How do you know NM is cool in real life? How do you know DP is relatable? All these are from interviews, social media posts etc, right? Let's treat them as individuals who became actors. Since it is show business, their lives are in the limelight, else no one will even care about them. All human beings are good yaar with little shades of grey. No one is perfect, this is because like Aamir Khan character says in DCH "Perfection ko kabhi improve nahi kar sakte"
While growing up, I was a great fan of SRK thinking that he is the best human in the world. This was because of his movies and the aura that he had created over a period of time. With time, I realized he is just a flawed character like all of us.
Frankly for your own sanity, it is best to stay away from fan fights or treat them as Gods