ZDMN EDT#12| 21/12 highlights pg 144 - Page 105

Am I the only one who wants Kundan to be a grey character?

Imagine(I'm going to get killed for this but I can't help it.)...a parallel universe where Kundan was an amazing person, and Sanj actually found him worth it. And SaDan exists, and they agree to get married happily. Sanj remains a commando and Kundan is an efficient...and efficient...cook or businessman maybe?

Yahan tak sab sahi hai.

But Sid still loved her. And worked with her. And watched SaDan falling in love, Sanj getting married happily to and loving a person who wasn't him and everyone is so happy for her ....and his heart breaks each day when Sanj arrives for work, or talks to Kundan and he is reminded of what he lost- a million opportunities, every time he could have made her his own, but never tried. And Sanj never knew what she meant to Sid.

Sheesh. I think I'm overthinking.

Originally posted by: WinterAy

Am I the only one who wants Kundan to be a grey character?

Imagine(I'm going to get killed for this but I can't help it.)...a parallel universe where Kundan was an amazing person, and Sanj actually found him worth it. And SaDan exists, and they agree to get married happily. Sanj remains a commando and Kundan is an efficient...and efficient...cook or businessman maybe?

Yahan tak sab sahi hai.

But Sid still loved her. And worked with her. And watched SaDan falling in love, Sanj getting married happily to and loving a person who wasn't him and everyone is so happy for her ....and his heart breaks each day when Sanj arrives for work, or talks to Kundan and he is reminded of what he lost- a million opportunities, every time he could have made her his own, but never tried. And Sanj never knew what she meant to Sid.

Sheesh. I think I'm overthinking.

ALL of this can happen except Kundan being an efficient cook😂.

Originally posted by: WinterAy

Am I the only one who wants Kundan to be a grey character?

Imagine(I'm going to get killed for this but I can't help it.)...a parallel universe where Kundan was an amazing person, and Sanj actually found him worth it. And SaDan exists, and they agree to get married happily. Sanj remains a commando and Kundan is an efficient...and efficient...cook or businessman maybe?

Yahan tak sab sahi hai.

But Sid still loved her. And worked with her. And watched SaDan falling in love, Sanj getting married happily to and loving a person who wasn't him and everyone is so happy for her ....and his heart breaks each day when Sanj arrives for work, or talks to Kundan and he is reminded of what he lost- a million opportunities, every time he could have made her his own, but never tried. And Sanj never knew what she meant to Sid.

Sheesh. I think I'm overthinking.

Show mein to nahin hoga pr tussi apni stories mein krlo 😂

Originally posted by: WinterAy

Am I the only one who wants Kundan to be a grey character?

Imagine(I'm going to get killed for this but I can't help it.)...a parallel universe where Kundan was an amazing person, and Sanj actually found him worth it. And SaDan exists, and they agree to get married happily. Sanj remains a commando and Kundan is an efficient...and efficient...cook or businessman maybe?

Yahan tak sab sahi hai.

But Sid still loved her. And worked with her. And watched SaDan falling in love, Sanj getting married happily to and loving a person who wasn't him and everyone is so happy for her ....and his heart breaks each day when Sanj arrives for work, or talks to Kundan and he is reminded of what he lost- a million opportunities, every time he could have made her his own, but never tried. And Sanj never knew what she meant to Sid.

Sheesh. I think I'm overthinking.

Now that I'm overthinking, I'll add something more to it.

Kundan was a nice person, but she never loved him. How much she had to pretend to be in love. Their 'happy' marriage was happy only to him, for her, just hundreds of sleepless nights hoping to see someone else sleeping next to her, holding her hand, kissing her goodbye when she left for work.

She still loved him, worked with him. And saw him falling out of love with her. He was happy at their wedding, she happy for everyone else, but silently wishing in vain that it was him whom she garlands. Loving anyone other than him felt like a task. And no one knew, how much she wanted to be with him, or how much she had hurt him already.

Her heart breaks each day when he comes to work, when she talks to Kundan wishing it were him. She is reminded of what she lost- a million opportunities, every time she could have made him her own, but never tried. And Siddhart never knew what he meant to Sanj.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Itna bhi difficult nahi hota agar Karan ko face kar usse bol deti she needs some time and space taaki woh khud ko sambhal sake. Aisa kehne par Karan uske aage-peeche nahi ghumta. But she chose to run away from facing Karan, the rejection, the reality the way it is, brave log aisa kaam nahi karte, woh har situation ka dat kar saamna karte hain, iss tarah usse bhaagte nahi. That's why I don't find her strong in dealing the rejection. Also I find her weak to handle emotions.

Waise tell me one thing, woh aage peeche ghoom hi kahe raho hain? To say sorry? For what? For saying No or saying No rudely?

He needs help (and keep Faizi's advise at bay)

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Waise tell me one thing, woh aage peeche ghoom hi kahe raho hain? To say sorry? For what? For saying No or saying No rudely?

He needs help (and keep Faizi's advise at bay)

He wants to say sorry because he thinks he was rude to her while saying No, which wasn't the case because he did say no without being rude but Monami's behaviour towards him makes him think that he was right in his thinking.

