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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Antara123

Idk if she's doing the right thing for herself honestly. - forget about teaching other people lessons (I don't know where I stand on the V-D equation), but - why is she putting herself through so much pain, anguish, rejection? Just to teach Vikrant a lesson? What lesson? You can teach lessons to people who can accept they wrong. Vikrant is so self-obsessed (admittedly so), he won't get it. Why should she tolerate this crap?

I think this is her way of not letting go so easily...cuz most people feel at this stage if they give what their partner wants so easily then they look like a fool. Which is kinda true, she feels used so she is like you used me for so many years, I am not going to give you want you want so easily.

Its either this or she is super mahaan...i am pretty sure in the end Vikrant is going to be left with neither.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanjanas

I think this is her way of not letting go so easily...cuz most people feel at this stage if they give what their partner wants so easily then they look like a fool. Which is kinda true, she feels used so she is like you used me for so many years, I am not going to give you want you want so easily.

Its either this or she is super mahaan...i am pretty sure in the end Vikrant is going to be left with neither.

Maybe. But, personally, I feel it's better to walk away and fix your pain than cause more pain to others. Coz that doesn't help you either ways. Somehow, shows end up showing married women who CAN'T let go off their marriages.

It's this extra idealism that hurts the whole society. But let's see where she goes with it. I like Aditi so far. She's cool.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: kuttapu

What could have been a great show is ruined by these writers. If Aditi is already aware of V’s addiction ( she didn’t react much to his relapse admission), then why did v’s sister hide it from her? What stopped her? Why didn’t it bother Deepika that Aditi knew abt his addiction?

What exactly abt today’s couple helped D to make a decision. To be honest all I could see was a graceful first wife acting like a greater person. The man in the story said something like I loved you earnestly till I was with you or something like that. How does it match with Dipika’s situation? Maybe I am missing something.

This is something even I didn't understand. Not every triangle can be compared to V-D-A. After sketching the initial episodes so maturely, do the makers really think we are so dumb to draw such simplistic parallels?

Also what do we know about this trio- do we know their history, what his equations were with both the women. The only thing i understood was the guy is exactly like Vikrant - selfish....when he is in his death bed, he remembered his first wife he ditched.

But sorry coming to your question, i feel what Deepika drew from that convo was that the first wife eventually moved on and she didn't love him anymore....hence its not really a sin when two people who love each other get together as the person whose life they are ruining eventually moves on ( i feel sick in my stomach while typing this but this is honestly what I feel her brain deduced).

Separate topic - Can we have an episode where we also learn a lesson on karma. Maybe then Deepika can get a different perspective because clearly she only learns life lessons through her patients and draws simplistic conclusions. Why not have another trio couple where the guy leaves the second one for a third one maybe and the second wife loses her career in the process, just saying 😡

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Posted: 3 years ago

I completely agree with you...that's ideally what should happen and is best for our mental health. But this is common, most people do all the wrong things before eventually giving up. Its not right but its the norm. Plus social conditioning is such right where the women is blamed for not being able to "keep" the man. I can so see people like V's sis charging on her saying mere bhai ke mann ko nahi badal paye in so many years.


What I like about Aditi is she is aware (unlike a certain someone😡). She knows her husband is wrong and isn't worth it but she is also a person who can't yet go against society's staple accusations. She is sadly conditioned to endure and exhaust all options before finally giving up!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Btw I am really liking the Sia-Wasim equation - Never thought it will be the most mature one on the show, that too soo soon! I really like how Wasim and Sia are handling their different worlds - finally a relationship with what i value the most - RESPECT!


Contrary popular opinion - This Esha chic is insufferable...my cutie Piroz deserves a better one....pleasee people!

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Posted: 3 years ago

I'm seeing people criticising Aditi for not just accepting divorce and leaving like a kicked dog, tail between its legs. Deepika kuch kare toh woh "flawed human" par Aditi ko mahaan ban ne chahiye nahin toh she's a bad person? 🤪 Heck no, I want Aditi to torture these two fools until dono chullu bhar paani mein doob mare.


I do want Aditi to leave Vikrant eventually because he's not deserving of either, but pehle pura barbaad kare usko. 😈

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: DEBOLINA96


@red..That irked me so much! How dare she behave like that with Abhay? I mean what was that language.."just because Vikrant is not here nd busy with his wife, don't think it's ur chance now"..Such a cheap thought! 😲 He went there with food as a caring friend..normally..Actually why the hell is Abhay so nice? That too with a cheap woman like Deepika? Uffff...🤬


*Vikrant brings food*

Deepika: Aw, he's showing concern for me.


*Abhay brings food*

Deepika: How dare you try to hit on me!


Iss aurat ke dimaag mein do chaar screw loose hai.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

I'm seeing people criticising Aditi for not just accepting divorce and leaving like a kicked dog, tail between its legs. Deepika kuch kare toh woh "flawed human" par Aditi ko mahaan ban ne chahiye nahin toh she's a bad person? 🤪 Heck no, I want Aditi to torture these two fools until dono chullu bhar paani mein doob mare.


I do want Aditi to leave Vikrant eventually because he's not deserving of either, but pehle pura barbaad kare usko. 😈


No no that's not what I meant. While its nice as viewers to watch what Aditi is doing, usually such acts are harmful for one's mental health. And fighting a narcissist usually causes one pain, as the narcissist won't feel any!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka


*Vikrant brings food*

Deepika: Aw, he's showing concern for me.


*Abhay brings food*

Deepika: How dare you try to hit on me!


Iss aurat ke dimaag mein do chaar screw loose hai.


Its called superiority complex. Isko regular izzat hazam nahi hoti. She reminds me of those people who tell you to your face...listen I wish you move on...its not you its me but then at every occasion make you realize you had fallen for them 😡

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