Hey everyone 🤗
Is it me or is this the phase where both are to learn through Maline and Aryan manipulations that it’s not about holding hands when you understand another but more about learning not to leave each other’s hand while these misunderstandings are happing both in a way don’t mind the other hating each other but hate the fact that there doubt has lead them down this path of being unable to understand these emotions for what they are?
In a way all this while when Imlie has been bitter towards him and the marriage which she has described as being bound by faith and soul. When she understood his silence then why cannot she see the cry for help? Where is the spiritual wife she said she would be on a journey she would walk alone. Someone whom knows what it feels like to be abandoned today has left him stranded without an identity. He no longer a mentor, friend spouse or lover and today he is just a man walking on this planet for today he is even stripped of veins Aditya the journalist he was at the start of the journey when at least aloof to his feelings he knew where he stood and whom he was as a person. Stripped of his core identity and his truth his heart knew made him whom he was and the relationship he knew mattered and made him.
See there love for me was alway made up of three emotions, understanding, acceptance and appreciation that allow the other to be the best version of themselves. Today we can see they are neither for Imlie is walking around trying to please people whom have no say in her journey while the other is falling further into darkness that he cannot see a way forward from. They both are stranded waiting to be moored ashore.
The irony is that each time he has come home hurt he has not gone to Maline for advice or even a shoulder of friendship. He has kept it all within and if there was even a trust in that friendship would you not seek it? Seriously he keeps saying I will fulfil my responsibilities yet all are saying he wants to be with her and the marriage will be his redemption and his punishment. I ask what should he be punished for? Punished because he learnt what love was, opening his eyes to his truth or letting go of Maline so she could be free of a loveless marriage? How has his one action made him the root cause of the problem they see today?
Today he is spiritually broken and spiralling down hill believing that he was better off walking a path of responsibilities in a way I agree with Aps he is the only one walking his truth because although everyone says he has committed a mistake he was never one for hiding the truth. He neither tried at the start and nor did he when it lead to his marriage with Maline. He did say this to her at the pf trip too that she knew of all his troubles and was the only one that saw and knew his whole truth.
In a way the announcement of the death of his marriage is what Imlie did to him when she removed then the sindoor and mangalsutra. In a way she left a empty shell behind and called her relationship dead weight for she took away his right on them and the hope that came with it. How is that any different when he has officially taken the same stand and held true to whom he is. He has alway been a man of truth though is words his heart being the fact that is open to all through the weight he feels through the ink he carries as his responsibility. In a way his relationship with Imlie was bound by the need to seek out satyakaam truth pen it for all the see for what it was that bound him to her. In a way him ending it through the paper was a way for him to gain closure to that beginning. It was while he seeks this journey that his path connected to hers. Today when she no longer seeks his hand or his heart so why is he expected to keep that flame alive.
She was his faith while he was the voice that allowed others to see there truth and that’s what made them whole. Known when she walks around denying that connection, denying the symbolism of that relationship’s what is there left for him to hold on to return. Not once has she said how he has made her stronger because of him being there instead he is left with papers in his hand waiting for a sign for her to show him that all he saw was just that a misunderstanding.
It maybe me but he has allowed her to grow to where she is today, yes she has to foundation but the means to move ahead was the faith he showed her to keep on going and if she fell he would be there to hold her. Today he is falling and she is no where to be seen. In a way Imlie has allowed Maline to be the centre of her relationship allowed her needs to come first over her own. Even today Aditya is asking for her to come back, talk and fix the problems and guide him where the boundaries need to be drawn. He is not wrong wanting to work on that problems but when the one you seek no longer wishes to do so what do you do?
Sorry I do not connect the need of Imlie need Aryan as her new husband or role model. Seriously if we go to the core of the story then Imlie never wanted to fall in love or seek out a marriage of her own. If this is about her own self respect then she is enough to make it on her own. I do not care what others say but Aryan knows full well the game he is playing and has planned it from the start. He says what she wishes to her and calculates his next move upon the words she uttered. One thing he is naive off and shall soon learn Imlie may be an emotional fool whom craves acceptance from all but her heart longs for Aditya only and any harm his way is a bullet she shall steel her way anytime.
And these marriages may come ahead but there yearning for another will see there connect rise and win once again. One can be astray but faith shall bind them again for all these sub fans have forgotten that core or the story is adilie and without each other there supposed new partners will left with hallow shells and nothing else. It’s a pity that is what some people feel is what a relationship is all about.
I don’t know about you all but I am tired of everyone having this expectation that Aditya should be able to understand what Imlie feels and thinks. She has been shutting him out for days and hurting him with the biggest fear he is unable to face him being left alone without her. Today she left him stranded alone and bereft and he is not allowed to cry in anger.
Instead should she not try and understand, accept and learn what he is trying to tell her. Read behind the lines and see what he is longing for all along. He has been calling her to come home for so long. In a way the physical distance is not what should be measured amongst them for is it not about even when you are apart from the one you love, you are not at heart?
In a way glad they divorce happened at least this way everyone will realise that know when they unite is because a they were always supposed to be as faith intended ans one they both crave from the heart. Hopefully this will alway them to communicate and remove the bitterness that lay within or maybe that’s for another day when the marriage is at head 😆 Not sure about you all but these two won’t stop seeking the other just because of w paper being signed.
Hopefully this rant made some sense not sure what I have said 😆 I blame Imlie for the downward spiral 🤣🤣🤣
Edited by raaz19 - 3 years ago
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