Anupamaa LIVE Update and Daily Discussion Thread 07 Feb 2022 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Kras1

https://twitter.com/Kk_MaAn26/status/1490506365332164608?s=20&t=7pM55b79GwtFjmAYgvVdBw

Just so heart-wrenching!! Amazing parallel!

J.S. Park says, "Real love doesn't meet you at your best. It meets you in your mess."

This is what true love is - true love means that you have an unwavering, unbreakable, and unparalleled fondness and devotion for your partner. It's also defined by the connection with him or her that runs immeasurably deep, and life without your significant other would be practically unthinkable.

Loved the episode today.

Anuj crying the whole time broke my heart. But loved Anu's strong avatar. How much progression...Before she used get scared of Vanraj's Anupamaaaaa shout , today loved how she has given back to him . She really has self control not slap Vanraj today...and even more self control not to give ANuj a consoling hug.......Both of them needed/deserved their respective treats.

I truly hope she uses her voice notes tomorrow .

Blood boiling precap....

I wish they would not have butchered Anuj' character this way...There could have another ways to boil down fight to A vs V .

Let go episode by episode ...Donot think they have much in bank right now.

Originally posted by: arya212002

Liked how Anu was stern when she went to talk with Mukku. Straight into Mukku’s eyes and no argument with V. She did good that she didn’t indulge in any kind of argument with V because that could trigger Mukku against her and V could use it to his advantage.

I think the haq that Anu asserted is what Mukku always needed. Anuj always gives up and stands guilty when it comes to Mukku. She wanted him to exercise that haq and prove that she is his priority along with pampering.

Finally, I think I got it. Mukku wants Anuj to Haq jatao on her at the same time pamper her with prioritizing / pacify if she gets angry.

Eg 1: Pancake instance - She wanted priority over Anu which he failed and then Anuj went helpless and didn’t stop her with haq or pacify her

Eg 2: X mas - Gave off all his rights and made her a stranger

Eg 3: He asking her to leave the partnership. He jataoed haq and said he is worried for her - She agreed to his condition.

Eg 4: Post manipulation - He went helpless on her questions and didn’t prioritize her.


Eg 5: Gave up empire - Rather than pacifying her, he left her alone like stranger

whereas Anu asserts her haq and prioritize or pacifies her which she did during Xmas, New year and even now.

I don’t think Anuj is here to be blamed but yes partly. As she was always pampered child as she expects it even now. Also post all those incidents, they both need healing which never happened.

Yes you get it. She know her bhai loves her alot but haq give you belongingness which she is deprived off. It can have reasons-

1. the feeling of orphan, being adopted is so much integrated in Anuj that he took everything as responsibility and more than love he has feeling of gratitude that they give him a family.

2. The loss of their parents and unknowingly he became the core, guilt that he was always orphan if they did not accept him but he make their biological child orphan.

3. Mukku blocked herself in grief, she did not let grief out which make him more guilty.

4. In case of Akshay, unknowingly he took wrong decision according to him coz he loves mukku too along with her money but apparently for thinking about mukku's bright future that she could not betrayed in future, things go wrong again.

5. Next decision he made her marry for good life but partner was devil, guilt.

So many guilt. This time he is tired or rather I would say afraid or finding himself non capable of taking decision, he left everything.

Mukku here is very impulsive, irrational but very very emotional and inside broken. She was and is in desperate need of family which belongs to us where she has rights and most important the people she love has right in her. She wants haq. She never opened with her bhai, neither bhai dared. There is lack of whole lot of communication. You are right Arya both needed healing but sadly no one insist and no one was there to guide them.

She starts to mellow down a bit when Anu entered in her life. She rightfully put her rights on her, doing everything with right. She guides her, she corrects her, she understands her and she even get angry on her.

These 2 needs proper closure from their past baggage.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Yes you get it. She know her bhai loves her alot but haq give you belongingness which she is deprived off. It can have reasons-

1. the feeling of orphan, being adopted is so much integrated in Anuj that he took everything as responsibility and more than love he has feeling of gratitude that they give him a family.

2. The loss of their parents and unknowingly he became the core, guilt that he was always orphan if they did not accept him but he make their biological child orphan.

3. Mukku blocked herself in grief, she did not let grief out which make him more guilty.

4. In case of Akshay, unknowingly he took wrong decision according to him coz he loves mukku too along with her money but apparently for thinking about mukku's bright future that she could not betrayed in future, things go wrong again.

5. Next decision he made her marry for good life but partner was devil, guilt.

So many guilt. This time he is tired or rather I would say afraid or finding himself non capable of taking decision, he left everything.

Mukku here is very impulsive, irrational but very very emotional and inside broken. She was and is in desperate need of family which belongs to us where she has rights and most important the people she love has right in her. She wants haq. She never opened with her bhai, neither bhai dared. There is lack of whole lot of communication. You are right Arya both needed healing but sadly no one insist and no one was there to guide them.

She starts to mellow down a bit when Anu entered in her life. She rightfully put her rights on her, doing everything with right. She guides her, she corrects her, she understands her and she even get angry on her.

These 2 needs proper closure from their past baggage.

Originally posted by: Kras1

and this track can give them and their guilt and insecurities a proper closure agar makers chahe to

Yes agar makers chahe to

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Aaj ka episode high in emotions I mean very high. I felt giddy throughout. The whole gazal sequence with minut details have my heart. I really dont want to talk about the plot it is the same. Sorry if I offend but Anuj really does not have any plan. This guy in guilt now literally give up everything even knowing this is wrong. Ok one thing Gaurav was great during this portrayal but again writing sorry very sorry. Its about anupama, she is in centre role to do everything now. I like her firmness here, you are stand up against your loved one to fight for your loved one. The firmness in her eyes directly piercing mukku's eyes has fire. She did not budge a little of vanraj.

