Kaishu vs Abhisha

I've seen lots of forum posts discussing which sibling doesn't make their BP go up but I wanted to try a poll to see where it's at.

In all fairness, might be too early to have a poll cause Kaishu has a four-month advantage of screentime and also they're Kaira's (and Mimilulu's) children and Naksh's grandchildren so that's a bias.

I speculate that my opinion won't change much over time just cause I can see their story and their emotions. It isn't cryptic or mysterious like the Birla's. I love mysteries, don't get me wrong, this mystery isn't exciting curiosity in me. I just want to get it over with. I know what family means to each and I know what love means to them. I don't agree with either of the four but I think Kaishu has much more to lose/fear. Plus, I like the fact that for the most part, they have boundaries. They don't do this zabardaasti ke rishtey by forcing relations on others when they're not interested.

I'm letting Akshu's force on Aaru slide cause at one point, they did have a relationship. They're sisters. Their relationship, however, screwed up, has a foundation (stll think it was annoying with her Aaru jaap and cringe to watch). But who is Abhi to Manish? No one. He doesn't have the right to force himself on Manish and make him uncomfortable. This is why I liked the part of today's episode when he took a step back at the Goenka house because he didn't want his presence to make a scene or upset someone. That respect for distance was nice.

I also liked the scene where they talked about who spoiled Anisha. It shows family dynamics of the Birla's that add depth to the story and touch on things that the audience can relate to. Blaming the mother, especially the housewife, for their children's 'failures' but not recognizing the pivotal role they played in their children's successes. And the idea of strain between working parents and children's relationship.