why do we keep coming back to the show?- open discussion - Page 6

Originally posted by: Monstuholic

We clearly have a lot of issues with the show.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai/5281370/so-is-abhi-a-psychopath-or-just-utterly-dumb

Despite all of that why do you think we keep coming back to the show?

In itv all shows are crap no one can deny that 😆 i do not watch ITV unless i see some good actors or known actors is part of that show. Like sharad harshad because sometimes i feel they might think and choose scripts compared to new joiners. And i don't watch any other shows on itv..

Yrkkh is okay for me except few isses in hospital scenes but can't complain as they cant hire surgeon to correct the scene or some editing issues or some flow issues and missing emotional talks.

All these issues are common in itv so i can't expect them here. And romance is YRKKH’s trademark as i have heard from friends kaira had everyday romance 😆

The only things i like about yrkkh

Leads ( Harshad and pranali)

Side characters

Less negative compared to other shows.

And whatever negative we see now that is very much required for story to progress.

If hero is good if heroine is good.story 2 mahine main khatham hojayega. I dont want to see everyday romance as it would be overdose for me.

I definitely love to see leads with flaws and they correct themselves slowly in their journey. Even in real life nobody is perfect if they are perfect then great 👍 but i am not perfect and i too have some flaws. Everyone has flaws eventually they need to understand how to overcome it. So i am not cribbing too much about that😁 i will watch it till its watchable and quit if I feel its not the one for me. Than wasting my time in cribbing so much as in the end writers will not change their story for 1 person 😆

I hardly look into these posts now as i have realized some people just watch the show to find negative points i have never seen any positive posts from them in the past. If we know that people only want to watch a show and crticize them then its better to ignore them as their whole point is to find flaws in the shows and they spend so much time on it. I would have preferred doing something else in that time.

But some people even though they criticize they appreciate the show for good things we should have them in the forums 😊 they are the true fans of the shows. Who knows when to appreciate when not to. 😊

Guys, I was not trying to make it a “ITV is crap” post, I wanted all of you to just be appreciative of the show. Tell us what you like that despite all the flaws you still rush to watch the episode at 6 am

Originally posted by: aishapl013

I watch the show wholly as a source of entertainment.

I have stopped finding logic in it n comparing it to bhagyas, Multiple man show,

This for me seems the most sane to watch n I like the chemistry so I'll watch the series till it goes on, damn the logic.🤗

Most sane.. yes, better than that show where FL had turned into a house fly 🤣

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

I'm watching only to see some progress in Neil and Aarohi's story. I cannot stand anyone else, so I skip their scenes.

Resulting in me skipping everything and landing on the precap🤣

I watch just for HC

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I was only making the remark about Abhira because the show does center around Abhimanyu and Akshara as they do take up a majority of the screen time. And sometimes I find some post to be overly explosive about how they view things to the point I'm like you sound very angry are you sure you want to continue watching this show cause it seems like it is bothering you a lot? I would say the same thing for anyone who writes similar post about how x character is getting on their nerves.

You and I both know that we cannot control what people post or what they say in those posts. Most of the time it's people venting out their frustrations and not to be taken too seriously but sometimes when you see the same post doing the same thing over and over again it makes you pause and wonder if you dislike this so much why are you still watching? I personally find the minute someone starts using bad or abusive language in the post that person has already lost me regardless if some of their points they want to make about x character are correct or not. I just tend not to get myself engaged in such posts.

Anyways, I think people should be allowed to post on any character. The issue is like you said sometimes people cannot neutrally view a character because they are too attached to what the character may have done in the past. They continue to use that to justify rightly or wrongly their view point about something. But if we think about it objectively and view all the characters on this show as grey maybe we can better digest what is going on 🤓

I get what you are saying. And yeah, apart for neutrality all kind of emotions are abundant in here. I honestly believe similar to the dislike, the overly attachment to the leads that it affects one badly when their favorite characters are sad or when someone has a differing opinion is as damaging.

