We need a track where Anu learns how to draw some bloody boundaries

It was bohot bohot bohot inappropriate of Anupamaa to permit Malvika to stay at Shah house. She was extremely out of line & forced herself into a situation that wasn't about her at all. The home isn't hers. The sister isn't hers. The crumbling marriage isn't hers. She needed to stay back.

Kavya was so right when she called Anupamaa out on it & I wish Anu would have had to give a reaction (instead of Vanraj jumping in to shut her up)

Anupamaa not drawing or respecting any boundaries has been a consistent thing since the beginning of the show. It took her so long to draw a boundary to protect herself from Baa+Vanraj's abuse or Toshu+Pakhi's insults. She still doesn't respect the boundaries that Samar has drawn with Vanraj (Keeps forcing the 'Vo ache pita hain' narrative despite all the emotional abuse). And now this..

Mental growth brought the audience in. We need more storylines about Anupamaa's mental & mental growth instead of the forced loan, hasty romance, unreasonable food business drama.

I haven't seen the recent two episodes so can't say, but I feel like they are really dragging the plots.

The party itself went on for 4 episodes...and the last week's episodes looked more like filler episodes (except the MaAn scenes because for them, I like things going slow😳) than actually story plots progression.

Anupama everywhere she goes:

Jub aapke saamne jub koi bache ki tarah behave kare jaise malvka kar rahi thi ki nahin main to yahi rahoongi aur bacchon ki tarah jid kare to aap kya karoge

Jaise koi chota, baca baar baar yeh kahe ki yeh mobile main se khelna to kya karoge yeh mobile mera hai use kitna bhi samjho to kya karoge agar woh laakh samjane pur shant nahin ho raha hai to yehi kahoge na acha bhai yeh mobile lo aur khelo

Phir jaise malvika anupama ka example de rahi thi agar anupama yahan reh sakti hai shah house mein e ven after divorce to main ( malvika) kyon nahin reh sakti to us time anupama ka kya jawab hona chahiye

To anupama ne malvika ko waise hi deal jaise chote bachche ko deal karte hain

Malvika abhi choti bachi jaise behave kar rahi hai

Abhi anuj aur anupama pshychatrist ke paas jaayenge for malvika

Dude baccha roega to us ko apna mbl denge na...ab wo padosi k mobile k liye rone lagega to padosi ka mbl utha k thore na de denge😕

Kavya theka thore na le k baithi hai anu k bf ki behen k mental health ka aur na hi rehab kholi hai pshyco logo k liye🤣

Use padosi ka mobile ka utha ke nahin de dete but us time situation ko shaant karne ke liye bachon se aisi hi jhuth muth ka bol dete hai ki haan mobile tumhara hai magar iska matlab yeh nahin ki use mobile sachmuch de diya jaata hai. Woh to use shaant karne ke liye use bola jaata hai

To anupama ne bhi aisi hi. Jhooth mooth ya malvika ko man behlane ke liye bol diya

Waise anupama shuru mein yahi bola tha tumhe bhai ke ghar aana chahiye

Jub dekha ki malvika bachon ki tarah adi hui hai to aisi hi anupama ne jhooth muth ka bol diya ki tum reh sakti ho

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Use padosi ka mobile ka utha ke nahin de dete but us time situation ko shaant karne ke liye bachon se aisi hi jhuth muth ka bol dete hai ki haan mobile tumhara hai magar iska matlab yeh nahin ki use mobile sachmuch de diya jaata hai. Woh to use shaant karne ke liye use bola jaata hai

To anupama ne bhi aisi hi. Jhooth mooth ya malvika ko man behlane ke liye bol diya

Waise anupama shuru mein yahi bola tha tumhe bhai ke ghar aana chahiye

Jub dekha ki malvika bachon ki tarah adi hui hai to aisi hi anupama ne jhooth muth ka bol diya ki tum reh sakti ho

Seriously?? There was no jhoot-moot in what Anupama did !!

Like memeber shriz said, if the kid is throwing a fuss to play on a mobile phone, and I want to calm him/her down, I would give my phone if I had one. Not take someone else's phone! Plus Malvika is not a 2 year old to throw tantrums for god's sake!

In this case, Anupama gave permission to someone, who is not related to her, whom she has met 1 day ago to live in a house that is not hers, & to top this, she herself left the house after she realized this house was not for her!! What convoluted logic is this??

