sab hogya. Akshu you did a full job today on abhi triggering all his insecurity.

Yesterday akshu words if something happened to bade papa she would have never forgiven him.

Next after such long operation abhi didn't even get a hug from akshu.

Next abhi wants ak to join hospital but ak rejects for manish.

Next abhi is competing with bade papa with showing his heart beat.

Now akshu poured full water on abhi.

She spoke about manish feeling his life leaving yet his kids childhood memories is what got him back. She tells how he must have felt that his akshu has disappointed him. Akshu puts her next straw saying how she left home and was living alone for aarohi happiness and house peace.

Akshu puts her final straw saying how her love is her strength and at the same time why it is taking away her family happiness. Akshu dear look at abhi beside you.

Precap : Ddlj bade papa is here at birla house. 😎😎😎

Hi Dear, Aaj ka Episode main kya hi Bolu

AM still emo about all that ABhi went through.

i wish i could Hug that man and say, give this girl some time, she has her own demons to fight

I wrote a whole post on it yaar... Aaj bahut rulaya ABhi ne

but i also feel for Abhi, how much is this guy going to give, and how bloody much will he keep competing with every member of his family.

She pushes him back everytime there is a problem,

first Arohi,

then Kairav and now Badepapa

he even calls every member of her family with the same names that she does, he has given a full accord to say this is my family... but has Akshara really given the same confidence to him.

despite all fights, he knows if push comes to shove, she will distance herself from him, in a jiffy

i want him to now fight for himself.

Bade papa will come and ask for Abhi for his Akshu,

i want Abhi to tell him, that yes i have always yearned for her, but i want her to fight for me... so let her please fight for me.... i know she loves me, but I deserve the love that she has for all of you... i want to be the one, for whom she would want to leave others... without whom she cannot imagine her existence.

i so wish this man fights for himself now

Regarding ak abhi conversation:

Ak said - she is feeling all this happened because she was selfish and chose her own happiness/love over her families happiness.

Abhi heard- I should not have chosen abhi over family.

There is a big difference here. Ak is simply feeling guilty that she is the cause of family’s unhappiness and for Manish heart attack. When she said, “aisa pyaar nahi manga tha” I feel she meant she didn’t want such a complicated love story. Again, I totally understand where ak is coming from.. her life experiences so far has conditioned her to always feel guilty and keep herself in back burner after everyone else. What she doesn’t understand is that she is wrong in solely blaming her love to be responsible for the current mess. Ar ratting out kairav and ak, abhi-ak and kairav- anisha celebrating valentine’s together, abhi’s insistence to not leave goenka villa, manish’s failure to see the depth of Abhira love, ak supporting abhi against Manish, harsh’s hand in diamond kaand, Manish general age and health condition- all of these have led to Manish’s heart attack. So ak is not right in blaming herself or her choices.

Now coming to how abhi interpreted the conversation- he feels ak is blaming him and his love for this; that she is regretting choosing/supporting abhi against Manish; that she can see how choosing abhi is causing pain to family but she cannot see his pain if she chooses family over him. She still sees him separate than her family when according to him they are all one family.

I won’t go in detail as I believe we all agree that his insecurities are completely understandable given their whole post tilak fiasco history.

Ak has unintentionally triggered his worst fears and opened his deep wounds. It will be interesting to see how she calms his insecurities and heals those wounds with love. I don’t think they will have a long separation track but definitely some reassurances , a heart to heart conversation followed by some tears and hug will be needed to put all these behind them.

Also, as audience we were all already aware of their insecurities, but the way HC and Pranali portrayed those painful feelings really shook us (atleast me). I felt like Ak was squeezing my heart when she went on and on about her guilt and then when I saw abhi’s face my heart broke into million pieces. 😭 Kudos to both HC and pranali for pulling those emotions out of the audience.

Hey Reva. Nailed all points. Abhi Accepted ak and her family as his. Jo Mera hi woh tera hi jo tera hi woh mera hi. He gave his mom to her as gift when she was working bad remembering her own mother. And manjari gave her that love. After mandir fiasco Abhi accepted Badepapa as his relationship. But Ak after v day treat also didn't call manjari as maa. She told aunty. So it's always her family for her and he is next. Kya Akshara tum apni parivar aur behn jaisa pyar mujhe karpavoge by his self talk in Udaipur will be coming next..she accepted him as family but she didn't reciprocate it today as she is on her gulit and baggage . If she told Abhi you saved me from my guilt trip and I am thankful to you that you saved badepapa for me he could not have got hurt this way. She literally pressed his heart saying meri apni duniya hi aur tum doosri instead of mingling him in her duniya. No doubt her words made him hurt that way from start..

Mahima you wrote right as she was about to melt and Ani made a statement showing Ak. So mahima threw both showed Ak her place. Manjari has taken all kids in her pallu that they don't have normal relationship with mahima.

Abhi is doing all saam daan bhed dandopay to please badepapa to make hi accept.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Hey Reva. Nailed all points. Abhi Accepted ak and her family as his. Jo Mera hi woh tera hi jo tera hi woh mera hi. He gave his mom to her as gift when she was working bad remembering her own mother. And manjari gave her that love. After mandir fiasco Abhi accepted Badepapa as his relationship. But Ak after v day treat also didn't call manjari as maa. She told aunty. So it's always her family for her and he is next. Kya Akshara tum apni parivar aur behn jaisa pyar mujhe karpavoge by his self talk in Udaipur will be coming next..she accepted him as family but she didn't reciprocate it today as she is on her gulit and baggage . If she told Abhi you saved me from my guilt trip and I am thankful to you that you saved badepapa for me he could not have got hurt this way. She literally pressed his heart saying meri apni duniya hi aur tum doosri instead of mingling him in her duniya. No doubt her words made him hurt that way from start..

