Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 2 - Page 74

Originally posted by: Charishma

Exactly. Upbringing matters. I'm going to back-track from the OST 😆, which btw I love Jaaniya and am too busy fangirling those scenes to think about if it's misplaced 😆

I like how they are interspersing the drama and jaaaniyaaa with scenes that not only contrast the families but also their differing values. They are telling us what Imlie's relationship with Aryan would be like and what her life as a R family member would be like.

Most of the T's view Imlie as some sort of lakshmi because she's stood by their son, her eyes have love for him, blah blah. In that house love is given and taken away at one's discretion based on the other's behavior. It's conditional.

Whereas the R's simply enjoy Imlie for who she is and with no expectations. She doesn't have to behave a particular way for them to love her. It's unconditional.

For the C's, there's a lack of real love, and for that I pity them. Neither woman knows what it feels like to be accepted for who you are, only for what you project to the world.

I went off on a tangent 😆

As far as Aryan goes, yes he can be an ass, but I agree he's only grey. Not controlling. The urge to control stems from ego and insecurity. An I-can't-accept-that-you-are-your-own-person type of thing. This I've seen modelled in Aditya. And Malini. Not Aryan. And honestly Aryan isn't required to roll over and worship at Imlie's feet. I think some get turned off of him because this is the expectation. They want him to project this new-age feminism that actually is the enemy of real feminism. Now I've gone and done it, mentioned the F word 😆😆

I love how you breakdown the families. Their unconditional love is what makes the R’s so enjoyable. The lack of expectations to be something she isn’t. I also appreciate that even though Aryan’s mom would love for the two to be together, she never has that the forefront of her mind. It’s always about Imlie’s happiness and well-being independent of her son.

With the T’s, agree, even though they’ve apparently accepted her their love still seems conditional based on what she can do for them and her eventually one day coming back to their family. This is why I liked Adi’s mom pointing out that they actually haven’t stood up for done anything for het (although I guess they did take a stand the day she walked out of their home) for her. Because they haven’t. They’re son, who’s a grown ass man, who’s apparently a top tier reporter (all meaning he should know better) is being a total jerk but beyond this is being especially disrespectful to Imlie and they’re all standing by watching and expecting her to make the most of it still.

I can’t even speak to the C women. That’s a whole different level but you’re absolutely right. They don’t actually know what love is. Which is why even after all they’ve done, they still aren’t satisfied because how dare Imlie find the strength to keep moving forward when they can’t be happy even having “won”. M wanted Adi, she got him, what does it matter what Imlie does?!

@Bold: 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes!! Think about it, do you want a man who rolls over and worships you, solves every problem for you, etc.? Or do you want a man that challenges you, that’s actually a partner? I mean yes there have been moments where I was like - that was a bit harsh, but overall he’s just got higher expectations of her, expectations she would have if she had more confidence in herself. But she’s been surrounded by people that have just humoured her and sought to clip her wings, make sure she knew her place, instead of allowing her to soar - which is what Aryan does.

Originally posted by: PreetD

I love how you breakdown the families. Their unconditional love is what makes the R’s so enjoyable. The lack of expectations to be something she isn’t. I also appreciate that even though Aryan’s mom would love for the two to be together, she never has that the forefront of her mind. It’s always about Imlie’s happiness and well-being independent of her son.

With the T’s, agree, even though they’ve apparently accepted her their love still seems conditional based on what she can do for them and her eventually one day coming back to their family. This is why I liked Adi’s mom pointing out that they actually haven’t stood up for done anything for het (although I guess they did take a stand the day she walked out of their home) for her. Because they haven’t. They’re son, who’s a grown ass man, who’s apparently a top tier reporter (all meaning he should know better) is being a total jerk but beyond this is being especially disrespectful to Imlie and they’re all standing by watching and expecting her to make the most of it still.

I can’t even speak to the C women. That’s a whole different level but you’re absolutely right. They don’t actually know what love is. Which is why even after all they’ve done, they still aren’t satisfied because how dare Imlie find the strength to keep moving forward when they can’t be happy even having “won”. M wanted Adi, she got him, what does it matter what Imlie does?!

@Bold: 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes!! Think about it, do you want a man who rolls over and worships you, solves every problem for you, etc.? Or do you want a man that challenges you, that’s actually a partner? I mean yes there have been moments where I was like - that was a bit harsh, but overall he’s just got higher expectations of her, expectations she would have if she had more confidence in herself. But she’s been surrounded by people that have just humoured her and sought to clip her wings, make sure she knew her place, instead of allowing her to soar - which is what Aryan does.

