Originally posted by: asmi_joya
True... He manipulates her a lot yaar...He at once says its professional and then says personal...You know its so difficult to be his wife...Sai has never asked him anything about his missions, apart from wishing his safety...But she knows this is no mission...He is very self absorbed in being Mahaan...I felt so bad for her in the precap and this man who has gone through all these frustrations is standing their clueless..Sai's defence then was that she is not in love, what how can this man be defended...
In this track atleast, they are not showing him to be trying to act mahaan....that's not his motivation
All that he is doing..he is doing out of guilt & grief...he is caught up in his remorse of having killed his friend.....and he wants to recuperate his wife....
They have established that he cannot reveal his secret to Sai...fine we will take that for now....that he is caught in a difficult position (we have to see this without judging his actions, however questionable it may be- he is doing something out of his emotions....)
But then, where is his guilt towards Sai? His sensitivity towards what she might be feeling? That is my main problem with this behaviour. There is no remorse on what he is doing to Sai. If he had, he would not have behaved as if Sai was overreacting. He would have sat her down, and earnestly, sincerely tried to reassure her. That this reassurance will hardly be sufficient is another matter. But atleast it shows, he can look beyond himself. This is just exposing his tendency to be self-absorbed. Before, SaiRat relationship was very uncertain - but now it is so much stronger and he also has an inkling that Sai is beginning to accept him as husband. So being self-absorbed then and being self-absorbed now are very different. His self-absorbed behaviour at this juncture only indicates that will always be like this. And they are showing him this way in this track exactly for this reason.....this will happen again. Very difficult to live with such people..

....he looked utterly lost !