Mahima you wrote right as she was about to melt and Ani made a statement showing Ak. So mahima threw both showed Ak her place. Manjari has taken all kids in her pallu that they don't have normal relationship with mahima.

Abhi is doing all saam daan bhed dandopay to please badepapa to make hi accept.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Hari good review of episode. BAGGAGE OF GUILT AND INSECURITIES. This is today's highlight..

Abhi wanted Ak to join hospital along with hi. He has taken decision for both and told her. Ak chose Bade papa hurt honge. She is back to herself always. Yesterday Maaf nahi karpavungi apne aap ko. Ak is thinking of only Manish now as he is I'll and got out from death . She didn't hug Abhi or thanked him specially. It was all her one lift yesterday and It's all due to Abhi. The man is an attention seeker purely loves Akshu leaves no complaints against it. When she checked Manishs heart saying he has come back for his kids he showed his heart beat. Abhi has to be told that he is her family now along with her Own family like how Abhi accepted Goenkas as his garden his responsibility. The girl who can't share her inner emotions to anyone first time infront of Abhi but result is his hurt.

She spoke about her parents loss, baggage of sirat and Taking peaceful way to give happiness to Ar. She is not ready for another baggage for yrs of Manish on her.in the way of chosing family she is always hurting Abhi. In chosing Abhi she is hurting family. This will go on and on but for her it's always a struck situation for both. And she is unable to pacify both. If she spoke that Abhi has saved from her guilt by saving Manish he could have understood it. But her words spoken are right went in wrong way to him. She chose him against Ar, and manish publicly but his insecurities are always there as she choses her family against him.

Today its HC day in acting. He gave perfect changed expressions in whole scene changing his face expressions showing his pain, hurt and insecurity. Abhi is always hurt by Ak rejections. He is scared of that and comes holds her whenever something happens so that she won't leave him. Literally he does that DHOLAREDHOLA after her so that she stays with him always along with her family. Ak trusted him and told her inner conflicts and baggage. But it gave him the knock back. He has been waiting cool with kv incident and Manishs doing his way of coming back and adjust with her not opening his inner side. Need to see much next that the piled up hurt , anger and insecurities might be resulting into TANDAV by him.

Ak has started her side of work for Birlas with Ani. So she will ba hurt next by them like how Abhi is hurt by Manish .They both are in equal ends receiving the insult from families in chosing each other.

Precap is ....Mohobbatein style In Manish going to Birlas and asking for sorry and patchup as he already told dadi, swarna that he has to see kids happiness now.

PRACHI 1967 predicted long long back that whatever the process of taking rista by Abhi going to Goenkas or Birlas going to Goenkas it's all gadbad from start and it's wrong . It should be from girls side head Manish who has to go and ask for Rista then only it goes in correct way. So it's coming out next.

Funny note....whenever Akhara goes back to Sati phase after a little Parvati phase Abhimanyus Mati is gone. 😂

Very well written Meher.

I know where you are coming from for Akshu, and there is no contest that she Loves ABhi, but like he said will she ever love him as much

every action and reaction of his has been a statement of his complete surrender to and acceptance of her and her family...

he never questioned why she does not do the same, takes it in his stride, but a man can only take so much insecurity.

yes today his Mati is gone with Sati...

and tomorrow he is going to fight for himself, his self respect, if he wants to be Akshara's would be Pati

Very well explained. She told about her gulit and her family taking pain due to her actions either sirat fiasco or Manish..she didn't point abhi. She told her pov first time with him .but result is misunderstood by him. He is always insecure of her love for him against her family. He needs that reassurances from her and remove that fear from him by accepting him as part of her family..pranali was loud today and HC is amazing 😍 he made us cry..

Originally posted by: mtina0207

Very well written Meher.

I know where you are coming from for Akshu, and there is no contest that she Loves ABhi, but like he said will she ever love him as much

every action and reaction of his has been a statement of his complete surrender to and acceptance of her and her family...

he never questioned why she does not do the same, takes it in his stride, but a man can only take so much insecurity.

yes today his Mati is gone with Sati...

and tomorrow he is going to fight for himself, his self respect, if he wants to be Akshara's would be Pati

Originally posted by: mtina0207

Hi Dear, Aaj ka Episode main kya hi Bolu

AM still emo about all that ABhi went through.

i wish i could Hug that man and say, give this girl some time, she has her own demons to fight

I wrote a whole post on it yaar... Aaj bahut rulaya ABhi ne

but i also feel for Abhi, how much is this guy going to give, and how bloody much will he keep competing with every member of his family.

She pushes him back everytime there is a problem,

first Arohi,

then Kairav and now Badepapa

he even calls every member of her family with the same names that she does, he has given a full accord to say this is my family... but has Akshara really given the same confidence to him.

despite all fights, he knows if push comes to shove, she will distance herself from him, in a jiffy

i want him to now fight for himself.

Bade papa will come and ask for Abhi for his Akshu,

i want Abhi to tell him, that yes i have always yearned for her, but i want her to fight for me... so let her please fight for me.... i know she loves me, but I deserve the love that she has for all of you... i want to be the one, for whom she would want to leave others... without whom she cannot imagine her existence.

i so wish this man fights for himself now