Goenkas ki barat. - Page 13

Originally posted by: tptwi

Beautifully put Meher. There are only 2 people in the entire world who can calm Abhi down when he is in the fit of impulsivity- Manjari and Akshu. We saw it at the mandir when he was storming away with Akshu after she fainted...everyone was calling after him, but he did not care. The second Manjari stopped him, he listened. He realized almost immediately that he was doing something wrong, so he changed course. The same thing is happening here. He is getting carried away in his emotions, and now Akshu is stopping him. But, Akshu never was and never will be as gentle as Manjari. Abhi has met his perfect match in Akshu in all cylinders. She stays quiet when she needs to, but when she opens her mouth, Abhi has to listen.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

I ddnt say ar is right.. She had manipulated the whole situation to her advantage.. but her manipulations or MD seat fiasco doesnt make abhi right.. He was wrong frm day 1 itslf.. instead of confessing his feelings and knowing aks views or how she feels, he directly went to her family.. then with the misunderstandings created by Manjeri and himself got every1 in probm.. whatever ar manipulations or intentions were, she wouldnt have been sucessful in it, if it was not for his proposal though it was under pressure.. he could hv gone for some other girl.. and not put ak in tight spot if he was genuinely concerned.. secondly what ar did is secondary and she too is at fault but atleast she was not 2timing. Even aftr being committed, he was still trying for ak nd pressurise her to accept.. if that was his intention either he should hv waited or should hv gone for some other girl other than ar.

Coming to kv, life doent go like a blueprint we made.. its always harsh and unexpected. Kv too didnt kno the future.. For him, his first and foremost priority is his sisters, he cant leave them and just go ahead with his own plans.. here he had to choose between ani and his siblings and family.. he chose his family.

Sometimes life is tough and you always dont get whatever u wish for.. if that was the case, then there wouldnt have been any heartbreaks in the world..

And the understanding part for all the fiasco, why should it always have to b ak and kv to do it?? Y cant abhi and ani too do that and sort out the issues patiently giving time. Both the birla kids wants instant result that too as per their wish.. its not a cricket match going to get a win or loss at the end of the day..

For things to work out, you need to put in effort and give sometime and work over it.. being suicidal whatever reasons behind it, cant justify it.. should be send for treatment as soon as possible or else in future there will be n number of reasons to give up and if she is sucessful in that.. then the ones who r left behind will be in prison or get killed in the hands of others.. nobody will come there and ask the justifications..or think from where she is coming from.. everybody will accuse the person who is with her and left behind.

Her parents had rejected her or her wishes.. v dont know.. its tough but at the end of the day, ani has her parents, whereas goenka kids are literally orphans with just their grandparents.. kv and ak had lost his parents twice.. thats a huge huge trauma.. so with such situations goenka kids should hv committed suicide long time bck..and also wit ar accusation of killing sirat. Suicide is never a solution or a justification for anything..

So whether its abhi, or ak or ar or kv or ani all were wrong from day1 and in the present scenario, all of them and the stand they r taking as well is right in their positions.. except abhi pulling kvs collar.. if that was the case, abhi should hv been bashed up black and blue for his deeds by the goenkas. And in any relationship both the partners have the right to go ahead and be together for life or to break up for whatever personal reasons they have. You cant force somebody to be together against their wish.. even if you are sucessful in being together in such scenarios, you will never be happy at the end of the day..

If abhi understood Ak love and reason he could not have gone to ar. But he grandly went for Ar commanded Manish for marriage and did what he wants to torture Ak in the name of love. He didn't stand strong on any decision of his till now except his love for ak.

Ak being the meek like kv held everything inside and went for ar happiness made all disaster till end . So she is repenting now that I could have chosen him from day1.

Ar did all khaands to achieve him selfishly but can't get in Nick of time..but still after two rejections she has got her will power to go ahead in career and leave Abhira on their own. She excused her sister but didn't ask for pardon for what she did affected 2 lives of abhira. Similarly Abhiras decisions affected Kaisha. So it's all interlinked and the last one is Ar releasing them. At the end of the day all are family so need to accept each other that way rectifying their mistakes.

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

My answers in purple.

Both are wrong and there is no point in blaming one person and defending the other.

