vivian dsena in a relationship - Page 5

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

But how did the writer get influenced n change the script for abhiya?vahbiz complained against vivian for domestic violence in the divorce petition.what went ugly between them?they seemed so much in love with each other.

That's the point right. We don't know what exactly happened on set but two of Vivian's shows had the same issues. And in both he didn't get along with his leading lady. Whereas after the divorce was finalised, he was completely fine with Rubina and now with Eisha.

I might be forgetting some things coz I am trying to recall a decade old feud lol. Tagging Meghana here, maybe she remembers.

Coming to the DV issue...there's one thing that struck me as odd. If he did that to her, then why was there an entire alimony angle? Vahbiz was demanding crores from him. Why? Wouldn't the victim want to get away asap and cut all ties with the perpetrator? Also not to forget, Vahbiz belongs to a filthy rich family. They are old money and have been in business since years. The Dorabjees have had a huge contribution in making Pune. Its not like she needs the money...then why try take everything he's earned over the years?

But we don't know enough about the divorce. Nothing's been announced so far.

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

That's the point right. We don't know what exactly happened on set but two of Vivian's shows had the same issues. And in both he didn't get along with his leading lady. Whereas after the divorce was finalised, he was completely fine with Rubina and now with Eisha.

I might be forgetting some things coz I am trying to recall a decade old feud lol. Tagging Meghana here, maybe she remembers.

Coming to the DV issue...there's one thing that struck me as odd. If he did that to her, then why was there an entire alimony angle? Vahbiz was demanding crores from him. Why? Wouldn't the victim want to get away asap and cut all ties with the perpetrator? Also not to forget, Vahbiz belongs to a filthy rich family. They are old money and have been in business since years. The Dorabjees have had a huge contribution in making Pune. Its not like she needs the money...then why try take everything he's earned over the years?

But we don't know enough about the divorce. Nothing's been announced so far.

I don’t remember much beyond what you already said Ashley, but I can already see a stark contrast in offscreen moments between the post leap pkyek and mb pair, and the shakti and sirf tum pair 😆 he looks like he has room to breathe 🤣 and sirf tum will be the first show where she’s not around to interfere

as for the DV issue, shouldn’t there be more than just a divorce case or whatever for it? Like a criminal case? Why wasn’t there? Why alimony? I also heard on the flip side, that she cheated on him 😆

Originally posted by: simply.meghana

I don’t remember much beyond what you said Ashley, but I can already see a stark contrast between offscreen moments between the post leap pkyek and mb pair, and the shakti and sirf tum pair 😆

as for the DV issue, shouldn’t there be more then just a divorce case for it? Like a criminal case? Why wasn’t there? Why alimony? I also heard on the flip side, that she cheated on him 😆

DV is a very sensitive issue and many individuals, both male and female, bear the brunt of it. The trauma can last for years and so can the cases. Look at Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, how ugly things had gotten between them. That is a total case of DV and yet the court proceedings are on after she slandered him publicly.

This is why I don't wanna say anything that makes me sound like an insensitive prick.

The cheating angle is also there, so this entire mix of what we know has very sensitive issues, you know. There's just so much going on. Because there was an article in which Vahbiz also said something around the lines of: she has loved Vivian alot and it might take her a lifetime to get over him. DV ke case mein koi aisa bolega?

From what I felt when I met Viv was that he's very different than other actors. I found him to be very grounded, humble and taking his job as a job, not as a luxury. He was totally in love with Vahbiz too, you could see it on his face. And a very good positive vibe...I have always been very sensitive to people's auras in general 😆

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

DV is a very sensitive issue and many individuals, both male and female, bear the brunt of it. The trauma can last for years and so can the cases. Look at Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, how ugly things had gotten between them. That is a total case of DV and yet the court proceedings are on after she slandered him publicly.

This is why I don't wanna say anything that makes me sound like an insensitive prick.

The cheating angle is also there, so this entire mix of what we know has very sensitive issues, you know. There's just so much going on. Because there was an article in which Vahbiz also said something around the lines of: she has loved Vivian alot and it might take her a lifetime to get over him. DV ke case mein koi aisa bolega?

From what I felt when I met Viv was that he's very different than other actors. I found him to be very grounded, humble and taking his job as a job, not as a luxury. He was totally in love with Vahbiz too, you could see it on his face. And a very good positive vibe...I have always been very sensitive to people's auras in general 😆

You bring a good point with the trauma associated with it and with the Depp case. Very messy and ugly.

she wouldn’t say that if it was a DV case, no 😆 it’s all very confusing, but it could just be some other thing we don’t know about, and honestly we don’t need to. I still don’t have a good image of her and never will.

Originally posted by: simply.meghana

You bring a good point with the trauma associated with it and with the Depp case. Very messy and ugly.

she wouldn’t say that if it was a DV case, no 😆 it’s all very confusing, but it could just be some other thing we don’t know about, and honestly we don’t need to. I still don’t have a good image of her and never will, but that’s for the things we’ve seen publicly.

She wasn't on set that day, nahi toh maybe I'd have caught something 😆

Its just surprising that the divorce hasn't happened yet.

