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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Psychologically speaking, I don't necessarily expect that Virat would give straight answers or to be able to convincingly give assurances to the questions asked of him. That may have been possible if he was indeed involved in a secret mission. Here he is doing something grossly illegal....he is going to be stuck for words, fumbling with his reasons. Imagine when we do something wrong or we lie....we act unsure, nervous, fumbling

Illogical thing is he expects family or sai to not question him about his obvious odd actions. Does he really think family won't question him why he didn't attend their calls or function. He is afraid to even call sai to inform her that he won't come but not at all afraid to think how he gonna face sai or family after failing to keep his promise of shopping and function. It's like he will do everything which makes others suspect him but he will play victim card by saying I am bechara. When you are hiding something then hide it properly instead of giving hints to people to suspect 🤦.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Psychologically speaking, I don't necessarily expect that Virat would give straight answers or to be able to convincingly give assurances to the questions asked of him. That may have been possible if he was indeed involved in a secret mission. Here he is doing something grossly illegal....he is going to be stuck for words, fumbling with his reasons. Imagine when we do something wrong or we lie....we act unsure, nervous, fumbling



True! I was just expecting mostly Ashwini saying what sunny said blankly today that his friend can’t betray sai this way. But sunny’s understanding of virat would be different from Ashwini. Sunny could never believe virat would cheat sai even after knowing what relationship they share. But parents can’t know their kids in that zone, so I think Ashwini’s questions/fear come from there. Sammy’s view of virat must have blurred because of the reasons we all know.

At this moment no one can assure sai. I m not sure she will trust virat after tomorrow’s big reveal, even virat if tells the truth. That’s the tragedy. It should have come from virat’s mouth not from mohits mouth. But as you said, his secrecy and fumbling for too long will cause more damage only. That’s why I said Ashwini’s reassurance that virat can’t go wrong that way would have given sai some perspective. Now I think sai will believe only hard evidence 😢

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Posted: 3 years ago

But isnt he an ips officer. Tomm if hes put in z position where he has to hide sensitive info thats truly official, he will do it right.... If he is so confident that hes doing the right thing , then why fumble. On the contrary if he himself is not convinced he's doing the right thing -then yes, he cannot lie/speak convincingly. So not only does he know its illegal, he must have doubt about the validity of his actions- however That dilemma was never shown..

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes i agree Nini were soft still but I felt the innuendo towards infedility. I am glad they didn’t hide and asked him directly. But it pains to see absolutely no one gave him benefit of doubt. For samrat too, virat asked him not to suspect him. Only Sunny would have given him that comfort. Yesterday his words showed the trust on his friend and his love. I think only Ashwini knows his feelings other than Sunny. So I felt she should have spoken to both like she always does. May be tomorrow? But it’s too late.

Keeping aside all the risk and wrong path he chose to protect sruthi, there is no unconditional trust he earned in his 28 years! That surprised me. But their marriage is also such that the lack of normalcy can warrant this kind of suspicion. Especially for a man. I don’t think Sammy or ninad suspects him of cheating his duty here? Are they?

Son of the house is not going to office, is away from the house day and night, without letting anyone know, without picking up their calls and now there is some woman in the picture? The family is not supposed to question him? Any family would. My brother would get danda if he does not pick our calls being away this way... I mean they all know its not even official. He has even been given some benefit of doubt when he went away lying that its official and was out with a woman whole night and DIG is standing there asking about his whereabouts. They let him be. He could go out for the wrong reasons/right reasons, from family's perspective are they not right to question his escapades and unavailability even when they are calling him? 28 years or 60 years, there is some decorum of the family. Exactly this used to be questioned, when Sai would be out beyond 7 right? Because joint family decorum. I saw a lot of posts supporting the joint family questioning her character when she was found in the house with a man, when they were all there, because 'joint family's decorum'. Where does the decorum goes when it comes to the son of the house? There were even questions on how uncomfortably close Sai was to Ajinkya for any friend by the same family members.

Saadhika, You can see Virat's issues, because you feel his hurt and pain...but how is the family supposed to behave and react, when he is not even letting them know anything. Even after 2 days of being dubious? Any family would get anxious. For the first time this family is even questioning him, otherwise it was daily occurrence for Sai. All this while when she was put on spot for her mistakes or no mistakes, we had to let it go since the family is orthodox and when it comes to the son of the house, the same orthodox family is expected to be open minded and trust the son?

In all this I find Sai wrong because she did not let them know that he talked about being in some musibat and Mohit is absolutely wrong in not going and talking to Virat first. He first asked Sai to keep and eye on him, adding to her already disoriented thoughts and now bringing it all out this way. 👎🏼

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

True! I was just expecting mostly Ashwini saying what sunny said blankly today that his friend can’t betray sai this way. But sunny’s understanding of virat would be different from Ashwini. Sunny could never believe virat would cheat sai even after knowing what relationship they share. But parents can’t know their kids in that zone, so I think Ashwini’s questions/fear come from there. Sammy’s view of virat must have blurred because of the reasons we all know.