You are so right in this story everyone is wrong at one point and their is no use in defending one and blaming the other.

Akshu was wrong when she kept quiet.

Aarohi was wrong when she threatened akshu.

Abhi was wrong when he went for aarohi.

Manjari was wrong for creating confusion after confusion.

Harsh is wrong because he is a male chauvinist.

Manish is wrong when he accepted abhi for aarohi knowing it is a marriage bound to doom.

Mahima is wrong for creating confusion in 1 st tilak.

Mimi is wrong for not letting abhi complete for who he came for.

Tauji is wrong at not appreciating his wife when needed.

Neil is wrong for giving a wrong phone number to abhi.

Parth is wrong to sit at home jobless.

Ag was wrong to go against his elder brother and accept the marriage proposal for aarohi.

Anisha was wrong at jumping in water.

Kairav was wrong at leaving a girl he loved for 2 years.

At the end of the day these are all human traits which makes them a human to make mistakes and learn from it.

If we talk these characters rights and wrongs nothing comes to an end. Instead we want to go ahead in story with their rights and wrongs , flaws and goods.

When outside others didn't want noodle wig girl for kairav we were waiting for her entry.

Waiting and cracking our head to know which leg she would keep in goenka house. And being happy when our guess goes right.

Yesterday we were cracking our head will manish respect anisha Or not. Happy when he took her home with respect.

Will abhi keep silent or blast.

Will kairav keep silent or open his mouth.

Who will ak support.

Now we are trying to crack what it meant in precap for ak and kv at one side and abhi at another side with aarohi in center.

Cracking our head when and how will aarohi realise her mistakes.

Originally posted by: tptwi

These have been similar to my thoughts since the Kaisha track started. Kaisha are essentially a do-over for Abhira. In uniting Kaisha, Abhira are reconzisizng all of the mistakes they made in the past so that their siblings don't repeat them. They want to do things the right way through their siblings. Not only for Kaisha, but also for themselves. At the end of this track, there will be a sense for closure for everyone involved... because at this point, everything has still been left open.

Originally posted by: hari15

You are so right in this story everyone is wrong at one point and their is no use in defending one and blaming the other.

Akshu was wrong when she kept quiet.

Aarohi was wrong when she threatened akshu.

Abhi was wrong when he went for aarohi.

Manjari was wrong for creating confusion after confusion.

Harsh is wrong because he is a male chauvinist.

Manish is wrong when he accepted abhi for aarohi knowing it is a marriage bound to doom.

Mahima is wrong for creating confusion in 1 st tilak.

Mimi is wrong for not letting abhi complete for who he came for.

Tauji is wrong at not appreciating his wife when needed.

Neil is wrong for giving a wrong phone number to abhi.

Parth is wrong to sit at home jobless.

Ag was wrong to go against his elder brother and accept the marriage proposal for aarohi.

Anisha was wrong at jumping in water.

Kairav was wrong at leaving a girl he loved for 2 years.

At the end of the day these are all human traits which makes them a human to make mistakes and learn from it.

If we talk these characters rights and wrongs nothing comes to an end. Instead we want to go ahead in story with their rights and wrongs , flaws and goods.

When outside others didn't want noodle wig girl for kairav we were waiting for her entry.

Waiting and cracking our head to know which leg she would keep in goenka house. And being happy when our guess goes right.

Yesterday we were cracking our head will manish respect anisha Or not. Happy when he took her home with respect.

Will abhi keep silent or blast.

Will kairav keep silent or open his mouth.

Who will ak support.

Now we are trying to crack what it meant in precap for ak and kv at one side and abhi at another side with aarohi in center.

Cracking our head when and how will aarohi realise her mistakes.

Originally posted by: hari15

You are so right in this story everyone is wrong at one point and their is no use in defending one and blaming the other.

Akshu was wrong when she kept quiet.

Aarohi was wrong when she threatened akshu.

Abhi was wrong when he went for aarohi.

Manjari was wrong for creating confusion after confusion.

Harsh is wrong because he is a male chauvinist.

Manish is wrong when he accepted abhi for aarohi knowing it is a marriage bound to doom.

Mahima is wrong for creating confusion in 1 st tilak.

