Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
and this then gets funny in the sense ke yehi imlie thi who once did say ke sirf in person saath hona saath hona nahi hota.. soemthign along the lines i forgot the exact lines i think it was in kidnap track.. imean that part she is still saying but bat wohi hai she has no grounding to say that since sirf chod ke nahi gayi thi.. tab tak adi was alright too it is her exceptional talent of disowning that she showed that cemented that thought in adi's mind and he is saying ke haan malini ne theek kaha durr toh hum ho gaye thay.. with ehr constant not sharing anythign not even talking to him for hi hello too.. again adi never had the problem with ehr living in hostel on break.. he toh khud se said space lelo hum denge space.. but it was her consatnt tum kuch nahi that pushed him far on the edge made him to believe ke sach amin kuch nahi bacha hai..
and Yes malini was right on that partt not that malini actually understands his pain but bolne ko toh upper hand hai ke main toh yahan hi rahi hamesha tum bhaag gayi woh bhi kis basis pe bas ek sawaal pooch lia.. again imlie ki khud ki extrapolations keep doing damage to her along with malini ki bakwaas she is self harming tioo but she doesn't realize liek sawaal pooch lia ko kar lia khooni maan lia,,, shok sabha ko samjh lika charitraharan and gandi gandi baatein boldi that i was not in bed.. well if you were not in bed good for you but that still doesn't make that visual right you were wearing kisi aur ke kapde and had no responsibilty to even clarify and was Acting almighty for adi.. ke woh jiye ya mare.. and then this new one his keh dena ke asr ko chod do means he wants you to stay at hom and ab malini ke saath raho. again it still didn't hit her..
This is the exact point. While Malini orchestrated the entire situation, but Adi and Imlie both fell for it and allowed the divorce to happen by signing it due to their own egos was the death of their relationship. Imlie calling Adi an idiot makes sense - he still doesn't want to see how Malini's manipulations led Imlie to believe that Adi prioritizes Malini over her. But then on the same vein, Imlie is allowing ASR's support to prioritize working with him over being with Adi. Then doesn't that make her as big of an idiot that she calls Adi?
I still feel that even if Adi finds out all of Malini's depraved acts, his stance would not have been much different - at max he may have asked her to leave the house, but that he anyway did when he did not know what she had done and why. That would still not have completely eliminated Malini from both their lives, because she is as intertwined in Imlie's life that she is in Adi's life. Malini's obsession more than Adi is winning over Imlie, and as long as Imlie has that insecurity about Malini's relationship with Adi, Malini will continue to manipulate situations to suit her purpose and become mahaan to prove she is better than Imlie.
Adi's contention even today is that Imlie chose to leave him, usne usse paraya kar diya by not allowing her to be involved in her life and she prioritized ASR over him. He asked her to choose between him and Aryan, not between her life as a wife and her career. Why does Imlie want to forget that she is a student, and that her actual career van be kickstarted even after she is done with her degree. Also, Adi has always been her champion, be it for her studies or her career. Then her getting upset that Adi is asking her to choose between the 2 men in her life means he is asking to choose him over her career seems stupid to me. It never was that and it never will be. Kal ka aaya banda has phasaoed her to the extent that she assumes he is her champion, because he helps to feed her assumption that all her decisions upto this point with respect to Adi were right. Just like how Malini's manipulations help to feed to Adi's assumption that she has been with him all this time, while Imlie abandoned him when he needed her the most. Adilie are both being manipulated, but dono ko bas ek dusre se matlab hai, ek dusre se expectation hai aur ek dusre se gussa hai. That is a constant that will remain, no matter what ships people would like to build.
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