Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #143 - Page 113

Happy New Year all! 🥳

I loved today's episode. Both Rishita and Raavi were amazing, and to the point. Shiva tried to explain to Raavi his reasons, but she still doesn't like that they excluded her, and rightfully so. She was really worried about Dev-Rishita, and even got kidnapped in trying to bring them back home. They should have told her, at least after the kidnapping they should have. And Rishita is absolutely right in her place - I think we may see more of her outburst on Monday.

Glad Raavi called out Dhara for interfering, and for making her and Rishita feel like outsiders. And Dhara's comeback is - I didn't even tell Gaumbi 😕

Anyway, Shivi's first proper fight and they fought fairly. That's what is needed. Hopefully, the brothers can learn to prioritise their partners.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Shiva- Raavi scene

Raavi says, “ mein bhi Dhara di le liye hamesha kadi rahi hoon”

Shiva says, “ woh toh kursi leke bait jaathi hai, nahi? Bachpan se ask tak na Dhar Bhabi tereliye hamesha kadi rahi hai, bhool mat”

Raavi says “ hasn toh mein koi beek nahi masng rahi hoon unki, iss ghar ke safasya mein bhi hoon, sab kuch jaan ne ka, mujhe bhi barabari ka haq hai par lekin tum logon ne na mujhe dhoka diya”

Shiva says, “ abbey kya dhoka dhoka kar rahi hai, tu toh aisi bast kar rahi hai mein kissi aur ke saat setying karke taam jaam karke baita thaa, tune aske range haath pakad kiya, arrey baad mein gaye yeh sab aur basd mein gaye yeh” and throws the heart shaped bouquet of red roses away.😕

Raavi is looking at the flowers and then at him.

@bold Agreed that this dialogue right here just didn't make sense, that he so completely misinterpreted what she was saying, but, Darling Shiva, you've come uncomfortably close to exactly what you just described, and so this was not the smartest move on your part...

If Raavi was a real, living, breathing woman, her mind would've immediately gone to Disha. Because I still remember what her exact words were when she stopped his engagement. She didn't mind the engagement happening, she just didn't want it to happen when he was still married to her, no matter how painful that situation was for her.

PS Hopefully contracts are rewritten in the new year, ss issues are solved and more continuous writing is seen...

PPS I'm probably hoping for too much.

And Raavi had right to feel extra bad.

she had a horrible NDE,

Dhara not only ignored her beyond basic concern- she didn’t even ask her again how are you feeling now.

khud ke kaand: she’ll announce from mic to Suman, will collect all brownie points.
Her problems, accidents , mishaps will be taken care of by family with 100 times more care & concern.

but when it comes to Raavi:

Raat gayi baat gayi!

Self centered & manipulative Control she has over her pati & devars!
Raavi was correct.

Originally posted by: manny136

raavi even stood up for rishita lol also did rishita still want the land in her name idea lol i get her anger on the lies and humiliating her parents part but the land thing makes her look selfish lol

Yes ..her still sticking on to the janus demand of land shows the stupidity and ego from her side.. proves how it will be shown these two devranis will realise their mistake and dhara was right all along..🤪..but ravis side is still reasonable..and her anger is valid..they r trying to gaslight us into thinking that they are indeed egoistic. 🤪

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Rishita is also right

When they didn't sign the papers to transfer the land it did imply they don't trust Rishita

Vo zameen leke bhaag thodi jaati

With raavi and Rishita in this

Exactly. And zameen toh Dev-Rishita dono ke naam pe hota. Dev pe toh bharosa hai na

Both Raavi and Rishita had one common dialogue

BhabiMa aur teen devars, 😆

they did not even include Gaumbi in the list, he came into the picture later when Raavi said to include him as well in the party as an after thought😆

Both did not even take Suman’s name 😆

And a Very Happy New Year to each and everyone of you.. 🥳

May this year brings good health, prosperity and lots of happiness in all of our lives..