Mimi is wrong for not letting abhi complete for who he came for.

Tauji is wrong at not appreciating his wife when needed.

Neil is wrong for giving a wrong phone number to abhi.

Parth is wrong to sit at home jobless.

Ag was wrong to go against his elder brother and accept the marriage proposal for aarohi.

Anisha was wrong at jumping in water.

Kairav was wrong at leaving a girl he loved for 2 years.

At the end of the day these are all human traits which makes them a human to make mistakes and learn from it.

If we talk these characters rights and wrongs nothing comes to an end. Instead we want to go ahead in story with their rights and wrongs , flaws and goods.

When outside others didn't want noodle wig girl for kairav we were waiting for her entry.

Waiting and cracking our head to know which leg she would keep in goenka house. And being happy when our guess goes right.

Yesterday we were cracking our head will manish respect anisha Or not. Happy when he took her home with respect.

Will abhi keep silent or blast.

Will kairav keep silent or open his mouth.

Who will ak support.

Now we are trying to crack what it meant in precap for ak and kv at one side and abhi at another side with aarohi in center.

Cracking our head when and how will aarohi realise her mistakes.

The more I watch the precap, the more I fall in love with it. Abhi grabs Kairav's collar to control him, to threaten him. The collar is where you attach a lease... Abhi wants Kairav to do things his way. But, Akshu steps in and grabs his shirt... the part on his chest...where his heart is. She is trying to steady him. Her one lone tear will reach his heart. She is bringing him back into reality, as his impulses have taken over. This juxtaposition is so beautiful.

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

So you mean to say I can give hopes to someone saying I love them immensely and I want to live with them forever. Suddenly, one fine day I tell them No this can’t happen since you are a Birla and are families won’t get along. I can break up my relationship when I feel it’s not gonna work out without even consulting the other person. I tell them to also forget all those feelings they have for me as it won’t work and because I am not gonna try.

Her suicidal nature is wrong. Her way of handling things is wrong. But don’t you want to see where she is coming from??? She is someone who has already been rejected by her family. Will she be able to handle another emotional break up?? If you want to really maintain peace then you need to explain her everything. You can still go ahead with your decision but not like this giving up without trying.
What Abhi did with Arohi is wrong. But what Arohi did and how she built up the entire marriage thing is right??? She stood with her family, okay but where was her concern when she was betraying her own parents be it the money or the MD course. Still nobody knows that she did not give her exams and she was cheated upon. Even after knowing all these you expect a guy to marry her??? When he knows how she treats her own sister???

Arohi from day one was wrong and Abhi’s one mistake will not right all her wrongs.

Still Abhi is wrong…..

See relationship has two ways, right? Why kairav has to do all? Anisha too needs to put step one. But Kairav knows she is not in that condition. Anisha is not aware of what happened at the temple between two families during marriage. She should have shown some patience and say...it's ok you are giving up our relationship but i will not. But that doesn't mean you jumped in the fire or water without thinking. With these suicidal attempts you cannot force someone. With only love and respect you can achieve.

If you want something, you need to give that something to others. If you want love, give love. If you want acceptance, give acceptance to those things your love loves rather than rebelling.

Birla kids needs to learn this. This is the first step for them to learn. You cannot continue with the same nature entire life, especially when you are entering into Grahasth life where you are not alone.

Kairav is telling in the precap that he is backing off because of the families. Now Anisha wants she can convince her family and let her family goes to Goenkas and ask for rishta. She should try that way, not the other way round. She should try to remove the blockage which Kariav thinks is; not putting blockage for KAirav.

Originally posted by: tptwi

The more I watch the precap, the more I fall in love with it. Abhi grabs Kairav's collar to control him, to threaten him. The collar is where you attach a lease... Abhi wants Kairav to do things his way. But, Akshu steps in and grabs his shirt... the part on his chest...where his heart is. She is trying to steady him. Her one lone tear will reach his heart. She is bringing him back into reality, as his impulses have taken over. This juxtaposition is so beautiful.

True.. at the end of the day everybody should sit individually with their personal kaand board and ponder over their misdeeds and apologise to the respective person heartfully..

Hari u summerised the khaand board of everybdy from day1 til now. Hats off..