At this moment no one can assure sai. I m not sure she will trust virat after tomorrow’s big reveal, even virat if tells the truth. That’s the tragedy. It should have come from virat’s mouth not from mohits mouth. But as you said, his secrecy and fumbling for too ping will cause more damage only. That’s why I said Ashwini’s reassurance that virat can’t go wrong that way would have given sai some perspective. Now I think sai will believe only hard evidence 😢

@bold Exactly. Ashwini will rightfully be extremely worried and anxious... considering the dire circumstances. She will demand to know what's going on .... something most parents would do in her place. If it was something less serious, it would have been a different matter. And she too would get a jolt with tomorrow's big reveal from Mohit.

Second para: Agree. Stage is set for separation.

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Posted: 3 years ago

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But isnt he an ips officer. Tomm if hes put in z position where he has to hide sensitive info thats truly official, he will do it right.... If he is so confident that hes doing the right thing , then why fumble. On the contrary if he himself is not convinced he's doing the right thing -then yes, he cannot lie/speak convincingly. So not only does he know its illegal, he must have doubt about the validity of his actions- however That dilemma was never shown..

@bold Exactly the problem with this joke of a writing.

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Posted: 3 years ago

No they should question nothing wrong. I was talking about no one trusting his fidelity..I don’t see them questioning his loyalty towards duty. Did they? The question on infidelity comes because their marriage is not normal. Sai would have been given free pass here. (only virat suspected Her with ajinkya) but men are suspected more.


sunny for example would not have suspected him of infidelity because friends share these things you know!! So I was just sympathetic to him that no one from his family trusts him in this area! Not that they should not question him. They should. Atleast Ashwini’s assurance to sai that his son would not cheat her for a woman would have given sai some perspective.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Son of the house is not going to office, is away from the house day and night, without letting anyone know, without picking up their calls and now there is some woman in the picture? The family is not supposed to question him? Any family would. My brother would get danda if he does not pick our calls being away this way... I mean they all know its not even official. He has even been given some benefit of doubt when he went away lying that its official and was out with a woman whole night and DIG is standing there asking about his whereabouts. They let him be. He could go out for the wrong reasons/right reasons, from family's perspective are they not right to question his escapades and unavailability even when they are calling him? 28 years or 60 years, there is some decorum of the family. Exactly this used to be questioned, when Sai would be out beyond 7 right? Because joint family decorum. I saw a lot of posts supporting the joint family questioning her character when she was found in the house with a man, when they were all there, because 'joint family's decorum'. Where does the decorum goes when it comes to the son of the house? There were even questions on how uncomfortably close Sai was to Ajinkya for any friend by the same family members.

Saadhika, You can see Virat's issues, because you feel his hurt and pain...but how is the family supposed to behave and react, when he is not even letting them know anything. Even after 2 days of being dubious? Any family would get anxious. For the first time this family is even questioning him, otherwise it was daily occurrence for Sai. All this while when she was put on spot for her mistakes or no mistakes, we had to let it go since the family is orthodox and when it comes to the son of the house, the same orthodox family is expected to be open minded and trust the son?

In all this I find Sai wrong because she did not let them know that he talked about being in some musibat and Mohit is absolutely wrong in not going and talking to Virat first. He first asked Sai to keep and eye on him, adding to her already disoriented thoughts and now bringing it all out this way. 👎🏼

Sai didn't trust his words about job in risk and all. That's why she didn't thought about it. Sai thought all he said was to assure her with lies. Because the previous moment she caught his lie about shruti being professional/ personal matter. After their discussion in last sat episode sai said I don't know whether to trust your words or actions. She wasn't convinced by his words on vaada, job in risk because she caught him lying the previous moment about professional/ personal thing about shruti. So she thought all he said was lie only. His actions also made him a lier infront of her. Honestly no one will believe keeping in touch with a woman secretly has something to do with job factor and it is very well known fact that shruti thing is not professional one.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

@bold Exactly. Ashwini will rightfully be extremely worried and anxious... considering the dire circumstances. She will demand to know what's going on .... something most parents would do in her place. If it was something less serious, it would have been a different matter. And she too would get a jolt with tomorrow's big reveal from Mohit.

Second para: Agree. Stage is set for separation.

I think virat leaves this time.


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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I think virat leaves this time.


I would prefer Sai leaving any day. Virat can leave or not leave. Thats up to him. But she needs to get out of this house, because the family is so toxic to not be happy for her achievements even when they are at her college for an award ceremony.

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