Second bold - Malini wants Imlie to justify her choices and her own behaviour. If she’s been driven to this, why isn’t Imlie? The conclusion, that there is something inherently wrong with her and she needs to fix it if she wants any happiness in life is one that she unfortunately may never reach. I really do feel sorry for her. The way she looked at Aryan when he blocked that slap, so curious.
The third bold - that! It’s a freeing kind of love. 🥰

Originally posted by: Exuberant_Soul

AWAARI🤣🤣🤣

“Ye dil ye paagal dil mera, kyun bujh gayaa awaargi

is dasht mein ek sheher tha, woh kya hua aawaargi..”

Oddly reminded of this shayari/qawaali 😅

Anyway off to read the next 15 pages 😆

Originally posted by: Charishma

First bold- so true. Like what is happening even with them. On one hand I’m annoyed and on the other I’m like it’s because of that we get jaaaaaniyaaas instead. I’ll take it 😂

Second bold - Malini wants Imlie to justify her choices and her own behaviour. If she’s been driven to this, why isn’t Imlie? The conclusion, that there is something inherently wrong with her and she needs to fix it if she wants any happiness in life is one that she unfortunately may never reach. I really do feel sorry for her. The way she looked at Aryan when he blocked that slap, so curious.
The third bold - that! It’s a freeing kind of love. 🥰

Bold #1 - Oh yes absolutely. I’m not going to complain about it too much. Their inactions lead to his reactions and I love it too much. 😂😂

Bold #2 - I agree. I feel sorry for her as well. She has a lot of work to do on herself, and until she does that she’ll never actually be happy. What an unfortunate way to go through life - especially when you have the means to seek out the actual support and tools you need to work through your issues.

Originally posted by: rekha02

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXyP3-_K7Ad/?utm_medium=copy_link

Post by creative director of Imlie

😭😭 the way she’s looking into his eyes —- it’s as if she’s searching for something she can’t even define. His gaze like a limitless expanse or a mirror. “ What you seek, you shall find” 😍

Originally posted by: SundariP

I really don't like those lines they used on the post.

yeah sounded possessive 🤡

or someone trolling 😅😂


EDIT:
the following 8 pages I felt like everyone went through the 7 stages of grief 😂😂 I agree with Happy-ji … half the time people read a nice line or 2 and then post without realizing context gets lost or manipulated 😆 Charishma & Preet are so positive regarding it that we should enjoy this thirst-trap ride 😂 & like Libran advises “chill”

Also, are there any video makers in the group? A song came up on my playlist that I think would be perfect, especially after the last couple episodes.

Kivien Mukhade Toh - there are so many covers of this song. Most of them beautiful cause the lyrics are just perfect!

Hasi from Hamari Adhuri Kahani is another one. I love it and it’s so fitting for them.

Originally posted by: libran90

Totally. He is in it to win it.

He will not let her walk out on him, or maybe won't give her the chance to. Ulta I feel his passion will just scare Imlie a little. She isn't used to that kind of passion. In short, she isn't used to feel so desired by someone.

Now the turn in posts are giving me flashbacks of our brief foray into Aru’s Dom tendencies 😆

Originally posted by: Pavilion_way

I had that thought a few days ago.

Hopefully he will get to try her moti roti.

He will probably eat it in front of Adi 😉, which would be a scene to watch

Coming back to the OST's:

I'm glad that you guys brought up "Piya tose milne choda hain sara jahan": TBH I think its totally meant for Arylie. If we are to backtrack everything that has happened to Imlie and the way she met Aryan, she has literally left her entire world (Her mother, Naani, Dadda, her other annoying family, her unworthy husband, her home, and her hostel - even though forcefully) behind just to meet him.

Jaaniyaa is pure bliss ❤️ and hopefully, Imlie will also get on board the Jaaniyaa express soon

honestly, while I know this song is supposed to be cute, I actually felt bad for Imlie listening to it. Literally Imlie left everything and went through everything for AdiLie && Adi didn’t treat her nicely or accept her until that one trip to PD. That honeymoon period of total openness and unadulterated love lasted for maybe 3 weeks and then the months of torture and distrust for Imlie occurred 😩😬 So Piya Tose always felt bittersweet for me

Caught up...

Highlight is precap 😆