Right now, I have learned how forum is, since these last few months are when I got active here. Now, I don't go to topics/thread where my opinions will not be tolerated, so I go to only those topics where I can find similar opinions. 😁

Originally posted by: iheartChai

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Anyways, I think people should be allowed to post on any character. The issue is like you said sometimes people cannot neutrally view a character because they are too attached to what the character may have done in the past. They continue to use that to justify rightly or wrongly their view point about something. But if we think about it objectively and view all the characters on this show as grey maybe we can better digest what is going on 🤓

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Agree completely.. the actions of these characters may be wrong but they are not wrong always . Harsh and aaru also have scope for redemption.. but when they redeem, they will be appreciated for it. We will cross that bridge when we reach there..

sometimes I really do wonder as to why abhira true "lovers" discuss abhira like there is no tomorrow and they don't discuss the characters they actually love in the show ? Like ff abhira scenes , hate abhimanyu but keep talking about how bad he is. I also understand the sentiment behind trolling ..I have been there done that.. all I know is it fills up the mind with negativity..we should never watch a show only if we like some actor. We will always end up trolling it and then we spill the negativity onto others. The discussion forum becomes so intriguing ke jaane ka mann nahi karta 😆

Another thing.. about arohi . If arohi can be appreciated, understood to having so much "depth" , why not abhimanyu ? Like , why is it so strange if there are abhimanyu fans in the forum?

Old habits die hard. 😉

Also, I am curious and hopeful that things would move along but its so slowwwww. 🤢

I miss episodes here and there cause they be 20 minutes of nothing.

I want to see where Aarohi's character arc goes, I'm hoping that unlike usual ITV shows she does not turn into the "bad" sister.

I don't mind HC & PR's acting & chemistry, its a treat to watch.

Also tracks post marriage are more interesting to me, but I know that is not happening for a while, so I am currently (re)watching Geet - Hui Sabse Parayi & Mehndi Hai Rachne Waali in the meantime.

You do have a good point though, there was so much negativity on this forum! Like chiiiilllllllllll, its just a show, lmao go watch something else in the meantime, eat some sugar, you're being bitter lmao.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Another thing.. about arohi . If arohi can be appreciated, understood to having so much "depth" , why not abhimanyu ? Like , why is it so strange if there are abhimanyu fans in the forum?

I don't know.

I also find that sometimes when I see one character (this does not apply just to this show but things in general I have seen) gets beat up so much that people immediately become defensive because the fact that character has been pulled through the mud so much that people are tired of seeing another post blaming the character for doing something. This generally happens to characters who are suppose to be "good" because we generally associate lead characters as the "good" people. We are more willing to come to their defensive then a character that is grey/evil.

Where as if you have a grey/villain character we know they have already fallen so what they do for example bad actions fit within their character scope. And when they do good it seems they are redeemable and have layers.

I use to think that villians characters are hard characters to play. But in fact the good characters are harder. Because how do you get the audience to sympathize with you and understand where your emotions and actions come from even when you may do something selfish or make the wrong choices? Obviously it always helps if you have a script that supports that journey and a good actor that can navigate that space so the audience connects.

Also, I would like to say, I am not neutral about the show. I have very strong opinions. And it is a fact that most of the amazing performances of Harsh and Manish does come when they are performing together or calling out certain favourite characters. So it is kind of impossible to appreciate them without criticising the latter but again like almost everyone says here, anyone has the right to post any opinion. People seem to keep saying that but gets really upset when someone actually does. I don't go to topics anymore where I have nothing to contribute or I don't agree with. I wish everyone just does the same thing and stay in the eco chamber if that's what they are comfortable with. 😅

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I use to think that villians characters are hard characters to play. But in fact the good characters are harder. Because how do you get the audience to sympathize with you and understand where your emotions and actions come from even when you may do something selfish or make the wrong choices? Obviously it always helps if you have a script that supports that journey and a good actor that can navigate that space so the audience connects.

I agree with this so much. Like when the season started there was this argument that Aarohi was much better and Akshara is lame. But I kept rooting for Akshara because I thought this is the beginning and her arc is not developed and right now she just has to act as this over the top sweet girl. But the writers never put any proper effort into developing her and in my sole opinion ended up making her really "not smart". Like there is nothing going for Akshara I feel.

But they did put in efforts in preventing Aarohi from becoming a complete villain. May be keeping that one motto in mind and writing her character is what makes it feel like Aarohi has more depth. Whereas making the leads do whatever becomes acceptable because they are, well leads.