What was even surprising was everyone agreeing to Anupama's arrangement instantly! 🤔 Is their house some kind of dharamshala?😳

I completely agree with usernameyrkkh, Anupama has no clue how to respect boundaries. Along with Malvika, Anu also needs to get her head checked 😲 I wonder what AK sees in her 🤔

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Jub aapke saamne jub koi bache ki tarah behave kare jaise malvka kar rahi thi ki nahin main to yahi rahoongi aur bacchon ki tarah jid kare to aap kya karoge

Jaise koi chota, baca baar baar yeh kahe ki yeh mobile main se khelna to kya karoge yeh mobile mera hai use kitna bhi samjho to kya karoge agar woh laakh samjane pur shant nahin ho raha hai to yehi kahoge na acha bhai yeh mobile lo aur khelo

Phir jaise malvika anupama ka example de rahi thi agar anupama yahan reh sakti hai shah house mein e ven after divorce to main ( malvika) kyon nahin reh sakti to us time anupama ka kya jawab hona chahiye

To anupama ne malvika ko waise hi deal jaise chote bachche ko deal karte hain

Malvika abhi choti bachi jaise behave kar rahi hai

Abhi anuj aur anupama pshychatrist ke paas jaayenge for malvika

Are yaar par anupama ye sab kar hi kyun rahi hai😆

Uska na sasural hai wo na Maayka.. who d hell is she to give mukku permission to stay in that paagalkhana without asking the original malkin of the house..

Baat yahan ye hai hi nahi ke mahaan anupama devi ne aisa isliye kiya ya isliye nahi kiya..baat ye hain ke usne kyun bich me bola?? Uska abhi koi right hi nahi banta..

Bewakoof to pahle hi kaafi jyada thi..ab to day by day besharam bhi ho gayi hai..🤢🤢

While I agree 💯 that Anu needs to draw boundaries, have spine or shall I say some self respect. And we can have almost 💯 scenarios for that...

I feel this one is not right, I felt here see gave permission only on behalf of Anuj..she explained herself only to Anuj, with Anuj she has that haq...

If I want to rant...her Bhashan on V as perfect pita, beta... teaching Kavya how to be perfect bahu.. B**S**... How misogynist is she herself on putting entire responsibility and blame on Kavya.. your Baa is not bhagwan, she is w***h..

honestly Anu herself is responsible for most of her problems.. that mother son-duo did her character assassination but she kept on justifying herself seriously where they even looking for honest answers... aise to Anupama ko sab pata hai, doesnt she knew how sick those people are ....and she is still looking after them what bl***y message is she giving to Pakhi and audience...even in hospital who the hell was V to give her permission to go for Anuj..why did she hold his hand there.. complete nonsense...

And the girgit behaviour, night main baa ko maaf nahi karungi bapuji ko hurt dekhke.. morning fighting for that same lady with V... I literally hated how she planned there marriage.. and yes, when V kept hand on her shoulder she should have reacted..Anuj despite being friends didn't had that liberty.. you mean your X husband still holds all physical rights to you..is he really a paraya mard..when Anuj came for baa marriage, I am happy my family accepted you...kaunsi family.. you are better an orphan than having such family...

Last rant..stop making Kinjal, Samar and Nandu another doormats like yourself.. Kinjal should have given back to baa but you made her apologize, sick...

I should stop here...I can go on pages otherwise. Truth being as much as I love Anuj and MaAn..I am not blind or delusional to defend Anupama she needs to change... however I am also aware that it won't happen as Makers don't want it, whitewash will continue... infact, in between they also used Anuj for same.....I was relieved with precap today where Anuj showed his disappointment over V as Muku partner.

Originally posted by: shriz

Dude baccha roega to us ko apna mbl denge na...ab wo padosi k mobile k liye rone lagega to padosi ka mbl utha k thore na de denge😕

Kavya theka thore na le k baithi hai anu k bf ki behen k mental health ka aur na hi rehab kholi hai pshyco logo k liye🤣

Hahahah..kal ko mukku kahegi raj se shaadi karni hai karni hai🤣 Anupama madam anuj ko samjhayegi karne do😆 Kisi bahar wale se kare isse accha jise hum jaante hai usi se karle🤣bewakoof aurat ke logic meri samajh se bahar hai🤢