It's an effort u have to make to live in a joint family

To make the outsiders ( DIL) feel included

Dhara had it easy when it comes to adjusting , other things were difficult sure but she took over the reins of the house she didn't had to be included

Dev never did it , Rishita like a doormat went on adjusting , if dev had so much pyaar with his family and wanted to give saath for 10000000 years then why did he marry Rishita tab deta saath family ka and should have married raavi

And Shiva till date raavi never came in between Shiva and dhara because one thing they had in common was the love for dhara and Pandya family for the first time raavi has stood up for herself in the family

Now this is a major rift between them , I don't how uts going to go from here but it should end by everyone acknowledging their mistakes and apologize to Rishita and raavi

Originally posted by: spdp

Will take this ‘talk’ between ShiVi as ‘conversation’ and not a ‘fight’.

Conversation, angry one, loving one, confused one, reasonable & unreasonable… all together a good & kind of perfect one like how it happens between husband & wife!

Shiva, was high on pyaar ke ehsaas & missed paying attention to Raavi’s hurt after their return. He got busy planning, but missed tending to his chhipkali’s tender Dil- which was upset.

Raavi, was high on hurt- rightfully so! over & over again this family has treated Raavi & Rishita in a wrong manner! And noone has ever cared to pay attention to their hurt feelings.

Good they both are standing up now against the ringmaster BhabhitheMaa!

There was Absolutely no need for Dhara to bring her mighty self in the terrace. Shiva told her he will manage.
Infact, Shiva & Raavi were going all ok until she jumped in.

That kind of put mental pressure on Shiva- his Bhakti triggered And he’ll blast off: more because Raavi is questioning bhabhi ki planning.

Had bhabhi not barged in- ShiVi we’re perfectly fight talking each other’s hurts, reasons.
Raavi would have thrown a few roses & Shiva would have hold her hand and pacified her- like he did last few times!
after all hurt ansoo or gussey ke ansoo - wipe karne ka haq sirf Shiva ka hai na!

Anyways: want this upfront clear questions by Raavi & Rishita to continue!

Bhabhi will go ‘me bichari, my sacrifice, me mahaan- bachchey better listen to meself’ mode!
her now officially spineless Pati will stay Nimboopani mute!
(I honestly thought he will call Dhara out- he didn’t)

Also felt for Rishita, dev is beyond spineless. And her point of bringing her fathers last to blackmail was 100 % valid.

This is the phase of Growth spur!

When shiva & dev grow up, to understand priorities.

Hope this is written well & not another tracky to make Dhara look bechari. Because no matter what they do: Dhara is beyond the point of getting any sympathy!

2022 be better!

Well said!

If the makes want people to connect with Dhara, she should just grow up a little and leave the couples to themselves. She has her own husband/future kid to worry about - just concentrate on fixing that.

Originally posted by: Pottermeow

@bold Agreed that this dialogue right here just didn't make sense, that he so completely misinterpreted what she was saying, but, Darling Shiva, you've come uncomfortably close to exactly what you just described, and so this was not the smartest move on your part...

If Raavi was a real, living, breathing woman, her mind would've immediately gone to Disha. Because I still remember what her exact words were when she stopped his engagement. She didn't mind the engagement happening, she just didn't want it to happen when he was still married to her, no matter how painful that situation was for her.

PS Hopefully contracts are rewritten in the new year, ss issues are solved and more continuous writing is seen...

PPS I'm probably hoping for too much.

Shoot i was thinking the same thing when he describe dhoka i was going to say dude you were almost doing it but then nevermind what he was saying I will do some kamaal and all that stuff dude you just listen her without the anger part that will be the biggest kamaal you can do for her. For me he is mad not becoz she isa saying all that stuff and he is am because she didn't want to hear about his purpose part first 🤪 he is like you should listen to me 1st and all,but shiva ji how many times you have given her chance 1st to explain herself or other stuff and thatnow you are expecting to be heard 😒