Again am saying whole kite flying screenplay is going its war between vanraj and anupama, how kavya become hurdle for vanraj I want to know, till now there is words of action.

I am not tagging anyone bec i feel pathetic as an audience Ayushi. I wish we had a down symbol to use so that i can show what a stupid plot this is. If birlas and tatas do business or take decisions like this in emotions, tab tho hogaya empire ka kachada. Family is imp yes, but if you remove that security for family then its like you are drowning the family and thats what ANuj has done. In emotions he literally has destroyed everything. He has no plans, i agree. As Anu needs to fight and shine, Anuj is down the drain.

I dont feel anything for the actors (i cant praise) if the characters are shown in such a way. So instead of seeing the emotional brother i saw a failed business man today. I know many will not agree, but for me this plot makes no sense at all. The writers have lost their creative cells.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Yes you get it. She know her bhai loves her alot but haq give you belongingness which she is deprived off. It can have reasons-

1. the feeling of orphan, being adopted is so much integrated in Anuj that he took everything as responsibility and more than love he has feeling of gratitude that they give him a family.

2. The loss of their parents and unknowingly he became the core, guilt that he was always orphan if they did not accept him but he make their biological child orphan.

3. Mukku blocked herself in grief, she did not let grief out which make him more guilty.

4. In case of Akshay, unknowingly he took wrong decision according to him coz he loves mukku too along with her money but apparently for thinking about mukku's bright future that she could not betrayed in future, things go wrong again.

5. Next decision he made her marry for good life but partner was devil, guilt.

So many guilt. This time he is tired or rather I would say afraid or finding himself non capable of taking decision, he left everything.

Mukku here is very impulsive, irrational but very very emotional and inside broken. She was and is in desperate need of family which belongs to us where she has rights and most important the people she love has right in her. She wants haq. She never opened with her bhai, neither bhai dared. There is lack of whole lot of communication. You are right Arya both needed healing but sadly no one insist and no one was there to guide them.

She starts to mellow down a bit when Anu entered in her life. She rightfully put her rights on her, doing everything with right. She guides her, she corrects her, she understands her and she even get angry on her.

These 2 needs proper closure from their past baggage.

Good way to look at things if we have to rationalize or justify this plot!! This is one thing we audience never fail to do and I marvel at it!!! We always find reasons to see why a plot is the way it is... it might be impractical, not as per that person's core character, but nevertheless we find reasons on why a person has acted in an xx manner....dont take me wrong, i am not blaming or pinpointing anything....i am just marveling at our minds. Enjoy guys!!!

I for one will stay behind the curtains till this wraps up.🤗

Originally posted by: RainFire125

I am not tagging anyone bec i feel pathetic as an audience Ayushi. I wish we had a down symbol to use so that i can show what a stupid plot this is. If birlas and tatas do business or take decisions like this in emotions, tab tho hogaya empire ka kachada. Family is imp yes, but if you remove that security for family then its like you are drowning the family and thats what ANuj has done. In emotions he literally has destroyed everything. He has no plans, i agree. As Anu needs to fight and shine, Anuj is down the drain.

I dont feel anything for the actors (i cant praise) if the characters are shown in such a way. So instead of seeing the emotional brother i saw a failed business man today. I know many will not agree, but for me this plot makes no sense at all. The writers have lost their creative cells.

I totally agree and I guess I mention somewhere also, just to show all in anu vanraj faceoff they make fun of a business man. These decisions are very practical, cannot be taken in emotions. Family is at home not like this. I said na for writer am feeling very sorry, for character wise too. I talked about the actor to play emotion. They royalry murdered the character. The thing is we were actually afraid of this and they passed with flying colors by giving this only. Anuj kapadia was a beautiful written character in Anupama and they killed it. If we come in terms of talking logic there are alot to understand but not in a single mood of it.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Good way to look at things if we have to rationalize or justify this plot!! This is one thing we audience never fail to do and I marvel at it!!! We always find reasons to see why a plot is the way it is... it might be impractical, not as per that person's core character, but nevertheless we find reasons on why a person has acted in an xx manner....dont take me wrong, i am not blaming or pinpointing anything....i am just marveling at our minds. Enjoy guys!!!

I for one will stay behind the curtains till this wraps up.🤗

No, this will not justify this plot yaar. Its the gap created between them due to circumstances but this does not mean this plot is right. With this it is more worst. I just took one epi at a time. Still not having a rational mind. It just end asap. The environment in show is too complicated and supper messy.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

No, this will not justify this plot yaar. Its the gap created between them due to circumstances but this does not mean this plot is right. With this it is more worst. I just took one epi at a time. Still not having a rational mind. It just end asap. The environment in show is too complicated and supper messy.

Its downright impractical Ayushi. Anu and V face off still could have happened very easily without ANuj making this decision to give every damn thing away. I agree to that haqq aspect between the siblings, i also agree that both have not healed and have dealt with things in a very wrong manner. A third person's intervention would have helped, but they did not show that properly too. Anu could have handled both Mukku and ANuj separate and together to make them feel where they are wrong. But no, they went into a super messy, negative, impractical plots to come to this point. Anu suddenly has grown smart brain cells????? Anuj is not that businessman at all which they showed in the beginning??? Giving away everything will solve this mess - is this what Anuj thinks?????

Only V is consistent i will say - he is evil and continues to be evil. So should i say that the writers are only concentrating on V's character??? Rest all are or will remain tipsy turvy????? They will behave like a drunkard - one day good and the other day illogical but rather we are shown as emotional???? See what happened to Kavya. she had a spine few days before and today that spine is broken!! She is back to whining....

These writers dont know how to maintain their graph or maybe they are deliberately not doing so.

Rant done and thank u for listening!!!🤗