Shiva has mentioned about sufferings twice in all.
Episode# 200 when she came back and indirectly when he apologized in episode# 273.
From episode # 145 till episode#199 when she decided come back, Shiva only talked about his POV, how he is not the right person for her, hence he decided to divorce her without even asking her opinion.
I agree Dhara’s has gone through so much and sacrificed a lot but the family always supported her no matter what and her sufferings are highlighted or mentioned by the brothers, now Suman as well.
But who did Raavi have for support from Sneha kaand until remarriage. Dhara did to some extent but she was warned by Shiva to stay out if it. Why are Raavi’s sufferings never highlighted? 😕
In hindsight Raavi got more abused by Suman than Dhara ever git abused by her pre-leap. Dhara went through hell, there is no denying it but she had Gaumbi who was her pillar of support. But Suman brought another woman for Shiva and him going along with it and justified it. Instead a good mother would have tried to make Shiva-Raavi work towards mending their marriage, which Suman never did, What can be more cruel than this? 😔
I can never accept Suman even when she will turn nice towards Raavi sometime in the future.
Exactly prema
I agree that dhara has done a lot for the pandya family.but she has always been acknowledged, praised, respected and loved to the point of devotion by everyone around her.
Dev broke his relationship because his bhabi was insulted by his girlfriend's family. Shiva married his childhood nemesis who was in love with his elder brother with just one line by dhara.raavi came back to pandya niwas the moment she came to know about dharas pregnancy forgetting her hurt and humilation.gombi gives in to every demand of dhara.whatever she wants, that happens.she even has a say whether rishita should buy a bangle worth rs500 or not.the entire pandya niwas revolves around her.
So forcefully using words such as tyaag and mahaan repeatedly doesn't suit her character.anybody who has watched the show from the beginning won't buy it.
Even if they play comic bgm when raavi is taunted by suman, her pain reaches the audience.even if she doesn't cry or screams, her sadness and hurt touches people.i also can never like suman like before.i may have if she got a proper realisation scene where she feels that she has wronged raavi.but i know that will never come.