Plus,for somewhere making her feel that Monami ke liye uska care and concern isliye tha kyunki woh usse pyaar karta hain.

Mainly he wants to talk to her to clear everything, which she thought something else.

He doesn't need help. Karan and Monami just need to talk and clear everything.

Monami is in no mood to talk to him properly and listen what he wants to say, which is completely understandable after that rejection, but she's telling him to accept those feelings which she thinks he has for her, what to say about that..

Karan is not wrong in approaching her to say sorry when she is badly hurt by his words, because his words can heal her to some extent, make her feel better and can reduce the awkwardness which has aroused between them after that rejection.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

He wants to say sorry because he thinks he was rude to her while saying No, which wasn't the case because he did say no without being rude but Monami's behaviour towards him makes him think that he was right in his thinking.

Plus,for somewhere making her feel that Monami ke liye uska care and concern isliye tha kyunki woh usse pyaar karta hain.

Mainly he wants to talk to her to clear everything, which she thought something else.

He doesn't need help. Karan and Monami just need to talk and clear everything.

Monami is in no mood to talk to him properly and listen what he wants to say, which is completely understandable after that rejection, but she's telling him to accept those feelings which she thinks he has for her, what to say about that..

Karan is not wrong in approaching her to say sorry when she is badly hurt by his words, because his words can heal her to some extent, make her feel better and can reduce the awkwardness which has aroused between them after that rejection.

Tab toh problem donon me hain na☹.

Ek ko rejection samajh nahin aata, doosre ko khud kuch samajh nahin aa raha.

Donon ke friends bhi waise hi hain!

They have to understand, every life has own journey, its own script, its own pace, its own path, its own parameters.

Too much gyaan done😜.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Tab toh problem donon me hain na☹.

Ek ko rejection samajh nahin aata, doosre ko khud kuch samajh nahin aa raha.

Donon ke friends bhi waise hi hain!

They have to understand, every life has own journey, its own script, its own pace, its own path, its own parameters.

Too much gyaan done😜.

Yahan kisi ko kuch samajh nahi aata, sabse badi problem hi yahi hain😂😂😂

I feel Karan should give Monami sometime to come out of that state and approach her after a week or two, when he finds her in better state.

Monami needs to understand jo usse lag raha, zaroori nahi wahi sach ho, yeh sirf uska nazariya hain, ho sakta hain samne wala ka nazariya aapse alag ho and to continue the relationship with that person just like before you must respect other's feelings too.

Faizi and Sid needs to support their friends respectively without giving any of their love gyaans to them.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Yahan kisi ko kuch samajh nahi aata, sabse badi problem hi yahi hain😂😂😂

I feel Karan should give Monami sometime to come out of that state and approach her after a week or two, when he finds her in better state.

Monami needs to understand jo usse lag raha, zaroori nahi wahi sach ho, yeh sirf uska nazariya hain, ho sakta hain samne wala ka nazariya aapse alag ho and to continue the relationship with that person just like before you must respect other's feelings too.

Faizi and Sid needs to support their friends respectively without giving any of their love gyaans to them.

Eggjhactly.

Sabko pyaar me padne ki jaldi hain. Faltu ka pressure leke baithe hain🤦🏻‍♀️.

Originally posted by: WinterAy

Ek question...kya kisi aur ko bhi lagta hai ki makers purani platonic relationships jinki glances diye the, ab unko bhool chuke hai?

Like...Monami and Sumanji don't really talk now...and Sanj and Monu are roommates. They're hardly seen together in the same room, it has now become more of Sid's room. I have never seen them interact on anything besides clothes, dresses etc etc. Like Sanj would want to know about her lifestyle, and Monami about her life as a commando. There was this scene in the initial eps where they were talking about Sid and Karan...never got closure ,again.

And about SiMi too, Sid is mostly the only one show who is shown still actually valuing his friendship...Monu maybe is not that external in showing their bond...but she never asked Sid what's going on in his life. I hope she does after KJi heartbreak.

It's no longer the same KarZi as from the initial episodes. Nowadays Faizi is pretty much just telling him off on how he is putting off his feelings, and pretty much refusing to think from Karan's POV. And Karan, he's no longer shown close to Faizi. They hardly talk about anything that is not related to Monu. I mean.. they never asked how is Ammi, the other family.

It's no longer the same SaRan that we saw on the terrace or gym. Sanj no longer opens up to Karan, and Karan never asks, and never sees. Like remember he used to notice everytime something was wrong with her? This time, i understand him not being there out of respect maybe, he didn't even ask if she was alright after the whole dehydration thingy.And Sanj is no longer opening up to him, and hardly even talking to him.

SanZi! They showed a scene where Sanj was boxing with Faizi. We never got closure. But it was kinda balanced by the fact that he was there after Chakravyuh. And not just SanZi. I mean I have never seen KaSaF actually talk about something that is not related to a mission, like something happy, about families, maybe sharing a drink together.

We've never had an actual interaction between Faizi and Sid or Sanj and Koel or Sid and Chitra or Chitra and Sanj and many more.

And in case of SidSa, why is bala always involved? Like...he's a kid right? I actually wish ki after ya even during SidSa heartbreak, they pay attention to these platonic bonds too since they are way more difficult to portray than romantic ones.