im so angry after that boardroom/sandwich scene i havent even seen the episodes after that. she really p*ssed me off doing that and making vanraj feel like he was "the man" anddddd doing that in front of anuj ?????? ughhhhh!!!!
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im so angry after that boardroom/sandwich scene i havent even seen the episodes after that. she really p*ssed me off doing that and making vanraj feel like he was "the man" anddddd doing that in front of anuj ?????? ughhhhh!!!!
yup exactly. i can understand concern for vanraj b/c he is her kids' father and if something happens to him, it happens to her kids.reluctantly i agree with what you said. Anupama does not seem to love anuj the way he loves her. sub consciously may be she would want vanraj to do good because he is the father of her kids and she would want her kids to do financially well. why not! i don’t understand why i invested so much time in a one sided love story
i will even give her some understanding towards getting in between v/kavya when they fight on every holiday, cuz they are ruining the vibe the whole fam has going on...again i can justify it saying that she doesnt want her kids' holiday ruined...
buttttt beyond that its just controlling and meddling. these people are grown adults! kavya and vanraj, samar/toshu...let them figure it out!!!! she needs to stop trying to mediate everything...
not every problem is yours to solve anupamaa!
hi there, how are you? 🌸Originally posted by: Fighter03
I don’t think she really loves Anuj. Based on the inconsistent way the writers have portrayed her recently and the extremely weird storyline there is no reason to believe she does.
If she did she would confess that love and realise that its what will give him the greatest joy of his life. She wouldnt withold it from him.
She would spill all the crap about Vanraj to him so that he can protect his sister much more efficiently.
The whole way in which she is behaving is IDIOTIC.
And yes, Kavya was right. There is something between her and Vanraj that only the both of them understand and which just doesnt break. It may not be love now but its a deep connection. She is still invested there. I don’t know why the writers have chosen to maintain this. I am clueless.
I started watching Anupama for Anupama. Because Rupali does such a stellar job. But come on writers, raise your standards!!!!
you nailed it!!
ok so this is where the real/reel gets kinda blurred...we know this isnt a finite series...we know that they cant have anu-anuj fall in love, get married and live happily every after over the course of a month. i get that. i really do, however...i wish they would do a better job of maintaining the integrity of each character sketch instead of just dumping these random storylines to stretch things out a bit further.
she would be giving him the greatest joy of his life true...but you writing that is now making me think...would that be the greatest joy of her ? at least of one of them? im doubtful. 🤔
im wondering if she isnt telling anuj cuz she doesnt want a bloodbath with him and vanraj ?
yup kavya is bang on...there is something there between them that will never dissipate...i am gonna chalk it up to being family for 26 years. i think the maker maintain this cuz they are gonna end up together in the end.
what i find troubling about anuj is that he held onto a woman for 26 years who would pass him straight on the street. ...i hate to admit this cuz i want to support the whole soulmate/twin flame stuff, but i feel like even his love is a lot of projection from him onto her...she didnt even know him. i get that he admired her from afar but its a little bit much that he held onto her for soooo long when they didnt even know each other. a lot of his love for her is in his head im afraid.
Hi, thanks, I am great. All well with you?
I agree, I do find the whole pixie boy image (perfect guy) Anuj they brought for Anu a bit unrealistic.
I like the character of Anuj, but what has Anu done to build on herself. She always has to be pushed to stand up for herself.🤪
Its great the actors are good, otherwise it would be difficult to watch this show. 😆
Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0
priyanka, see above...very good points especially regarding the disrespect... 💯 maybe one day you will be able to change ur profile pic into one where she is not suffering. 😆 but until then, leave it as a reminder. 🤣
Hahah..
U know what three types of people are there..1- aa bail mujhe maar
2- jise bail ne galti se maar diya
3- aa bail aa sirf or sirf mujhe hi maar🤣
So anupama is 3rd category person dude..😆
Parents to aadhi se jyada duniya ke poor hain..par kya sab itne begairat hote hain jaisi ye orat hai?
Kisi kisi ko bechara bankar jeena hi pasand aata hai..or ye anupama wahi bechari hai..🤢
Meri dp I don't think kabhi bhi change hone wali hai..ye roti rahegi or mai iski aisi dp's lagati rahungi..🤣
Yahi dekhkar to thoda accha lagta hai aajkal..Verna serial me bacha kya hai..ex biwi or ex pati ki bich ki khusar pusar..not interested haan🤢
Hi there,
Thanks. I am fine and my weekend is going smooth. Bad weather blowing and drifting snow wind chills around -5 to -10.
I do not believe in free will. It asserts that a person is able to choose his or her own courses of action without restriction.
I believe in trust, respect, sincerity. Anupamaa will see Anuj sad and definitely Anuj keeping distance from her. She will realize and amend the hurt, she gave Anuj. She should apologize to Anuj.
kalpana19!
Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0
what i find troubling about anuj is that he held onto a woman for 26 years who would pass him straight on the street. ...i hate to admit this cuz i want to support the whole soulmate/twin flame stuff, but i feel like even his love is a lot of projection from him onto her...she didnt even know him. i get that he admired her from afar but its a little bit much that he held onto her for soooo long when they didnt even know each other. a lot of his love for her is in his head im afraid.
I agree. There is this story, which actually showed them falling in love after meeting again in 26 years. If you like reading or have not read it. You may find it more worth than the shows depection of the love story.
ooo sounds like you are living somewhere cold like me. im on canada and it's -15 rn. brrrr. 🥶Originally posted by: kalpana19
Hi there,
Thanks. I am fine and my weekend is going smooth. Bad weather blowing and drifting snow wind chills around -5 to -10.
I do not believe in free will. It asserts that a person is able to choose his or her own courses of action without restriction.
I believe in trust, respect, sincerity. Anupamaa will see Anuj sad and definitely Anuj keeping distance from her. She will realize and amend the hurt, she gave Anuj. She should apologize to Anuj.
kalpana19!
okay, but do you think that there are actions that she can take that will separate her from anuj despite them being soul mates ?
i definitely think he was meant to come back (or into) her life and i guess now is just their time...i often wonder tho what wouldve happened if anuj got there before vanraj...if she wouldve accepted him? my guess is no based on how conservative she is. and then if she said no, would anuj have moved on ?
the consensus seems to be the same across the forum...the show sucks right now. 😭Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain
Hahah..
U know what three types of people are there..1- aa bail mujhe maar
2- jise bail ne galti se maar diya
3- aa bail aa sirf or sirf mujhe hi maar🤣
So anupama is 3rd category person dude..😆
Parents to aadhi se jyada duniya ke poor hain..par kya sab itne begairat hote hain jaisi ye orat hai?
Kisi kisi ko bechara bankar jeena hi pasand aata hai..or ye anupama wahi bechari hai..🤢
Meri dp I don't think kabhi bhi change hone wali hai..ye roti rahegi or mai iski aisi dp's lagati rahungi..🤣
Yahi dekhkar to thoda accha lagta hai aajkal..Verna serial me bacha kya hai..ex biwi or ex pati ki bich ki khusar pusar..not interested haan🤢
i wonder how the rest of the fandom feels ?
you're the best! 🥰
I agree. There is this story, which actually showed them falling in love after meeting again in 26 years. If you like reading or have not read it. You may find it more worth than the shows depection of the love story.
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