Originally posted by: FIREMYSOUL
Single women bs tho kuch nahi hai. People who don't know me assumed so many things abt my personalityđ And I'm like raho delu land main mujhe kya. Never cared wat anyone thinks of me never will either.
@ hai teri bechari maa poor thing. But if u feel that way hopefully she will be ok with it.
Fire and single by choice ladies, that pressure comes no matter what phase of life your in. I've been married 6 years, challenges having a baby, and now when our people ask me "don't you want a baby, don't you want to make your mum a nanni" i respond so bluntly with " no we don't want babies, were both selfish, we like travelling and seeing the world, with kids we can't do that the same way" and the shocked look i get when i say that is to die for. What I really want to say is "what happens between me and my husband and my uterus is none of your f-King business". People assume grass is always greener on their side. I always tell my mum and mother in law that only people that have struggled with conceiving will understand how horrible that question is to ask another women. I once told my mother in law that maybe its not me its your son and i swear she doesn't dare bring it up with me.