"Sapna samajhte hain aap ?" - Deepika - Such a fresh character

life_is_fun thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#1

Don't know what twists and turns the show shall take... Who will end up with whom...Anyone can end up with anyone as per their wish..😆. The show is interesting for so many reasons.. Deepika is my favorite.. What I find really interesting is that Deepika is a female lead who has some hunger for success...She wants to become the emergency team head.. Her belief in herself despite opposition from her closest ones is very inspiring.....❤️ It's not that she is trying to find her feet only after being dejected from all ends... She had a dream, a vision for her life; of being a doctor and surgeon from the start.. For that she gives up her relationships and even her social life, but makes sure that she achieves what she had set her eye for ... She tried giving attention and affection to her relations, but also chose herself when it was time to.. What she demanded from Vikrant was an equal partnership in life. Unlike him she didn't want to burden Vikrant of all the familial responsibilities... All she asked was to share the life together - Professional commitments and personal relations.. However, she didn't get that.. Vikrant's love could not overcome the the conditional mindset of the society, that work has to be divided and not shared between the two genders and to cater to that the girl has to sacrifice... But Deepika chose not to...


" Sapna samjhte hain aap, Jo raat ko sone na de woh hota hai sapna " Perhaps even today Vikrant does not understand the gravity of this statement.. He was ready to give away the emergency head seat if ASKED for.. Makes me wonder.. We as a society have changed enough to educate our girls, LET them work.. But have we really evolved enough to trust their decisions, their capabilities.. See them as individuals before their gender ? Will Vikrant and people like him ever understand that there is no greatness in letting girls work or pursue their career. It's their basic human right. Yes at times women may feel grateful to their partners or their families for enjoying their freedom, but that's because they know it's not a norm for many other girls like them.... No one should be made to feel that letting them have their freedom is a huge favor and something can be asked in exchange for that .. That's barter system, not love..Its's hidden patriarchy. On the face, many may not see it.. But it still crushes dreams. It still does not let the woman rise to her full potential... Kudos to Deepika who saw it and tried to turn the table in her favor.. She took the decision to not succumb to the ignorance & manipulations of anyone - her family or her boyfriend.. The only thing I feel bad about is that it has made her lonely.. If only her family, her loved one was around her, by her side to see and cheer of what she has achieved, it would have multiplied her happiness. Anger would have not been her default setting. However, the good part is that she achieved what she wanted the most - her dream, her freedom, her voice.. ❤️


PS :- Really hope it remains a finite and fast paced as it is now.. I have no patience left for infinite series now nor can I digest plot changes because of TRPs...😆. Kisi show ko toh baksh den pleaseeeeee... 😆

Edited by life_is_fun - 3 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".