Right? It's heartbreaking to have someone you love(d) use your weaknesses against you and taunt you with them. It is one of the worst kinds of betrayal.Originally posted by: Bluegrass
I think Aditya was responsible for today's shitshow. Like Charishma said, she was triggered by his willful triggering. He's the one jo tharki jijaon ki tarah brought up "Ab Aryan se itna pyaar yada yada".
I think she very well realised today ki Aditya ko ghanta farak nahi padta. Woh mazze me Biriyani kha raha tha whilst his wife was taunting her to eat more chillies.
When you love someone you trust them not to hurt you. And when they inevitably hurt you (because people hurt one another unknowingly and stupidly all the time) you trust that you two can come together and move beyond it.
Here Aditya repeatedly violates the trust. He uses all the things he's learned about her to hurt and annihilate her.
Imlie said to Aditya: "I don't want to love Aryan anymore than I want to hate you". This tells us who she is. Just because it's over and he's caused and continues to cause her pain doesn't mean she wants to violate that trust. She would always much rather hurt herself. This is class. And for me, it's a lesson in self-respect too. No matter what he does to her, she will never forget herself.
Overall, yes she should stop falling for these ridiculous traps, and she will with time. But until then, I don't mind her emotions because they are honest and true to herself.