That's why I have so many questions.

If it was DV then:

Why doesn't she want to end it and get away from him as soon as possible?

Why does she want alimony? In her instagram post she spoke of the alimony first and then said she's gonna fight for her rights...isn't that the alimony she's talking about? Here's the link to that:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BwjIDvZHyH-/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_medium=loading

And why say things like it'll take me a lifetime to get over Vivian if he did that? Link: https://www.indiatoday.in/television/celebrity/story/tv-actress-vahbiz-dorabjee-says-it-will-take-a-lifetime-to-forget-vivian-dsena-but-he-is-a-closed-chapter-now-lifetv-1022903-2017-07-07

Either the information we have is wrong or its not complete. Either way, this has gone on for years and it isn't good for either of them. The only ones who are benefitting from this are their lawyers. I hope they can find a mid-ground, agree on it and move on with their lives. Whatever Vivian went through, he deserves happiness. Whatever Vahbiz went through, she too deserves happiness. I am a girl and would never wish ill upon another girl. But I also have love and respect for Vivian. So I do want this to end neutrally for both of them.

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

She wasn't on set that day, nahi toh maybe I'd have caught something 😆

Its just surprising that the divorce hasn't happened yet.

That's why I have so many questions.

If it was DV then:

Why doesn't she want to end it and get away from him as soon as possible?

Why does she want alimony? In her instagram post she spoke of the alimony first and then said she's gonna fight for her rights...isn't that the alimony she's talking about? Here's the link to that:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BwjIDvZHyH-/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_medium=loading

And why say things like it'll take me a lifetime to get over Vivian if he did that? Link: https://www.indiatoday.in/television/celebrity/story/tv-actress-vahbiz-dorabjee-says-it-will-take-a-lifetime-to-forget-vivian-dsena-but-he-is-a-closed-chapter-now-lifetv-1022903-2017-07-07

Either the information we have is wrong or its not complete. Either way, this has gone on for years and it isn't good for either of them. The only ones who are benefitting from this are their lawyers. I hope they can find a mid-ground, agree on it and move on with their lives. Whatever Vivian went through, he deserves happiness. Whatever Vahbiz went through, she too deserves happiness. I am a girl and would never wish ill upon another girl. But I also have love and respect for Vivian. So I do want this to end neutrally for both of them.

I really thought the divorce proceedings ended years ago 😆 I didn’t know it would take this long but I guess here we are. I have the same questions as you but I doubt we’ll be getting answers to them. And that’s okay too. I just hope this all ends soon. It’s for the best

I just read the second article for the first time 😆 those words do not make any sense for a DV matter

Originally posted by: simply.meghana

I really thought the divorce proceedings ended years ago 😆 I didn’t know it would take this long but I guess here we are. I have the same questions as you but I doubt we’ll be getting answers to them. And that’s okay too. I just hope this all ends soon. It’s for the best

I just read the second article for the first time 😆 those words do not make any sense for a DV matter

I thought so too. I know it went on for a year and neither of them spoke about it so it was safe to assume it was over. But in this NRI girl article I was surprised to read its still ongoing.

I guess the reason why lots of people are also looking for answers is because of how public Vahbiz and Vivian were right from dating till their marriage and even after that. The stark contrast in not getting any information now is alarming.

The second article is why I get a feeling that DV wala bit is most likely false. It could be wrong information.

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

I thought so too. I know it went on for a year and neither of them spoke about it so it was safe to assume it was over. But in this NRI girl article I was surprised to read its still ongoing.

I guess the reason why lots of people are also looking for answers is because of how public Vahbiz and Vivian were right from dating till their marriage and even after that. The stark contrast in not getting any information now is alarming.

The second article is why I get a feeling that DV wala bit is most likely false. It could be wrong information.

We still don’t know if this news is true either 🤣 but VD hasn’t denied it either yet so can’t be sure 😆

Could be some media cooked up stories? Who knows? 😆

Originally posted by: simply.meghana

We still don’t know if this news is true either 🤣 but VD hasn’t denied it either yet so can’t be sure 😆

Could be some media cooked up stories? Who knows? 😆

VD hasn't said anything at all 😆

But Vahbiz did not deny alimony bit, based on the msg she put up.

Also Kishwer and Suyyash are still friends with both of them...if one of them was majorly wrong, I think they would chose sides.

Tbh the feeling I get is they drifted apart and something triggered their separation. Vahbiz might have demanded alimony which Vivian refused to give. The DV and cheating angle might not be true.

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

VD hasn't said anything at all 😆

But Vahbiz did not deny alimony bit, based on the msg she put up.

Also Kishwer and Suyyash are still friends with both of them...if one of them was majorly wrong, I think they would chose sides.

Tbh the feeling I get is they drifted apart and something triggered their separation. Vahbiz might have demanded alimony which Vivian refused to give. The DV and cheating angle might not be true.

Yeah she didn’t 😆 and I’m feeling the same as you, perhaps they just drifted and something else happened

there was a video interview of Vahbiz regarding the divorce I feel about a month about, didn’t watch it, but the thumbnail felt strange on its own 😆 maybe because of the negative perception I have