Does Anupamaa even love Anuj? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Km181

Someone help me, who on IF is in team Anupama... Twitter has blind followers and TRP aunties...but here on IF, do we have anyone?

not after seeing her give him those sandwiches and decide it was her place to give Kavya a "second chance"...i used to think that she was someone to emulate for her kindness and humanity, but now im starting to see her as controlling and meddling.

😆@ trp aunties

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

I believe a person has to love and respect himself or herself before anyone else to really understand the meaning of love..😊

But here, this lady anupama, she has no self respect, no self love, thn how do think she will be able to understand the level of anuj who is loving her from past 26 years without any expectations.. true, and im sorry but i blame her parents for raising her this way, although within the community of people she lives in, b/c she is poor her worth comes from being able to offer herself up as a domestic slave.

Ye lady jiski poori life badtameejo ke bich nikal gayi sar jhuka kar..jise izzat, pyaar, beizzati kuch bhi feel nahi hui 26 years tak use anuj ka pyaar kaise feel hoga..🤢 she has to completely process what happened to her in that marriage and really understand the trauma from it before she can accept anuj's love.

Or aaj bhi jise apni insult feel nahi hoti..jo aaj bhi apne puraane pati ko protect karti ghoom rahi hai or us friend cum lover se usi ke family se related major issues chupa rahi hai its like she is numb to the abuse

I don't think she loves anuj..par serial me dikhaane ko kuch bhi dikha den..😵

priyanka, see above...very good points especially regarding the disrespect... 💯 maybe one day you will be able to change ur profile pic into one where she is not suffering. 😆 but until then, leave it as a reminder. 🤣

Originally posted by: mansimanik

She doesn't love Anuj. She is treating Anuj like an enemy by hiding Vanraj's intentions.

😱wowwwwwwwwwwwww the ACCURACY. wowowowowowowow. i love how you just summed that up Mansi...she claims he is family, but why isnt she confiding in him? again, this is her trying to protect vanraj...sorry not sorry!!! 🤢

Originally posted by: Amy211307

I don't think she loves him truly. She probably admires him, but not love.because love needs open communication and you can't hide things from one another.love is a pairing of equals, both find solution to problems together : whereas here Mahan Anu is the one who does everything

romantic love was never on her radar. imagine if Anuj had got there before vanraj? she wouldve never accepted him just cause he was in love with her cuz romantic love is immoral according to her i guess...

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Is it obligation of anupama to love anuj? And btw anupama ne na to anuj se yeh kaha ki anuj se pyaar karti hai aur na usne anuj se shaadi ki hai to anupama ke liye obligation nahin hai woh anuj se love kare

Vanraj ke liye yahi kaha jaata tha vanraj ke liye obligation nahin tha anuanu se love kare but atleast yeh expect tha at least vanraj anupama ke saath basic humanity bhi rakhta agar love nahin kar sakta

no, it isnt....but she IS leading him on. throwing breadcrumbs of affection here and there to keep him panting like a dog while 95% of her focus is Vanraj/Kavya/Mukku/Samar blah blah blah. thoughts?

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Sahi baat hai..zaruri nahi hai wo paagal hai iske peeche 26 saal se to ye bhi ho jaaye..or waise bhi isne 26 years ek married life jee li hai..is age me easy nahi hai pyaar karna..

Bas lecture bhot deti haina..sacchai ke..iske uske..to atleast apne friend se to dhokha na kare..atleast apne puraane ghatiya pati ki kartoote apne friend se na chupaaye..itna to expect kar sakte haina madam se?

especially when you have been ripped limb from limb by a man who you had blind trust in.

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

Okay, I'll click this bait, in ha ha ha, bring it on 🤣

She's dumb, but she's Anupama, #foodwaalidevi, wait that's annapoorna. Still, she's Anupama!

I def hate the show now, but I can't sit on a fence, I'll go team anupama 🤪. I mean, if Kavya got 300 chances, Anu can get 5.

Waise this whole thing started with our man transferring the property in some weird emotional guilt trip. Until then V had no creep sights about M.

TLDR: Team Anupama!

kavya doesnt deserve any chances but i wont go there for now. Anupamaa is her own worst enemy. all those lectures that she gives all day long...i wonder if they are based on life experiences or just parroting whatever her parents taught her ?

Originally posted by: hinz

Ali- this question I’ve been asking myself since that ghatiya aadmi nahi hai scene...

its like Anu feels obliged to love Anuj back and thanks to V ka pep talk she now has forced that pyar wali feeling on herself , there hasnt been any realisation actually...she’s just loving the attention from Anuj and has mistaken it for love from her side...

she is still deeply invested in Vanraj and his well being under the garb of him being the father of her children and she just cant see beyond the Shahs.

honestly, i was giving Anu the benefit of the doubt for such a long time (and even Vanraj at times tbh), but after seeing that scene in the boardroom, i lost it.

i feel like Anuj is just an option for her, a luxury but not a need ...best case scenario is that he becomes her life companion (like Oprah and Stedman 😆) i dont think she will ever be able to love him back the way he loves her and i dont think vanraj could ever love her the way she loves him...it's a lose lose for everyone sadly.

Originally posted by: kalpana19

Hello,

Yes Anupama feels Anuj is the center of her universe.

Anupama has the divine spark, physical attraction, and soul announcement that does move Anuj, the fact that she is on the same page with so many things does punctuate her were made for each other.

Anuj is quicker to recognize the divine connection with soulmate Anupama than Anupama being quicker she is right for Anuj. He had to admit that perhaps they were more divinely connected than he had thought.

kalpana19!

Hi Kalpana, how are you and how is your weekend going ? 😊

i want to believe every word you have written so badly...especially after that "ek duje ke vaaste" mandir scene with the wind blowing... brought me to tears...do you believe in free will or do you think that what is for you will always be for you? do you think that no matter how much anupamaa screws this up, ultimately she will end up with Anuj ?

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Not in a real love way

Anuj gave her partnership job respect in society and her family

So shes more obligated or gratitude than real love like anuj does anupama

Any relationship where money job partnership property comes does not have true love actually

Anuj helped her get respect get a job gave a home etc so shes more obligated to show love

Its not real love from heart

Its love with benefits

Pure love is when i love and do not expect my lover to give job to my children or dance opportunities or give business to my ex hubby etc without any benefits

If i have self respect i will only say do not give any help job or business to ex hubby or my kids

Thats true love not this one

Because once family get involved bias starts and family issues spill into office

You tell me will vanraj get business partnmership if not anupamas hubby from anuj

Will toshu get job in vanika without vanraj or anupama as parents

Will anupama get partnership

Answer is no interview is called and more qualified who have proved before in life will get

The application rejection rates in big It cos and IIMB/IIT is more than harvard and oxford

Its very tough to get job at infosys or sert in IIMB 100 in a million get selected there lots of criteria and entrance eaxms etc there

Not to say that kapadia and sons is infosys or IIMB but those smaller cos also have very high rejection rates

hi prem, hope your weekend is going nice and relaxful...

i know you have made the point about getting a job re qualifications etc before in some of your other topics...i guess my question to you is what makes someone fall in love with someone else? is it not words and actions ? anuj is at a level of success where one "unqualified" anupamaa is not gonna make or break him...so he indulges her and indulges himself. he gets to spend 9-5 in the office with her and then 5-10 at home...he is living the life he always dreamt of...i just hope that if work isnt there and the shahs arent there and mukku isnt there, she still has a reason to have him in her life... what are your thoughts ?